So there is this guy whose store is close to my house, he usually comes around to fetch drinking water in my compound. We got along fine and I took him as my street junior bro ( He's married and I ain't )

Today he came around looking so dull and disturbed, I called him upstairs and asked what was wrong ( thinking it's issues with his biz ). With tears in his eyes he told me

He had woken up that morning without a single cash in his pocket and he had to get to the store in time. My guy asked his wife to pls assist him with Tfare, in which she swore that she has no cash with him but she will borrow from her friend who sells stuffs in the next compound.

She left for the next compound and didn't return for almost ten minutes before my guy decided to go check on her only to find her coming back inside without any cash in hand. With a worried look he asked her 'where is the money' only for her to reply that the money is inside their bed room which both of 'em just stepped out from

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

I was short of words when he finished with '' bros how could she do that to me when I spend all my money on her and our daughter"

I don’t understand why he is disappointed.
She saving money or she giving him 5h from the money?
I’m still lost.
Did she steal his money?
Please I need answers

Medianna:
I don’t understand why he is disappointed.
She saving money or she giving him 5h from the money?
I’m still lost.
Did she steal his money?
Please I need answers

she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby

He is even lucky she borrowed him.
That's just some of the things most people encounter in marriage.
Advice him to let it slide.

stunnert:
So there is this guy whose store is close to my house, he usually comes around to fetch drinking water in my compound. We got along fine and I took him as my street junior bro ( He's married and I ain't )

Today he came around looking so dull and disturbed, I called him upstairs and asked what was wrong ( thinking it's issues with his biz ). With tears in his eyes he told me

He had woken up that morning without a single cash in his pocket and he had to get to the store in time. My guy asked his wife to pls assist him with Tfare, in which she swore that she has no cash with him but she will borrow from her friend who sells stuffs in the next compound.

She left for the next compound and didn't return for almost ten minutes before my guy decided to go check on her only to find her coming back inside without any cash in hand. With a worried look he asked her 'where is the money' only for her to reply that the money is inside their bed room which both of 'em just stepped out from

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

I was short of words when he finished with '' bros how could she do that to me when I spend all my money on her and our daughter"

She still gave him the money right? EOD

Ahmed0336:
He is even lucky she borrowed him.
That's just some of the things most people encounter in marriage.
Advice him to let it slide.

Let it slide ke.. He should learn from that scenario. Tell him to save for the raining days,because God forbids his business crashes one day,that's how the wife will start treating him.. So,he should not be doing everything for the wife from now on.. Let her work her ass out too,and he should learn to save,no matter how little..

stunnert:

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

Why can't he simply take the shoe box from her?

Westerhoffe:
Some women are just scary…
What's the issue in saying, "I have but not much?"
Such lies ain't really necessary.

If she had been honest, that's how her husband would have been proud of her in his heart.

But she was honest. She could have easily pretended she infact borrowed the money. She even let the husband see she had more

In a short word,she is not a supportive wife.i wanted to give him an advice but when you said he has a child with her.

IMO, he shouldn't see the wife as a bad person. Infact he should correct her with love and also encourage her cos it's hard to see women disciplined enough to save and not squander money on frivolities. It takes some level of discipline to have savings. she must've tried to sort the emergency elsewhere but since it didn't work she had no option than to break her bank. So in short try and examine what happened with an open point on view make u no use small thing scatter your home.

Oil dey your head bro

UptownVibes:
Let it slide ke.. He should learn from that scenario. Tell him to save for the raining days,because God forbids his business crashes one day,that's how the wife will start treating him.. So,he should not be doing everything for the wife from now on.. Let her work her ass out too,and he should learn to save,no matter how little..

Mhizzard:
In a short word,she is not a supportive wife.i wanted to give him an advice but when you said he has a child with her.

Wetin man go do nau. They did rush rush wedding when she got pregnant about two years ago

It might be that she is being careful. Alot of men have ruined their wife's monetary base simply because she chose to be open hearted and generous.

stunnert:

Wetin man go do nau. They did rush rush wedding when she got pregnant about two years ago

so that there won't be crash marriage,he need to call her and gently sit her down that this is what is bothering him about her of which he does not like the selfish idea.moreso,he should let her understand how he felt about it and he want to avoid any sort of fight that is why he is expressing what he felt.

He asked for TFare and she gave him. what is he crying for?

stunnert:

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

That guy is still acting like a boy.
If you ask a woman for money, move away from that place and give her space to bring it for you. He wan put eye to know where she dey keep money? That woman is a nice woman. Some women will NEVER bring it out in your presence.

It is called a PRIVATE STASH for a reason and why was he putting all his eyes there? And he shamelessly mentioned it. What? Make she give am everything? That guy is simply looking for trouble.

I just tire for this generation
Na everywhere

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It might be that she is being careful. Alot of men have ruined their wife's monetary base simply because she chose to be open hearted and generous.

Put yourself in the other person's shoe first, what if reverse were to be the case and the wife needed the money? You can see you were one-sided..

PoliteActivist:


Why can't he simply take the shoe box from her?

Why should he take the money by force?

Is it his money?

SIMPonPatrol:


Why should he take the money by force?

Is it his money?

Ok, let's analyze this statement. Whose money is it?

superCleanworks:
He asked for TFare and she gave him. what is he crying for?

He was crying because he wouldn't have treated the wife,the way she treated him,if she was the one who asked for tfare. I blame the man for giving his all to the wife,forgetting that women are only after what you can or will do for them and their child as a man. They don't really give a fvck about you as the man..

Just yesterday I read about how a lady came pick up her kids at the airport and left the husband behind in UK .. That's woman nature for you.. They don't give a fvck about men,they are in for what they will gain.. It could be kids,marriage, fame,money,class e.t.c

So guys please be wise!

stunnert:
she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby

Oh that’s the challenge?
If you notices where she brought it out from, you’ll know that it was a savings and probably she wants to use it for something else. Someone who doesn’t want to give you money will not even go through all the ‘neighbor’ streets talk more of coming back to give you.

UptownVibes:
He was crying because he wouldn't have treated the wife,the way she treated him,if she was the one who asked for tfare.

did she give him or not?
why was is standing there to see where she will bring the money from?

He was even crying? such a childish guy.

I wonder what some women marries. why making issue out of this kind of simple thing that you could even joke about. If the woman tells you there's money in one shoe , na so you go quickly collect everything finish. My mother does this thing even to we the children. And its not a big deal.

superCleanworks:


did she give him or not?
why was is standing there to see where she will bring the money from?

He was even crying? such a childish guy.

When a man loves a woman ,he behaves like a child. And Its normal,because men love unconditionally.

Although some stupid women capitalize on that to act abnormal,thinking the man is a fool. He was or he is never a fool. The real fool in the picture,is the woman who sees marriage to be transactional.

For this man,I pray he learns from this and understand how better to handle women.. Some of them doesn't deserve unconditional love..

UptownVibes:
When a man loves a woman ,he behaves like a child. And Its normal,because men love unconditionally.

Although some stupid women capitalize on that to act abnormal,thinking the man is a fool. He was or he is never a fool. The real fool in the picture,is the woman who sees marriage to be transactional.

For this man,I pray he learns from this and understand how better to handle women.. Some of them doesn't deserve unconditional love..

did she give him or not?

why was is standing there to see where she will bring the money from?

koladata:
I wonder what some women marries. why making issue out of this kind of simple thing that you could even joke about. If the woman tells you there's money in one shoe , na so you go quickly collect everything finish. My mother does this thing even to we the children. And its not a big deal.

Before a man could cry out,you should understand that it was more than the op explained. Pray make woman no frustrate you ..

Anyways ,I don wash my hands off this case.. Its good most men learn by experience.. So that their mind go touch grand .

stunnert:
she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby

You won't be able to stay with a woman o

That's why your forehead is bigger than your brain!!

Medianna:
I don’t understand why he is disappointed.
She saving money or she giving him 5h from the money?
I’m still lost.
Did she steal his money?
Please I need answers

He has a very good wife. A good woman saves for the rainy day. Its easy to judge from afar, but some men are reckless spenders and also shameless. If they know their wife has money, they wouldn't rest till it's finished.

I advise you to mind your business and not jump into conclusions. Things are never really the way they seem from afar.

kenedyx:


Put yourself in the other person's shoe first, what if reverse were to be the case and the wife needed the money? You can see you were one-sided..

One sided? Is it not his responsibility to provide? And if he acts like she acted it will mean that he has had a not too good financial experience with her. But the reality still remains. Lots of men have ruined their wives for being generous and open hearted.