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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by adesegun121(m): 10:14pm On Nov 04, 2023
Ok

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by soccerlite: 10:14pm On Nov 04, 2023
Oloki:
After she might have run up and down from morning to evening in search of daily bread, you want her to come lay flat for a lazy man who probably didn't have anything doing from morning till evening except dreaming about which style he will teach his woman tonight?

Sex is wire to a woman's head in such a way she can switch off at will. So you need love and attention to unlock it.


Why did she marry then?

She ran up and down but if politician call her to come and lick preek, it will be worth it

Rubbish

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by MadarasBlade(m): 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2023
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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by yeyebrity: 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2023
Any man that cannot provide for his family should not expect the luxury of sex from his wife.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by jiz: 10:17pm On Nov 04, 2023
Fear Women

Best advice for the century

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Emaprince: 10:17pm On Nov 04, 2023
Women are naturally hypergamous ...and are not built to be providers

Forget the fake equality they are pursuing. They know the actual role of a man. And if you can't live up to the billing, you aren't man enough in her eye and all that attraction will die a natural death.

It's possible she will even start dating high caliber man and be denying you sex cos all that sweetness about you is gone. You think being romantic can take you anywhere as a man? As a man, your first purpose on earth is to work your socks off to be financially stable. Whether your wife loves you or not, your financial stability should come first. It is the only thing that can save you in tough times. No one loves you as a man. You came to the world to suffer and take care of people around you. Especially the women and kids.

Every man's prayer point should be lead by asking God to always bless the works of your hands..and put you in position to be able to provide for those dependent on you. You can NEVER depend on a woman. NEVER ever try it.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by RonuThings(m): 10:18pm On Nov 04, 2023
cool

Not for Yoruba Women undecided

Don't use Sex joke with a Yoruba woman undecided

Yoruba ladies and Sex are like 5 & 6 undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by VIicard(m): 10:18pm On Nov 04, 2023
Think less of sex if you are a man

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Kingsley904: 10:20pm On Nov 04, 2023
Dainy1:
So, you're justifying it?
But a man work, provide and still give s e.x without complain. Why is a woman's own different?
that's the way we men are wired!

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by chukkystar(m): 10:21pm On Nov 04, 2023
Lack of Love. Love is very essential
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Kingsley904: 10:22pm On Nov 04, 2023
Emaprince:
Women are naturally hypergamous ...and are not built to be providers

Forget the fake equality they are pursuing. They know the actual role of a man. And if you can't live up to the billing, you aren't man enough in her eye and all that attraction will die a natural death.

It's possible she will even start dating high caliber man and be denying you sex cos all that sweetness about you is gone. You think being romantic can take you anywhere as a man? As a man, your first purpose on earth is to work your socks off to be financially stable. Whether your wife loves you or not, your financial stability should come first. It is the only thing that can save you in tough times. No one loves you as a man. You came to the world to suffer and take care of people around you. Especially the women and kids.

Every man's prayer point should be lead by asking God to always bless the works of your hands..and put you in position to be able to provide for those dependent on you. You can NEVER depend on a woman. NEVER ever try it.
❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by ABOO(m): 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2023
God made them like that, men is the head. They don't have long suffering like men. That's why you see woman whose husband lost his job for some months, while the wife take charge before you knows it problem will set in . So it's God hand made. Just live them

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Tetraozonaitera: 10:24pm On Nov 04, 2023
Not only bread winner wives. E be like say u never Marry.
Those who no get shishi too dey do am.

My head is paining me.
I have body pain.
I am tired
Haha na food?
I'm not feeling like having sex.

The idiott is not asked to come and cut woods into pieces o. Or carry blocks at a building site.
Lie down even if like a log of wood that most of them are and allow me to relieve myself.

I sacrificed my energy and my time to give us a comfortable life and you can't sacrifice just five minutes of sex for me?

The worst, is when your wife turns her back when she's dressing up. Very annoying. Feeling shy to be stack naked in front of you.
And this nonsense is most common among Christian women.

Many are possessed unknowingly.

I married you so, I won't sin against God by fornicating around still you decided to send me out to have fun elsewhere.

Demonic wives dancing like angels in churches.

Shior.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Nov 04, 2023
chukkystar:
Lack of Love. Love is very essential
Define the love you are talking about abeg! undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 10:25pm On Nov 04, 2023
ABOO:
God made them like that, men is the head. They don't have long suffering like men. That's why you see woman whose husband lost his job for some months, while the wife take charge before you knows it problem will set in . So it's God hand made. Just live them
Which God made whom like how? I hope you do not mean the same God who instead meant a woman submitting to a man as a curse and punishment for what Eve did in the beginning. Na so una dey carry curse around for head like crown! undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by sibepoc(m): 10:25pm On Nov 04, 2023
Once you start doing the job of a man in the house, u lose libido towards the man. That's why whatever happens, never allow a woman be the breadwinner in the house. Once she is make yourself as scarce as possible

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 10:26pm On Nov 04, 2023
sibepoc:
Once you start doing the job of a man in the house, u lose libido towards the man. That's why whatever happens, never allow a woman be the breadwinner in the house. Once she is make yourself as scarce as possible

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by franchasofficia: 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2023
oglalasioux:
Majority of black women see sex as a commodity. They give it to the man that pays for it or the man that pays the highest price
cool
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by casualobserver: 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2023
I’m sorry o but how can your wife be bread winner and you are still looking for sex?

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Nov 04, 2023
They're tired from working all day and still coming home to cook and look after the children.
Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by 7arrows: 10:32pm On Nov 04, 2023
Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

That's because she sees the man as a woman and herself as the man. She loses that respect for him.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:33pm On Nov 04, 2023
Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?
He should be a BREAD WINNNER n Not BED WINNER

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by franchasofficia: 10:33pm On Nov 04, 2023
Emaprince:
Women are naturally hypergamous ...and are not built to be providers

Forget the fake equality they are pursuing. They know the actual role of a man. And if you can't live up to the billing, you aren't man enough in her eye and all that attraction will die a natural death.

It's possible she will even start dating high caliber man and be denying you sex cos all that sweetness about you is gone. You think being romantic can take you anywhere as a man? As a man, your first purpose on earth is to work your socks off to be financially stable. Whether your wife loves you or not, your financial stability should come first. It is the only thing that can save you in tough times. No one loves you as a man. You came to the world to suffer and take care of people around you. Especially the women and kids.

Every man's prayer point should be lead by asking God to always bless the works of your hands..and put you in position to be able to provide for those dependent on you. You can NEVER depend on a woman. NEVER ever try it.
Tell them.


This is an undiluted truth.


Awesome comment cool

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by abbey621(m): 10:35pm On Nov 04, 2023
Real and successful men don't worry much about sex, in fact na their wives dey drag them go bedroom. Na the jobless e-diots dey put sex for mind as if na their daily bread......Young man make money, make lots of it, it's the single most important factor in commanding respect in your home.

Forget about love or what's fair or right, most women are not wired to be breadwinners, the sane ones among them fit support you for a short period but vast majority go change am for you once it is apparent that you're useless.....So for Christ sake, MAKE MONEY, MAKE LOTS OF IT!

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by GUNITGuy: 10:36pm On Nov 04, 2023
Marriage should be banned 🚫🚫🚫 From what I am reading it's as if people exist only for one purpose in Nigeria the LUXURY OF HAVING SEX WITH A NAIJA WOMEN and would do anything to get that no wonder people are doing despicable things ...
nawaoo what's wrong with this generation of Men in Nigeria .......
When would you see things beyond Sex.. ..

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by ayclem01(m): 10:38pm On Nov 04, 2023
Tetraozonaitera:
Not only bread winner wives. E be like say u never Marry.
Those who no get shishi too dey do am.

My head is paining me.
I have body pain.
I am tired
Haha na food?

The worst, is when your wife turns her back when she's dressing up. Very annoying. Feeling shy to be stack naked in front of you.
The funniest is. This nonsense is most common among Christian women.

Many are possessed unknowingly.

Boss this is my problem now in my 🏠. Serious problem and am hoping to talk to my assembly pastor tomorow. My wife wan kill me with thinking. Infact she told me to go out if i wish to go that as for her that her libido is low. It is when she is interested that i will sleep with her. This thing is going to almost 5months now. I take care of my home comfortably. Women are wicked, when have not married this girl, she almost killed me with sex, any time any where... God please help.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Bigchristo: 10:38pm On Nov 04, 2023
Oloki:
After she might have run up and down from morning to evening in search of daily bread, you want her to come lay flat for a lazy man who probably didn't have anything doing from morning till evening except dreaming about which style he will teach his woman tonight?

Sex is wire to a woman's head in such a way she can switch off at will. So you need love and attention to unlock it.
You see the double standard of some people? Let’s say if the man was to be running up and down stressing himself to provide for the family and still come home the woman will then claimb on top him and knack herself Abi? First as a man nor allow woman feed you because dem be parrot, she must have probably been getting angry that the man is not doing enough and that’s why she denied him sex, one thing I can tell is that in my lowest I pay attention to how people around me treats me when I finally have the money I know how to treat them back, I don’t pray for any woman to feed me but if situations of life struck some men doesn’t even have choice but to accept all the insult throw at them but you know the shocking thing? When they finally made it they can as well do away with such woman, that’s when you will hear some women saying as I help am reach after he make am he dump me, common your character and how you treat the man matters he never wanted to experience such that’s why he run away, i grow up seeing our neighbors wife feeding her family till date they are still together because after she struggles for some years taking care of the family the man finally got a huge contract that changes his life I do been the woman was misbehaving he wouldn’t be with her today make una try Dey understand that life is full of upside down

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by EvangelistChuks(m): 10:39pm On Nov 04, 2023
and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee-[Gen.3:16].
The fallen nature has predisposed every unregenerated woman to want to lord it over her husband when given the slightest opportunity.
Only the truly circumcised in the heart through Jesus’ cross are exempted from this curse.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Exceed15: 10:40pm On Nov 04, 2023
Women marry for financial security not for love. Once a man looses that she changes. Marriage is overrated.

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Franknews1: 10:42pm On Nov 04, 2023
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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Bigchristo: 10:45pm On Nov 04, 2023
Guyman01:
A broke man should focus on how to better his life and take his mind off sex except when the woman is in the mood and he fulfils his responsibility.
As long as you don't watch porn or go to locations where women barely cover their bodies such as brothels you won't be having constant urge for sex and for your wife to use it as a tool for blackmail.
When you have money your wife will be in her toes to fulfil her sexual obligations knowing that you can get it outside but a poor man has no business with constant sex as it worsens his condition by making more babies that are sometimes not wanted
When the woman is broke nobody broke shame her to get a job na men own Dey sweet men don duffer sha 😂😂

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