DESIRABLE MEN WANT FIRST CHOICE WISE LADIES SETTLE FOR BEST MAN

If we think about the time, emotional and cultural investment we put into relationships, it is not surprising that marriage lasts longer in Africa than in Europe or America. We just don't check in at the Registry. There are introductions, engagement, traditional Nikah or white weddings. No matter how we get into relationships, African and Asian cultures still support and encourage longer partnerships than European and American relationships.

You do not go through all these to file for divorce the following day! The difference between when a man wants to settle down to when a lady wants, generally shows a gap of 5 years. Usually between their 20s and 30s, only men are willing to get into their 30s before settling down. Yet, young lovers get married when both of them are in their 20s. College and careers are responsible for settling down with a partner at an older age.

No matter what, most ladies cannot waste their biological time waiting until they get the most desirable man or nothing. When a man sees a lady she likes, he stares longer than a woman who can satisfy her curiosity with a glance. If she is not satisfied, she can take another look without being noticed. But the bold one would challenge a man into staring. Be careful now, a woman staring at you maybe for other reasons.

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However, if the lady a man desires decides to move on to the next best man, it is because she has no time to waste. Ladies have a limited time to court, secure a home and reproduce. Ladies may prefer men that insist on getting their interest, a sign that he is serious and she is not easy to get. But a risk since they cannot wait too long.

Nevertheless, there are disappointments on both sides. These days young couples "shack up" on a trier basis before finally getting married. The longer it takes, the more worried is the lady who might be afraid she would miss out on marriage after investing her time with a loser. The young man may see it differently as a testing period to try out the equal or unequal responsibility of family life.

Great, if living together before marriage works out. But a break-up may have an unfavorable outcome on the lady especially when families and friends had warned her. If either of them could move back home, fine. Even that has consequences. Adult children do not want to adhere to old rules, of course. Some of those with wealthy parents have gone a step further bringing partners back home to live, under the excuse that they are trying to save in order to buy their own house in a difficult economy.