A Nigerian lady, Nwadiuto Chiletam Amadi, has raised eyebrows after she narrated how she ‘used’ a man before relocating to Canada.

Defending her action, she said every ambitious woman understands that in a male-empowered society like Nigeria, there is no room for pity-partying.

“There is this guy I used (I feel a tad guilty). He handled many of my jakpa projects without pay even though I was willing to pay,” she narrated in a Facebook post on Thursday, December 21, 2023.

He was always available when I needed him

He kept running errands and even risked his career doing some not-so-clean jobs for me towering millions of naira

All these he did in the hope of getting some coochie

To be fair, I had the intention of doing lamongwash with him, even if it’s just once but the day we agreed to meet, he booked a cheap hotel

The paints were wearing off and the finishing wasn’t bespoke like the kind of hotel I’d mekwe in

(As I wan chop frog, make I chop big one niHe kept running errands and even risked his career for me - Nigerian lady narrates how she )

“Oga, I no fit do anything with you for this low-class excuse of a hotel”

That was how our would be rendezvous ended. By then, my visa application had gone through and my flight booked.

I felt pity for him. Guy must have invested every ounce of his energy in my course.

I walked out. Went home and called him. I promised to make it up to him some other time and he responded “Ok” in a pathetic voice… “Good boy”

Weeks later, I left the country.

Few days ago, my girlfriend who wants to japa too is asking for someone to some things for her and I sent our man to him.

Oh dear! I pity him cos this babe will rinse, wring and flap what I left in him

I hope there will still be some reserve for his family.

https://nigerianstreet.com/2023/12/21/he-kept-running-errands-and-even-risked-his-career-for-me-nigerian-lady-narrates-how-she-used-a-man-before-relocating-to-canada/

Such bad talk !

I honestly do not blame the lady.

For this life , it's either you are used or u use someone too.

The strong survives and the weak dies

This life...

FRANCISTOWN:
I honestly do not blame the lady. For this life , it's either you are used or u use someone too

This is not true. You can make it while being absolutely fair and just.

Wait o, is it Nigeria she is calling Male-empowered society. She must be joking, except if she meant Male-empowered simps, then I might agree.

That all women want.

immortalcrown:
This is not true. You can make it while being absolutely fair and just.

You can be just but you can't be fair

FRANCISTOWN:

You can be just but you can't be fair

Justice is fairness and fairness is justice.

Where can I get one?.

Actually,and factually, this is how good men are turned to bad men....

Anyways,his loss......

Mumu man..

Many Nigerian men are sex slaves. They can risk their destiny for a woman just to sleep with her.

Any woman who understands this has conquered a large chunk of our men. Cos she would use them like toilet paper.

I no dy help all these rubbish help just because of cooxhie that's free everywhere. I prefer to help fellow gees kos they face the hard part of life the most. See wetin these foolish ones dy talk all because they encountered a captain save a hoe. Rubbish

The guy must have learnt

FRANCISTOWN:
I honestly do not blame the lady.

For this life , it's either you are used or u use someone too.

The strong survives and the weak dies

See simp ...when you suffer such a fate, you go wise!!

FaceTanke:
The guy must have learnt

He didn't...he is gonna be used the second time...by the girl's friend

Coolsat:
I no dy help all these rubbish help just because of cooxhie that's free everywhere. I prefer to help fellow gees kos they face the hard part of life the most. See wetin these foolish ones dy talk all because they encountered a captain save a hoe. Rubbish

One plate of Nkwobi for you.

Simps should be shot on sight

Posterity will judge her

This things are very wicked.

It’s very possible the guy was just being nice, enjoying the experience of being needed and being able to help. If he was doing it for the sex he would have ran out of patience. It’s not his fault you think sex is the only way to pay a guy for his kindness.

I have always been ruthless to the female gender.

The moment you give her power
You will used like a kitchen rag

Dear weak, emotional simps, you are all menace to the society

When we advise you to stop simping for women, it’s not because we don’t want you to have coochies it’s because we have experienced women and seen first hand what these creatures are capable of and we want you to learn from that experience so you don’t fall victims like this man in this story

Once a lady realize you are exceptionally being nice to her she will conclude you want coochie so there she will lead you and make you do unimaginable things for her with giving you hopes and conditions and rules and dictating life to you, that’s awful

This man in this story wasted money, time, effort etc because he wanted to be pleasured, Ruskin it all for nothing in the end, and he’s presently going to be used and dumped again by if he hadn’t learnt his lesson the first time

Women don’t care the sacrifices you have made for them, they don’t care the 99 times you came thru for them, they are selfish to their emotions and desires, men and women don’t see things the same way, if you think because you bought her things and do things for her so therefore she will hand coochie to you and be loyal, you are On a long thing, because Emeka Ike is another good example of what women are capable of


Focus on your self, be unapologetically selfish and let her know nothing goes for nothing, don’t be desperate for her pusse, don’t even act like you need her for anything, at the same time guard your resources jealously and wickedly, if you must do any favor for her do it not for the intention of bedding her, an average girl already have multiple men she can seek favors from don’t be one of them

The twist to all of these is that women are rather receptive to men who don’t give a Bleep about men, men who know what they want, men who have many options, many who are firm and confident, men who put women in their right places, men who they can’t manipulate easily but they(women) will continue to try and see if they change Such men to their advantage

Learn from the mistakes of other and stop simping, don’t be a victim but if you don’t learn you will be used like this man above, if you have a working developed brain you will learn by force after been used

😂,I can never be that man.na me dey use dem sef

That man should be wearing skirt and not trousers.

Simps are menace to the world in general

immortalcrown:
Justice is fairness and fairness is justice.

Fairness is personal but justice is overall

luminouz:

See simp ...when you suffer such a fate, you go wise!!

Who be this one? I guess you lack the comprehension to decode the post

Good one there some simp will learn the hard way..

luminouz:


He didn't...he is gonna be used the second time...by the girl's friend

The lady for tell us the kind project she mean

The man must be very stupid to render help without asking for pay

Even if na my babe, she must pay once it's business

No paddy for jungle.

If I were the UK, US or Canadian gov I would stop giving visas to some Nigerians. The things we are willing to do to each other becos of japa no be small, we take people who are kind as mumu. Aboard is like heaven to us, we focus too much on material wealth and forget building strong interpersonal relationships. We no dey use eye take see opportunity. Dem invite you go bigman house, you go thief, not knowing wetin dem fit do for you in future pass wetin you theif.

FRANCISTOWN:
Fairness is personal but justice is overall

You are wrong. Fairness is equity. Since when did equity become personal?

Gadafii:
Dear weak, emotional simps, you are all menace to the society

When we advise you to stop simping for women, it’s not because we don’t want you to have coochies it’s because we have experienced women and seen first hand what these creatures are capable of and we want you to learn from that experience so you don’t fall victims like this man in this story

Once a lady realize you are exceptionally being nice to her she will conclude you want coochie so there she will lead you and make you do unimaginable things for her with giving you hopes and conditions and rules and dictating life to you, that’s awful

This man in this story wasted money, time, effort etc because he wanted to be pleasured, Ruskin it all for nothing in the end, and he’s presently going to be used and dumped again by if he hadn’t learnt his lesson the first time

Women don’t care the sacrifices you have made for them, they don’t care the 99 times you came thru for them, they are selfish to their emotions and desires, men and women don’t see things the same way, if you think because you bought her things and do things for her so therefore she will hand coochie to you and be loyal, you are On a long thing, because Emeka Ike is another good example of what women are capable of


Focus on your self, be unapologetically selfish and let her know nothing goes for nothing, don’t be desperate for her pusse, don’t even act like you need her for anything, at the same time guard your resources jealously and wickedly, if you must do any favor for her do it not for the intention of bedding her, an average girl already have multiple men she can seek favors from don’t be one of them

The twist to all of these is that women are rather receptive to men who don’t give a Bleep about men, men who know what they want, men who have many options, many who are firm and confident, men who put women in their right places, men who they can’t manipulate easily but they(women) will continue to try and see if they change Such men to their advantage

Learn from the mistakes of other and stop simping, don’t be a victim but if you don’t learn you will be used like this man above, if you have a working developed brain you will learn by force after been used

Fellows! Read and read thru this again and again