I met her when I went for service in Rivers state some years back. I live in Lagos. After the service year ,I have to go back to Lagos .
Now, of recent, we initiated a conversation that she still wants me and is willing to relocate from P.H to my base in Lagos.
I am still single. So, is she .
However, there are other women in the picture (there is always some in a man's life, right? whether you are single or married ?)
I am not committed to any of them though.
Should I encourage her to shoot her shot by relocating back to Lagos?

Yes, do so

IamDora:

You finished service(NYSC)?
Are u ready to marry now?
Are u financially Stable now?

Ogbeni, Go and hustle and make Some money, this is new year. Stop discussing about women for now. Nigerian girls aren't worth it at all, I detest any Discussion that has to do with Relationships now... I fear women more than the Devil himself. She only wants to live off you, she may even be in Lagos currently and not telling u the truth. She has a guy. She will become a Burden to you when she relocates and may even move in with you. She already planning all these. Be wise, Be Smart. Don't say u weren't properly advised by this Nairaland family.

Through out this year, any male friend of mine that indulges me in any boyfriend girlfriend nonsense will get enough sticks from me. They will be heavily lampooned. I will only give Attention and counsel to any relationship I know has stood the test of time over the years and is leading to something meaningful, else don't come near me for any relationship matter. I will never go into any relationship until I'm ready for marriage. I can't be faithful to one Nigeria girl while she keeps fucking other guys. I don't double date, and will never do so. I can't cheat on someone I love. But these hoes can't be loyal

Where will she be staying?
Who bears the responsibility?
Do you have intention to marry her?
Have you studied (though human is a dynamic......) to see if you can cope with her?

Don't harbor a woman you never marry (pay her bride price officially, e get why.

Ok

What's our own in this?

Likz

No woman is really single; know this and know peace!

G

Don't waste that girl's time if you know you're not ready to marry her. Just continue sleeping with the unserious girls in your life.

If you bring her to Lagos for the sole purpose of sleeping with her and discarding her after, your life would be miserable.

This I have seen.

carl90:
I met her when I went for service in Rivers state some years back. I live in Lagos. After the service year ,I have to go back to Lagos .
Now, of recent, we initiated a conversation that she still wants me and is willing to relocate from P.H to my base in Lagos.
I am still single. So, is she .
However, there are other women in the picture (there is always some in a man's life, right? whether you are single or married ?)
I am not committed to any of them though.
Should I encourage her to shoot her shot by relocating back to Lagos?

I hope you don't get tired of her after advising her to relocate.

If you feel she's your kind of girl, then let her come bt also she's not idle make e no choke you.

this is 3rd day of January oh

carl90:
I met her when I went for service in Rivers state some years back. I live in Lagos. After the service year ,I have to go back to Lagos .
Now, of recent, we initiated a conversation that she still wants me and is willing to relocate from P.H to my base in Lagos.
I am still single. So, is she .
However, there are other women in the picture (there is always some in a man's life, right? whether you are single or married ?)
I am not committed to any of them though.
Should I encourage her to shoot her shot by relocating back to Lagos?

What are your plan, just to fire arrows or keep the quiver filled.

What led to seperation back then?
is this move a good one for you?
Can you handle it in the future if she says she put her life on hold by relocating?
Are you serious about her?
What kind of life has she lived, is she coming to you because of genuine like or perhaps shes been partying and now wants to settle down?

All the above questions are what you should ask yourself.

Are you ready for all the commitment that comes with this?

You and woman again in this new year?

Bad addiction is more deadly than Cancer.. You need a councillor @ via my signature

Techpik:
I'm leaving alone I need a female room mate, she can come over no payment of rent, all bills on me.

You can also come to my place for three.some and come fu.c.k her for my place

Na Dubai you dey?. Stingy man

Well, we’ll be here to advise you later on when you come here to complain about how you’ve been feeding her for so so so months and she’s now misbehaving and you’re thinking of throwing her out.

Sunshine34:


Na Dubai you dey?. Stingy man

Na my house I dey man

Relocate and staying with u?

U should be saving money. U are not wanting to go meet the father, strike a deal for marriage then finally u are husband and wife. If dis is not the case, be home-alone.

OP, women dont love for nothing. She wan use you enter lasgidi then dump ur ass off when she meets another man better than you there in lagos.
Forget about women and love .

You need roommate or house help, if you're sincere with this, go to any club for night you go see plenty wey boku like BOKU mall.

Techpik:
I'm leaving alone I need a female room mate, she can come over no payment of rent, all bills on me.

You can also come to my place for three.some and come fu.c.k her for my place

I beg you, face your hustle. The year is just starting......leave woman matter. I always advice young upcoming men that just graduated, secure the bag first, no distraction...... let your eyes be on the prize. Once the battle is won, you will see array of women seeking for your attention. You are passing through a growth stage, there should not be any distraction. I am not saying you should not have fun, but please, no commitment or distraction. Let your mind not be distracted. Be focused!!!

MisterBanny:
Go and hustle and make money, this is new year. Stop discussing about women for now. Nigerian girls aren't worth it at all.

Do you have a sister?

If you’re not interested, give her excuses not to. You already know what you want and choose to disturb us here.

MisterBanny:
Go and hustle and make money, this is new year. Stop discussing about women for now. Nigerian girls aren't worth it at all.

Stop the gender based wars, it's not healthy