bewla:
What about that bitch call ojo iyabo fool for nothing

They are all in the same group and their upcoming fellow feminists on NLand

Printme:
The movie was cool. A Nollywood movie I actually enjoyed in a long while.

At the same time, I think it reflects on a very key aspect of life that most people never give much thoughts to.

That is, a male child will always need their father.

Regardless of how much a woman will love the male child, they will always need their father to be good influences in the society.

She gave birth to five children and all their fathers were absent. It's a lesson for women. Once you spoil your life, men will continue to chop and go.

No man will ever want to settle and train another man's child.

It doesn't matter how much you try to manipulate them with the "it's a mistake" or "a real man ought to take care of another man's child"

It won't work. They will just chop you and go and probably add their own seeds since you want to be unfortunate that way.

Also, statistics shows that male children raised by single mothers tends to be the "bad eggs" in the society.

And we all saw that in the movie. Not even one of the children turned out fine for the society. Instead, they were filled with that selfish love that put only their needs into consideration and never the needs of others.

And that's the kind of love women can give their children. Only a father's disciplinary love tells the child that other's needs are important.

It is the father that seeks to make sure the male child, no matter how strong he is, he never used that strength for his own benefits alone.

If she had thought the children to protect others and not just herself, they probably would have turned out fine.

Overall, I think the movie was entertaining but the lessons were still there except you choose to ignore it.

Male child always need his father? You learnt that from a movie not life?

Not sure what you mean. Depending on the community especially rural traditional there are many many father figures. It is clear many young people today have little grounding or knowledge of our culture especially in the South and rural.areas .Urban areas are different .
Many people !I've in the same house with their father till adulthood and do not have a relationship. It is not about geographical availability but modelling and mentoring availability.
A good example is life in the Army barracks in the 70s and 80s

illicit:
What of the ones that the husband died?

Abi man no dey die anymore?

There is difference in "knowing that your father died" and " knowing that your father doesn't want you or your mother "

It's very clear

ParagonPrick:
So we should give you money abi. Cos I no understand wetin consign the movie with this your beggy beggy writeup

No Sir.
I am not begging you for anything.

I am only saying you should give to the needy around you.

kokakola:
It is very easy for Single mothers to sell negative mindsets to their female children, telling them "all men are the same." There are few exceptions though.

It male children in the context

Karleb:
Movies are for entertainment not lessons.

Mr man, keep shut.

Discreet90:
Lol. Nawa for you o. So you sat down for hours to analyse a movie that is meant for entertainment like this. Bro channel the energy to your career. This epistle ain't worth it. Some people sha.

Daniel regha is making money through such analysis on Twitter today and get paid by Elon musk for it.

No man will ever want to settle and train another man's. Good evening Boss. The above statement you put here is not true. Stop generalizing stuff you don't know. Speak in regards to the film not real life in general. You are not in every man's mind.

I get bored real quick so nahh I'm not fascinated by this moral speech on a movie like that's all movies are about.

DeepSight:


It is true that a father figure is very instrumental in the proper raising of a man, but bro, dont get it twisted - many single mothers have raised great men throughout history.

na lie,no single mother(except widows) has raised any reasonable and psychologically stable male child.


The daddy issues will always reflect

123yes:
One of the best nollywood film ever produced in Nigeria. Kudos to Mrs Akindele. The famous Jennifer diary

Miss

tiswell:
na lie,no single mother(except widows) has raised any reasonable and psychologically stable male child.


The daddy issues will always reflect

Not a single one?
That alone gives a lie to your statement.

Karleb:
Movies are for entertainment not lessons.

When will you have sense?
So Jesus movie and all are for entertainment?

Vulcan24:


You are misunderstanding him or her, single mother is a contextual term for women who fall out of marriages not widows or the likes.

He is talking about raising children, what makes a widow different from a single never married mother in terms of child raising?

A widow is a single mother who has lost her husband, she's single, she's a mother, their father is absent and she's doing all by her self.

So what's the difference.

aribisala0:


Male child always need his father? You learnt that from a movie not life?

Not sure what you mean. Depending on the community especially rural traditional there are many many father figures. It is clear many young people today have little grounding or knowledge of our culture especially in the South and rural.areas .Urban areas are different .
Many people !I've in the same house with their father till adulthood and do not have a relationship. It is not about geographical availability but modelling and mentoring availability.
A good example is life in the Army barracks in the 70s and 80s

I say no.

Nitabb:
What about the irresponsible men that just pregnant those women and disappear? Can't them be held responsible too?

No they can't.
Because women control access to sex, except in rare case of rape...
If women don't open their legs to irresponsible men (usually due to greed and stupidity), they won't get impregnated by them.
More so, most women know what to do if they don't want to keep a pregnancy. IF YOU CHOOSE TO GET IMPREGNATED BY AN IRRESPONSIBLE MAN AND EVEN WENT FURTHER TO GIVE BIRTH FOR HIM, IT'S YOUR BUSINESS AND HEADACHE.

LEARN TO CLOSE YOUR LEGS!

Omo Nollywood are trying ooo
I just watched black book flim sweet die chai my best movie so far

Proserpina:
I have never loved nor will ever support single parenthood.

It's a very bad idea what if one of the parents passes away? The one alive has no choice but care for the children

tiswell:
na lie,no single mother(except widows) has raised any reasonable and psychologically stable male child.


The daddy issues will always reflect

Daddy issues happen whether people are married or not.
A man often transmits his bad relationship with his father to his children even if he stays married till he dies. Many sons avoid their fathers in old age even from unbroken homes
It is a simple statistical fact . Most Nigerians do not marry outside wedlock yet we have a high level of prostitution,drug abuse,gambling, robbery,kidnapping etc. Are we to blame single mothers for our ugly reality?
You know when people make such a categorical and absolute statement about everything you know you Are either listening to a child or a fool

Statistics are clear in a country like Nigeria most Repeat MOST of the people doing all evil.thing were raised by both parents just like you would expect Most of the people in Nigeian prisons to be Nigerian

Discipline is a kind of fathers love to a child.

DeepSight:


It is true that a father figure is very instrumental in the proper raising of a man, but bro, dont get it twisted - many single mothers have raised great men throughout history.

What's the statistics?
Of course, there'll always be some exemptions.

Biglittlelois:
Imagine dismissing the effort of single mothers that chose to stay and care of her kids, what stops single fathers from being father figures for their kids?





Waiting for Op to answer this questions



Thank God its coming from fellow men, had it been it's from women, the number of mentions filled with insults would have been 7 pages.

For the fact that women control access to sex, except in the rare cases of rape, woman will always take the blame and accountability for their sexual relationship mistakes.

You control access to sex
You also control and know what to do if you don't want to keep a pregnancy.
What happened to all the options? What happened to keeping your legs closed.
If you choose to spread your legs for irresponsible men (usually due to greed and stupidity) and allow them to IMPREGNATE you and you even went further into birthing the children, IT'S YOUR HEADACHE AND BUSINESS.

That's your opinions

KingNom:
It was very interesting

On a more important note:
Do you know that you are to live/exist forever, even after putting off your body (i.e death)?

A Human being is actually a spirit residing in a body. Dead body means the person inside (who is a spirit) has left, to meet God for his/her just reward.

To get set/saved for Now and WHEN you will leave your body;
Please accept Jesus into Your Heart as Lord and Saviour TODAY and live for Him!

You are not promised tomorrow!

There's no other Perfect sacrifice for Your sin (they must be paid for before the God Almighty of Justice) except that of Jesus. Acts 4:12

Adam's sin nature, which you inherited through bloodline and your sins, have been fully paid for/handled by God's Eternal Word who became a man, Jesus. He died in your place (God's mercy) and rose with eternal life for you. John 3:16


TO GET SAVED, PLEASE SAY OUT LOUD:
Dear Loving God, I accept Jesus into my heart as Lord and Saviour TODAY! Thank You for washing my sins away and lovingly making me brand new, your child in Jesus Name, Amen! (Romans 10:9-10, John 1:12-14)

CONGRATULATIONS! You are now a Righteous Child of God! Kindly get/download and study the Bible and Rhapsody of Realities regularly. (1Peter 2:1-4)

Please message me for more information. God Bless You!

Ok. But the people who became Christians in New Testament times did not say what you're telling us to say out loud to get saved. I think you need to read the book of Acts to learn what people do to become saved. Acts 2; 3:1—4:4; 8:5-12; 8:9-13; 8:26-39; 9:1-22; 16:9-14; 16:16-34. Read Mark 28:18-20; Mark 16:15-16.

MuslimIgbo:

What's the statistics?
Of course, there'll always be some exemptions.

George Washington, Franklin Roosevelt, Andrew Jackson, Teddy Roosevelt, Ronald Reagan, Barrack Obama, Jim Daly, Michael Phelps, Justin Bieber, Tim Tebow, Shaquille O’Neal, LeBron James, Elon Musk.

And even if this list isn't for women, Oprah.

DeepSight:


It is true that a father figure is very instrumental in the proper raising of a man, but bro, dont get it twisted - many single mothers have raised great men throughout history.

some of you don't have simple comprehensive sense.

Children from single mothers tend to be the bad eggs.

It didn't say children from single mothers will always be bad eggs.

If you raised a child alone as a mother, the chances that that boy will become a criminal or a drug addict is very high compared to when that boy is raised by the father.

This doesn't mean that the boy will always turn out to be fine.

Why I dey even explain self when you go talk another rubbish again? Mtcheeeeew

Printme:
some of you don't have simple comprehensive sense.

Children from single mothers tend to be the bad eggs.

It didn't say children from single mothers will always be bad eggs.

If you raised a child alone as a mother, the chances that that boy will become a criminal or a drug addict is very high compared to when that boy is raised by the father.

This doesn't mean that the boy will always turn out to be fine.

Why I dey even explain self when you go talk another rubbish again? Mtcheeeeew

Read again the first seventeen words in my sentence which you responded to.

I don't know why reading is a problem for this generation.

Scholace:
The inmates in all our correctional centres are they all raised by single mothers?

The level of cyber fraudsters amongst our youths and prostitution, are they also raised by single mothers?

The rapist, ritualist, kidnappers, pedophile, bandits etc are they all raised by single mothers?

I can always go on and on

and you think you're making sense?

Tendency to be bad doesn't mean it'll always be bad.

If a single mother and father raises a child differently, the chances that one of the child will become a criminal is higher on the mother's child.

It doesn't mean that it'll always happen

tete7000:


Marital status is different from motherhood status. Have you heard anyone said "widowed mother"?

What are the types of 'motherhood status'? The society clearly has a title for them. This is why NGO's and other organizations always prioritize 'widows' and don't give a damn about 'single mothers'.

Furthermore, someone can refer to their mom as ’widowed mother'. I have heard people use it before and it is not odd.

By 3 ways we can learn wisdom

1. By Intuition; which is the noblest

2. By imitation; which is the Easiest

3. By experience; which is the bitterest

Karleb:


Why must we learn everytime?

Why can't we just enjoy this short life sometimes?

DeepSight:


Read again the first seventeen words in my sentence which you responded to.

I don't know why reading is a problem for this generation.

I don't need to read it again.

You said rubbish again just as I predicted.

The movie is similar to Gangs of Lagos where igbo character gets to die for whatever reasons.

Ifeanyi was killed in Gangs of Lagos while Emeka was equally killed in A tribe called Judah.

Coincidence? You tell me.