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Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Excuzeme: 3:54pm On Jan 30 |
Nataliace: Okay, l feel for you but l think you did not go about this in a good way. Most Women think that by "dumping his sad azz" with the Children, they can bring Mn to his knees! It does not work, not in Nigeria. Your husband having side-chicks is not a deal-breaker, almost any man will have side chicks, at a stage in their lives, Men are not Monogamous by Nature. The ones that pretend to be, are those ones that do it in secrecy. You should not have left. You should just keep trying to make yourself more appealing to your husband and he will eventually get over these Ladies. Good hygiene, looking good always, are very important, to maintain his interest in you. But more importantly, most Men cherish TRUST the most, in their marriage. If he cant TRUST you 101% (despite his flings), it is likely that you will end up just like one of hose side-chicks.... a passing fad. I know that most Men dont see their Wives, or treat their Wives like they do their Side-chicks. The side Chicks are just for Sex and nothing more, the Wife is the Pillar of the Home and have a thousand more value, than the Side-Chick so, Wives need to know their position and how to manage it. Dont leave your Husband and Home, because you are annoyed with him, it will create an avenue for the "Vultures" to move in,... and your husband will feel justified, in that situation! And your Parents should know better and should have told you to go back, immediately. If he was violent now, l would have excused your leaving Home (to let tempers cool down for a short time) but you need to let "Elders and some of his Friends" intervene and reconcile both of you. The Side-chick show will take time to subside but it would, gradually. All Men get tired of side-chicks, if they have a stable wife at home. You can accelerate that decline of interest in the side-chick, with how you relate positively with your Husband. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by elmagnifico411(m): 11:48pm On Jan 30 |
Iffa be u, I no go block her oh. I go arrange how we meet then continue the shagging secretly. Na sense she no get nah.. I go teach am noni. DSS1335: |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by DSS1335: 6:00pm On Jan 31 |
elmagnifico411: The lady carry negative vibes too much. She always find ways to blame me for what I know nothing about |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Caris77: 8:01am On Feb 01 |
Come bros, I am not understanding ooo π€π€π€, you mean to tell me the wife wasn't the love of his life before he left other chicks and married her?? . |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Caris77: 8:10am On Feb 01 |
ObamaMessi: As much as I don't support her leaving her matrimonial home and stranger came but brosπ‘, Can we pls stop justifying cheating. Today ,she is the victim, tomorrow it could be someone very dear to you . we honestly shouldn't wait till our sisters or our daughters gets cheated on to understand that cheating is bad. Not to talk of the emotional toll it takes on the victims. In all we must not be an alpha male/female to cheat, cos there still many alpha males and females who respects the sanctity of the vows they took on the alter of God. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:24am On Feb 01 |
DSS1335: Looking for black and slim guy Left traits that will keep a lasting marriage to look for irrelevant ones. Interestingly the reverse is the case for me , my ex told me she likes me with a big tummy rather than flat and wants me to be chubby rather than athletic that I am. All of these and many more contributed immensely to the collapse of the relationship. Delusion in the highest order , some people think they can just break and choose people at will without consequences. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by omolasho: 11:13am On Feb 01 |
Give me that man's account number, I need urgently need to send him 50k. Whaoh, he is a real man! |
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