Jeon:
You men threw away the abusive and violence parts of the story.


















She found her way to blessings because of the way the former husband maltreated her.

ProudNigerian01:
Toh, I don't know what to say about this so let me kukuma use the opportunity to preach.

Una well done o.

Why are you not steady in serving God? Why are you still comfortable living the way you like without obeying God?

Godly today, careless living tomorrow. Why na?

Each time you sin, you open yourself to attack from the enemy of your soul. Sin is a reproach and You must commit to resisting it in any manifestation.

Rev.3.15 - "I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I could wish you were cold or hot.

Rev.3.16 - So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth.

It's time to become completely committed to God. Ask for his help and you will do it easily for with God all things are possible.

Matt.19.26 - But Jesus looked at them and said to them, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."

Prayer:
Father I acknowledge all my sins (name them). Have mercy on me and become Lord of my life again in Jesus name. Amen.

reiddecuti:
Wahala! Wahala!!

Ashirioluwa:
The new husband will soon turn ex, and then she will come to social media for another trashy comment.

nwekeugochukwu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4NQ7Df1e18?si=Ki3S7tmQ0AZxWNEi

insidelife22:
Women are insatiable, irredeemable and ignorant.

Hustle guys.

Take care of yourself.

nairalanda1:
One Thai woman was asked why many of her countrywomen were falling for white guys. Her answer was that even the rogues among the white guys know things like holding a door open for women, holding a chair for women to sit, etc.

Many African men don't know how to do small romatic gestures, or even they only know it when they are dating, after dating, they throw it away, and become the man. Many African men don't know how to be romantic after marriage at all.

White men have for the most part learned these small things. It is kind of ingrained in their culture...even their entertainment self.

Now, I am not saying that all African men are not romantic. ANd keep in mind that many women too break up their marriage for flimsy reasons and then come on facebook and flaunt their new lover with motivational speech about how their husband mistreated them(I have seen well well)....but many men spoil their marriage by not learning how to be romantic to their wives. They don't hold the door for their wife, don't wash the plates sometimes, don't do some cleaning, don't let the wife rest a bit after work, etc. WIfe to them is a slave, and servant...

Anyway, we don't know the full story, but if you want your marriage to last, be romantic to the wife. And women, also try to understand your husband. There is no such thing as the perfect man.

OKOATA:
After God fear woman.

maasoap:


What's the source of your wailing, bro? You took this personal. Your experience can't be everyone else's experience. Sorry, ehn!

pansophist:
What if the breakup is the man's fault, should she remain single for life, or go back to the country she came from?

Juoflife1:
Nothing wrong here. The first didn't work out, on to the next. Life is short

pansophist:


Why you automatically assume the breakup was her fault? Did you consider the possibility that her ex-husband even divorced her?

I mean she can be at fault of course, but why just see the woman as athe aggressor by default?

GboyegaD:
The level of misogyny I read on nairaland amuses me. You are not privy to what could have transpired and you are trying to blame a party.
Be happy for her or move on abi na by force to comment ni?

nairalanda1:
One Thai woman was asked why many of her countrywomen were falling for white guys. Her answer was that even the rogues among the white guys know things like holding a door open for women, holding a chair for women to sit, etc.

Many African men don't know how to do small romatic gestures, or even they only know it when they are dating, after dating, they throw it away, and become the man. Many African men don't know how to be romantic after marriage at all.

White men have for the most part learned these small things. It is kind of ingrained in their culture...even their entertainment self.

Now, I am not saying that all African men are not romantic. ANd keep in mind that many women too break up their marriage for flimsy reasons and then come on facebook and flaunt their new lover with motivational speech about how their husband mistreated them(I have seen well well)....but many men spoil their marriage by not learning how to be romantic to their wives. They don't hold the door for their wife, don't wash the plates sometimes, don't do some cleaning, don't let the wife rest a bit after work, etc. WIfe to them is a slave, and servant...

Anyway, we don't know the full story, but if you want your marriage to last, be romantic to the wife. And women, also try to understand your husband. There is no such thing as the perfect man.

noblechoco:

And how are you sure the ex husband didn’t maltreated her

Were you in the relationship with them ?

Hasty generalization is an outcome of mental hollowness and stupidity

nwekeugochukwu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4NQ7Df1e18?si=Ki3S7tmQ0AZxWNEi

onuman:


Are you not a bushman?
You want your kids trained without a father figure while you stay abroad jollyficating with other women.

GboyegaD:
The level of misogyny I read on nairaland amuses me. You are not privy to what could have transpired and you are trying to blame a party.
Be happy for her or move on abi na by force to comment ni?

Calitoscassius:
I taya oo! as if marriage is different from every other life aspects.

Women that would not disrespect you anywhere else in the community would disrespect you in the name of marriage.

YelloweWest:
What of all the Nigerian men who abandoned their wives here in Nigeria for white women?

What of all the Nigerian men who were taken abroad by their wives and still cheat like dogs??

Abegi!!

Carry go lady!

Na only you know wetin you see before you made your decision

richie240:

You sef dey see am?
The same girl that can never look her boss, pastor and even her fellow colleagues in the face will disrespect you just bcus you've made d (unfortunate) decision to bear her burdens from where her father left off.

The painful thing is that the only leverage she has, (vagina) that is making her 'raise shoulder' at you, she's giving it to her 'pastor'/boss/male colleagues free of charge and she still respects them, but you that paid her bride price and bears her burdens is treated as leftover.

hammer567:
WHAT TYPE OF ABOMINATION IS THIS.

LIKE I ALWAYS SAY,I DONT THINK YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO TRUST WOMEN.

ONLY WOMAN YOU SHOULD TRUST IS YOUR MOTHER AND THAT IS IT.