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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:35am On Feb 14 |
Incrediblekutty:The first one has arrived. Men on the front page typed exactly the same thing she typed here But as she’s a woman, you can’t read and comprehend without bitterness clouding your judgement Go knack your head for wall, bitter menist |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:37am On Feb 14 |
FarmPlanetNG:And you are a FOOL Why did you not quote the men that typed exactly what she typed? What with men’s obsession with women on this site, are you all sick in the brain or what? |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:40am On Feb 14 |
jogsman01:You sound even more bitter Like I asked two guys before you, why did you not quote the men saying exactly what she said also? Why is she the only one getting insulted? You men are so bitter about your daily rejection you face a woman cannot even speak with you wetting your pants, it’s getting CRAZY |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:41am On Feb 14 |
Tonididdyx:Help me ask the bitter dude Everyone is saying the same thing but men are only quoting that mention because it’s a chick Una don see where Una go show Una power na, bitter things |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:43am On Feb 14 |
bluebay:You are complete bastard Bitter thing why did you not quote your fellow men that are all saying the same thing she’s saying abi you dey fear? Una go just come internet dey show say na rejection una dey face everyday |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:45am On Feb 14 |
Incrediblekutty:Oga your real issue is because you know that moniker is a WOMAN 🤡🤡🤡 Everyone is saying the SAME THING but na where you feel say you get power you go show am! I no blame your bitter self |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Maysdevices(f): 8:50am On Feb 14 |
Peppysco: Why did you not quote all the men saying exactly what she’s saying or are you scared of them? Because she’s a woman, it makes the point less valid? Are those guys insulting the men up there also to be treated as trash? The guy is a fool and did not play his game well, that is the fact. No woman will advice their brother to train a girl in school, women are not angels. The gender of the person saying it shouldn’t matter, if you like treat your girl or wife like trash because of online opinions, it will affect nobody here but her |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Exceed15: 8:51am On Feb 14 |
Mr nice man. Let me you that too nice people always end in regrets infact they don't go far in life. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by jogsman01(m): 8:55am On Feb 14 |
Maysdevices:So, can I know you? |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by alizma: 8:57am On Feb 14 |
EreluRoz:Your type is the reason why there are many mad women on the street, the guy came out to express his feelings and you think he is stupid, could it be that the groom is also stupid because I can see that he is not happy with what he heard? There are things that are not just supposed to happen and when they happen, it is normal for people to react, however people's mode of reacting differs, some people in this situation would have commit suicide, some would have commit murder, some would have walk to a juju man and take care of the situation while some would have done other things. But in all, do not call any of them stupid if you are not the one going through what they are going through. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Successlane: 8:57am On Feb 14 |
First thing first, Did you train her with the intention or promise of marrying her? |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Uniquekriss(m): 9:11am On Feb 14 |
EreluRoz:He's even stupid to come out openly with such claims, you don't train a girl in school so as to marry her, before I invest heavily in a woman like that, there must be a commitment from not justvher but her family, and we must have defined the terms and known that we are getting married. But on the other hand, she's not supposed to rely on a guy for 7years without plans to settle with him, after all he's not her uncle or brother 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Beautifulday: 9:17am On Feb 14 |
EreluRoz: So if Nigeria train you with scholarship, you go run? There's a procedure for white wedding. One is where the clergy will ask, "is there anyone against this marriage, come forward". If you don't like the process, go for traditional wedding or any wedding that doesn't give room for such. 1 Like |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by obrian888: 9:42am On Feb 14 |
It is surprising to see that men and women are bashing the man in question, any woman collecting anything from a man in form of gift(s) is sitting on a time bomb, why? 95% of men who give gifts to women are expecting something in return, know this my sisters and know peace. one of my late friend was asking a girl out some years ago, and anytime he buys the lady a gift, she will always refuse the gifts and she will politely tell my friend she is refusing because she will never have anything romantic with him. there was this day he bought a four liter container of ice cream for her, when we got there she was with her friends and the same rejection happened and her friends wanted to collect the ice cream, trust girls, and she gave them a strong warning not to go close to the guy let alone the ice cream, that is a sensible girl who wants to be safe. i am taking my time to write this because these 95% of men who give these gifts are capable of doing anything, so ladies don't throw your lives away, men open your eyes, training a girl in school is risky, outdated, foolishness, and stupid, unless you have made up your mind to do it as a philanthropist. i dated a girl years ago also and the minute she got into the university, i was advised to remove my mind 50% and i took to the advise and it was a wise decision, not up to 6 months my girl friend was gone, she tried to hide it and pretend but because i was ready and prepared, i was the one that puled the plug straight up, and it was like nothing happened. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 12:14pm On Feb 14 |
Fuckyoumod: I hope this is also applied when reverse is the case. A lady shouldn't cry online for breakfast and her fellows ladies bash the guy for wasting her time and abandoning her for another lady |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 12:16pm On Feb 14 |
CockPit: Are we condemning him because he's a man?? Coz on different occasions ladies caught in same web are not condemned for going emotional about a heartbreak 1 Like |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 12:20pm On Feb 14 |
BrighterSyde: I just want to be sure if this applies to a man as well. This time and age, hope a man can decide to leave a lady even after promising her marriage as they use to claim most times, and still decided to jilt her for another lady without being attacked on social media when the lady cries out |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by BrighterSyde: 12:45pm On Feb 14 |
Incrediblekutty: Why not? It applies to any man as well. Even thou go I disagree that man and woman should view certain issues with equality but I will still answer this question as if man and woman are the same. So if a man promises a woman marriage and he defaults she should drag him if she wants. Afterall it was a verbal agreement. If she also has a way to force him to honor the agreement then she should by all means go ahead if she so desires. Now if I were to answer this question the way it should be answered I’d say she is allowed to drag him but the difference btw man and woman and why this should not be viewed as the same is that a woman commits mostly her time in such a verbal agreement but the man commits time and money, and this momey translates to a whole lot in the life of a woman. It means an education in the case of this thread. It could also mean a car, a house, gifts, hair, wig, etc. now you know why the loss is not the same on both sides. Never equate man and woman when it comes to issues of sex and the heart. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Quodseverismete: 1:39pm On Feb 14 |
The lady in question deserve the the Chinese-Kano girl treatment. Why did she allowed the man trained her for 7yrs and later dump him, she is a fraudulent girl, if you no want don't collect from him. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 1:41pm On Feb 14 |
BrighterSyde: At the end of the day, men are at the mercy of women especially as regard relationships. Men are not allowed to be emotional when a woman broke their hearts that are made of stone. As intelligent as your opinion is, I still won't agree with the fact that women are the only ones allowed to drag the other person after a break up. Someone like me won't even get to that level of commitment, God knows. But the double standard is just so disgusting to me. You can't disappoint me and still dictate how u react. Thanks for your intelligence engagement though, I didn't even bother to respond to the foolish bleeding hoes that jumped on my mention spewing thrash!! |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 1:43pm On Feb 14 |
Maysdevices: I'm not someone like you that follow multitude to be foolish!! So, rest |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 1:44pm On Feb 14 |
Maysdevices: Get off my mention!! You bleeding hoe. Rant all you want. You won't get another response!! Prostitute |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by TeamXola(m): 1:55pm On Feb 14 |
This is not something new. Helping woman to school doesn’t mean she will love you. Your character is the most important. If your character no pure, she go just collect ur money and go. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by BluntCrazeMan: 2:29pm On Feb 14 |
GistMedia0:So,, if I have a house maid which I trained up to the university level, she is supposed to be waiting for me to marry her? I cannot give any random lady a scholarship and expect nothing in return other than for her to use her knowledge and returns to help her people? |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by gforce5: 3:28pm On Feb 14 |
Good for him lol. Despite several warnings, pleas and examples, Nigerian men refuse to stop this habit of training someone who isn't your wife to school. I have said it on numerous occasions that Nigerian men are natural SIMPS. They are conditioned to spend on women without thinking. Nigerian men have zero standards and will go for women who wouldn't look at them if their situation was in reverse. That "provider" mentality has messed up a lot of men in this country and is the reason why they die before their time. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by BrighterSyde: 4:34pm On Feb 14 |
Incrediblekutty: You are welcome. I believe we are entitled to our various opinions and it is good that both of us can indeed tolerate our varying opinions. Enjoy your week sir. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by chariisGRACE(m): 6:37pm On Feb 14 |
pansophist: Sir, let me remind you what you said just yesterday,that in life, the dumb and weak suffers. So, the suffering this guy is currently facing right now is because he was dumb to train a woman he hasn't wifed in school. The best way to treat a woman is like a kid. Nobody expects a kid to pay them when giving them gifts. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Bloomfrancs03(m): 9:07pm On Feb 14 |
slaawomirr: They are not emotionally stronger. They are manipulative and selfish. |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 10:29pm On Feb 14 |
BrighterSyde: Thanks for the engagement!! It's worth the response. Enjoy yours too Senior |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by bluebay(m): 3:58am On Feb 15 |
Maysdevices:You’re one of this country’s Problem… Aboki Kpanshage |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Gerrard59(m): 5:06am On Feb 15 |
gforce5: While that is true, are we going to overlook women's hypergamy and cultural reasons? Because, the reality is that a woman who contributes financially in the household will demand certain privileges and be assertive/opinionated (money gives power). How many Nigerian men can cope with such a system? 1 Like |
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by gforce5: 9:58am On Feb 16 |
That is true. I had that same conversation with a female friend 3 days ago. Women who make more money than their spouses/boyfriends tend to be more domineering. There are exceptions though such as Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Alakija, Bola Shagaya etc. However, my point still remains that our mentality of being providers tends to attract gold diggers and liabilities not only from Nigeria but other parts of the world. Gerrard59: |
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