writetopoker:
Post both of the ladies pictures here first let me check something

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood three rented apartments , I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home, they always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs, one of them, her husband is not always around he goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me on conversation any little chance she fines me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too, I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution. The other lady is here with here husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally it happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor house to ask the if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives on our way going the husband was coming back home he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she there disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation ? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it, at this point I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s wife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this ?? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action, Matured advice please.

Brandiebird:
Understand the moto “don’t shi where you eat.”


You had no business eating another man’s food
You had no business walking around with another man’s wife. You did too much and you should be humble and learn from your mistakes and move on.

This is what happens when you don’t mind your own business. You better learn from this and change your character. You have no business spending that much time with your neighbours wife.

For future reference: you can’t be too friendly with neighbours, anything past common decency, respect and simple greetings, you’re doing too much.

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood three rented apartments , I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home, they always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs, one of them, her husband is not always around he goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me on conversation any little chance she fines me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too, I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution. The other lady is here with here husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally it happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor house to ask the if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives on our way going the husband was coming back home he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she there disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation ? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it, at this point I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s wife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this ?? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action, Matured advice please.

Rexymania:
A man and a woman can never be friends. Put yourself in his shoes... How will you feel if you're coming back from work and see your wife and a neighbor going out together? Will you give them thumps up and be happy? You are guilty as hell

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood three rented apartments , I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home, they always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs, one of them, her husband is not always around he goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me on conversation any little chance she fines me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too, I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution. The other lady is here with here husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally it happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor house to ask the if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives on our way going the husband was coming back home he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she there disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation ? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it, at this point I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s wife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this ?? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action, Matured advice please.

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood three rented apartments , I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home, they always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs, one of them, her husband is not always around he goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me on conversation any little chance she fines me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too, I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution. The other lady is here with here husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally it happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor house to ask the if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives on our way going the husband was coming back home he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she there disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation ? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it, at this point I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s wife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this ?? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action, Matured advice please.

Obierika:


Were they holding hands or going out under the cover of darkness?

The husband is just being insecure

Brandiebird:
Understand the moto “don’t shi where you eat.”


You had no business eating another man’s food
You had no business walking around with another man’s wife. You did too much and you should be humble and learn from your mistakes and move on.
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This is what happens when you don’t mind your own business. You better learn from this and change your character. You have no business spending that much time with your neighbours wife.

For future reference: you can’t be too friendly with neighbours, anything past common decency, respect and simple greetings, you’re doing too much.

Brandiebird:
Understand the moto “don’t shi where you eat.”


You had no business eating another man’s food
You had no business walking around with another man’s wife. You did too much, you should be humble, and learn from your mistakes then move on.

This is what happens when you don’t mind your own business. You better learn from this and change your character. You have no business spending that much time with your neighbours wife.

For future reference: you can’t be too friendly with neighbours, anything past common decency, respect and simple greetings, you’re doing too much.

Obierika:


Were they holding hands or going out under the cover of darkness?

The husband is just being insecure

Ebubu2:
Draw a firm line between you and the wife
Tell her you can’t be having friendship with her that it is not respectable.

Friend friend with a woman can lead to one time mistake

Dick no get brain
Pvvssy no get sense

Two of them can misbehave, best to keep them far apart.
You have not committed a crime but socially the wife is getting too comfortable around you and knowing women, it can lead to regrets.
Draw a line btw you and those women, be aggressive against them if they dare to cross it. No dey do “let’s be flowing” sir.

Gentlesoul2021:


Some married women don't even have common sense. What's the overfamiliarity with a bachelor. The husband has every right to protect his territory. The wife follow u to find a barber house, it's very evident she no get work, if she gets work, she no go dey Waka up ND down with u.

okeke6969:



The woman should have described the place for him to save the day.
In another angle, this guy supposed to decline walking together with her or is he looking for a better opportunity to woo her?
This guy is partially a suspect. The woman also is a suspect.