Nigerian Catholic priest, Reverend Father Oluoma has offered a piece of advice to single ladies above the age of 35 who desire to get married.

During a recent sermon in his church, the clergyman advised these ladies to break conventional norms and pursue any man who has shown interest in them but lacks the courage to approach them.

He suggested that it’s wiser for them to take the initiative, rather than waiting for a grand romantic proposal at their age.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOXgE7bUMuA?si=_JGRQncykr01TzXo

His words,

“At 35 years of age, my dear sister…You are waiting for a man who would come and propose to you at the airport? 35 years? You are not ready oh! You are waiting for a man to come and propose to you…You don dey enter men-o-pause….What it means is that men will pause.

Break the law! I am saying it and it might sound funny but I am serious. ..If you are a young girl here , marriage is your calling, you know you can be a good wife , good mother, you desire it and you are 35, If you happen to see any guy who is interested in you but he does not have the courage, you discover that this guy has shown signs of liking you but he doesn’t have the courage to speak to you…My dear sister, break the useless law, approach that guy and say ‘Bro, I have noticed you look at me somehow. I know you like me, you don’t have the courage. The guy will ‘mumuishly’ be laughing.”

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any single woman 35yr old or over waiting/hoping now to get married is as funny to me as a person waiting for a boat at the airport...

we too hype marriage for this country na achievement?

Father you should rather advice men to marry more than one wife and advice women to be happy as second wife. When our forefathers married more than one wife we rarely had single women and prostitutes

This is hard to wrap my head around

At 35yrs they are damaged goods worth avoiding. Besides many started dating at 15yrs so at 35yrs they have several broken relationships, plenty body counts and probably few abortions to show for it. At that age few are already baby mama.

It's almost like looking for a wife in a dustbin of abandoned women.

Lol why this so funny to me