Ascony:

i dont blame you, stories like this is normally a thing of amusement when its not happening to you,

@poster, you sound like a nice guy (just like me  ),
sometimes in life we get confused and we dont know wat we really want, your girl is goinf tru a phase now, u have shown her reality now, she had also shown great remorse for her mistakes, if she comes begging again pls forgive her, propose to her as u have intended (oh i can imagine the tears of joy flowing down her face when u bring out the ring  ),
she still loves you and she will surely make a good wife, if only u give her another chance,

Idowuogbo:

tears of joy lmaoooo, are u for real.Gal wey dey reject kissery and touchery and said she feels notin will cry tears of joy.Now oyinbo better put maga in wikipedia o

tears of joy lmaoooo, are u for real.Gal wey dey reject kissery and touchery and said she feels notin will cry tears of joy.Now oyinbo better put maga in wikipedia o

190_@:



^Idowu stop complicating issues

No body is perfect

He should give the girl another chance

there are 2 sides of a coin

All he should do now is postpone that introduction and watch this girl for like another 1 year

this time cut off all financial spendings and reduce the communication so as to see if she'll freak out again to the hands of another dude

Its the OP happiness im more concerned bout here and not even bout the girl

Yes she has messed up but no one is perfect.

OP - postpone your marriage/introduction and change completely towards her

show up with other girls (even if u av notin on them) stop spending money, change completely towards her

Just to see if she would reverse her camouflage - give your self 6months on this and let me know the result

Ascony:

i dont blame you, stories like this is normally a thing of amusement when its not happening to you,

@poster, you sound like a nice guy (just like me  ),
sometimes in life we get confused and we dont know wat we really want, your girl is goinf tru a phase now, u have shown her reality now, she had also shown great remorse for her mistakes, if she comes begging again pls forgive her, propose to her as u have intended (oh i can imagine the tears of joy flowing down her face when u bring out the ring  ),
she still loves you and she will surely make a good wife, if only u give her another chance,

Mr. Chuks:

Thank you all for your comments and advice. It has been one long morning. Let me clear the air about some issues some posters raised.
That I decided to join my father at his company was not because I am a “daddy’s boy” but he finally agreed to offer me a major controlling share in the company which was the reason I refused to work with him initially. So financially, it is a big leap for me.
My apartment is a modest one. I’m happy about that.
I asked her when I woke up this morning and I got the response I was expecting- ‘I don’t know’. I then took her down memory lane for a while to make her realize that she had really goofed. After that, I called off the relationship. I could see the shock on her face. She didn’t expect me to be blunt and insensitive. I called it off and gave her till noon to leave my apartment. She didn’t say a word while I walked away.
Since I was taking today off from work, I decided to work on some proposals I am expected to turn in this week. While working, she came up to me and asked for my audience. I granted her and she burst into tears immediately and could not even talk properly. I just sat where I was, sipping my coffee as though nothing happened. The truth is, I wasn’t feeling anything at that moment. I allowed her shed tears till she was able to speak. She then began to tell me the truth about the whole thing. How the guy had been her friend over the years and how he came around during the period she was in her childhood’s friend’s place and took her over to his….and blah blah blah.
Well, I told her it was too late and that her response ‘I don’t know’ meant she didn’t want to be with me. She kept on and on till I shut my system down and walked away. I just told her I didn’t want to see her when I returned.
I’m back to my apartment now. She is not in, but her things are still here. Inasmuch as I’m tempted to pack them up and drop them at the doorstep, I won’t. I would just wait till she gets back before I react.
My siblings and friends have been calling since morning, all excited about my supposed BIG day. I have tried my best to be diplomatic because I don’t want anyone to come rushing and begging me at this time.
I await her return.

Mr. Chuks:

Thank you all for your comments and advice. It has been one long morning. Let me clear the air about some issues some posters raised.
That I decided to join my father at his company was not because I am a “daddy’s boy” but he finally agreed to offer me a major controlling share in the company which was the reason I refused to work with him initially. So financially, it is a big leap for me.
My apartment is a modest one. I’m happy about that.
I asked her when I woke up this morning and I got the response I was expecting- ‘I don’t know’. I then took her down memory lane for a while to make her realize that she had really goofed. After that, I called off the relationship. I could see the shock on her face. She didn’t expect me to be blunt and insensitive. I called it off and gave her till noon to leave my apartment. She didn’t say a word while I walked away.
Since I was taking today off from work, I decided to work on some proposals I am expected to turn in this week. While working, she came up to me and asked for my audience. I granted her and she burst into tears immediately and could not even talk properly. I just sat where I was, sipping my coffee as though nothing happened. The truth is, I wasn’t feeling anything at that moment. I allowed her shed tears till she was able to speak. She then began to tell me the truth about the whole thing. How the guy had been her friend over the years and how he came around during the period she was in her childhood’s friend’s place and took her over to his….and blah blah blah.
Well, I told her it was too late and that her response ‘I don’t know’ meant she didn’t want to be with me. She kept on and on till I shut my system down and walked away. I just told her I didn’t want to see her when I returned.
I’m back to my apartment now. She is not in, but her things are still here. Inasmuch as I’m tempted to pack them up and drop them at the doorstep, I won’t. I would just wait till she gets back before I react.
My siblings and friends have been calling since morning, all excited about my supposed BIG day. I have tried my best to be diplomatic because I don’t want anyone to come rushing and begging me at this time.
I await her return.

Posted by: Baawaa ,

The Op is wiser than U!!!

Don't take her back. Let her go, she has no feelings for you. No matter how much tears she shed, the feelings are gone. Let her go with the other guy. I guess you have been too soft with her. Her telling you "I don't know" is just plain disrespectful and loveless. I won't be surprised if she's slept with the guy.

Move on and don't look back.

jennykadry:

Don't take her back. Let her go, she has no feelings for you. No matter how much tears she shed, the feelings are gone. Let her go with the other guy. I guess you have been too soft with her. Her telling you "I don't know" is just plain disrespectful and loveless. I won't be surprised if she's slept with the guy. What she feels now is not love, it's more of commitment for the 4 years she's spent with you.

Move on and don't look back.


P.S If your family is so concerned about her, you tell them everything but not immediately

Thats my KADRY!! AKA Watery sp[i]er[/i]m

Ascony:

wat da eff are u talking about?


i guess u will bear it if anybody u know refuses to forgive u just because of one bad word u uttered, and if she has no feelings for the OP why would she be crying and begging, why didnt she simply walk away and submit to the other guy?

Ascony:

i guess u will bear it if anybody u know refuses to forgive u just because of one bad word u uttered, and if she has no feelings for the OP why would she be crying and begging, why didn't she simply walk away and submit to the other guy?