I was having a sound sleep on Tuesday night when i received a notification from a female friend of mine. Asking me to borrow her some money to sort out a course, I asked her when she’d pay back and afterwards she blocked me. Didn’t even notice until today. The matter tire me. Or is it a crime to borrow money and expecting a refund considering the bad state of the economy.
Some ladies and their gutter behavior. SMH.

Sagacious Prof comes to mind

you were even nice enough to ask when she was gonna pay back, it shows you were ready to help... some guys nor go even send her... you con talk say she block you.. lmao, shey you send her papa before nii? abi na she dey pay your own bills?

the funny thing about those kind of girls is that, they know the kind of men they famz, the kind of men they put on their status, but the ones they can be billing freely as per mugu, dem nor send them... my brother, be happy one leech is out of your life... why do you need female friendship sef? wetin you wan gain from having friendship with women... it's either you're benefiting from each other either in cash or kind, if not, it's a total waste of time... mostly, friendship with women don't benefit men, only women... they would rather use you as their resource bank, boredom killer or their emotional tampon... the real gees they give a fvck about don't give a fvck about them...

The only reason many girls keep guys like you in their contact list is solely for financial assistance whenever the need arises. If you're not providing, you are totally worthless to her..

Can never lend money to women again..one called and ask for 5k I refused..I told my guy my guy said I should give her. I asked her when she would pay she said one week...this happened last year June uptill now she hasn't paid shishi..

The other one complained that her husband beats her and she has no money to start something she demanded for 80k I gave her 30k she said to pay within one week it's getting to one year now no show..

Some women no deserve help at all

Reminderz:
you were even nice enough to ask when she was gonna pay back, it shows you were ready to help... some guys nor go even send her... you con talk say she block you.. lmao, shey you send her papa before nii? abi na she dey pay your own bills...

the funny thing about those kind of girls is that, they know the kind of men they famz, the kind of men they put on their status, but the ones they can be billing freely as per mugu, dem nor send them... my brother, be happy one leech is out of your life... why do you need female friendship sef? wetin you wan gain from having friendship with women... it's either you're benefiting from each other either in cash or kind, if not, it's totally a waste of time... mostly, friendship with women don't benefit men, only women... they would either use you as their resource bank, boredom killer or their emotional tampon... the real gees they give a fvck about don't give a fvck about them...

Thanks for your input bro. On a normal day, I barely lend money to girls, I’m not one of those simps. but this particular one has been of help to me in the past financially. Of which I refunded her. I’m only surprised at her attitude. It unveils immaturity. Although, this gender keeps giving me reasons to despise them on a daily basis.

shortgun:
The only reason many girls keep guys like you in their contact list is solely for financial assistance whenever the need arises. If you're not providing, you are totally worthless to her..

Just like they’re absolutely worthless to me too. I pay my bills and doing pretty well for myself. So I’m good.

Charlex23:

Thanks for your input bro. On a normal day, I barely lend money to girls, I’m not one of those simps. but this particular one has been of help to me in the past financially. Of which I refunded her. I’m only surprised at her attitude. It unveils immaturity. Although, this gender keeps giving me reasons to despise them on a daily basis.

What if she has gotten The money as she said...

Op,na you even loose guard by allowing her to be the one to initiate the blocking........If I were you,na me go first block . You should be thankful to your stars you didn't borrow her the money,cuz na so the werey for Still block you immediately after borrowing her .....

Shebi na u b ha papa

You know you won't die if you titled this article "why is this girl like this"?

You know I really wonder what people like you wish to achieve with threads like this. People will always need help and there will always be people to give. Men request for help too but you don't see women opening threads up and down with screenshots.

Guys billings dey pass 5k self but we no dey come here dey post. Na you "Mummy thank you" go dey disturb the whole neighborhood with threads and screenshots.

If you can't help say No and move on. Coming here doesn't make you any better than the person asking.

Oh she even told you she has sorted it out... So why the thread?

Reminderz:
you were even nice enough to ask when she was gonna pay back, it shows you were ready to help... some guys nor go even send her... you con talk say she block you.. lmao, shey you send her papa before nii? abi na she dey pay your own bills...

the funny thing about those kind of girls is that, they know the kind of men they famz, the kind of men they put on their status, but the ones they can be billing freely as per mugu, dem nor send them... my brother, be happy one leech is out of your life... why do you need female friendship sef? wetin you wan gain from having friendship with women... it's either you're benefiting from each other either in cash or kind, if not, it's totally a waste of time... mostly, friendship with women don't benefit men, only women... they would either use you as their resource bank, boredom killer or their emotional tampon... the real gees they give a fvck about don't give a fvck about them...

like I understand,if we're not fucking then what am I using you to do on my WhatsApp?


some guys use their hands to create see finish for themselves, you have no business being friends with women,that is fastest way to put yourself in friend zone for life.

Tallesty1:
You know you won't die if you titled this article "why is this girl like this"?

Pastor tallesty talk beta today

Proserpina:
You know I really wonder what people like you wish to achieve with threads like this. People will always need help and there will always be people to give. Men request for help too but you don't see women opening threads up and down with screenshots.

Guys billings dey pass 5k self but we no dey come here dey post. Na you "Mummy thank you" go dey disturb the whole neighborhood with threads and screenshots.

If you can't help say No and move on. Coming here doesn't make you any better than the person asking.

Oh she even told you she has sorted it out... So why the thread?

if u read it well, u would have understood that he isn't here because she wanted to borrow money from him. Like he said she has been of help to him before in the past. The reason why he posted it was because she blocked him after requesting for help.

tuzle:
if u read it well, u would have understood that he isn't here because she wanted to borrow money from him. Like he said she has been of help to him before in the past. The reason why he posted it was because she blocked him after requesting for help.

Is she on Nl? Why isn't he tagging her monicker?
And where is the evidence she genuinely blocked him like other evidence of her asking for help we have seen?

I wonder what type of men we breed these days. Men who are quick to make topics online instead of directly addressing people whom they have issues with offline.

Op could have spoken to the lady offline and let her know she did wrong if he's not convinced by whatever reasons she comes up with. Instead he is here tabling his issues with other gossip and shallow minded lots like himself. All for NL validation?

Lol 😂

Charlex23:
I was having a sound sleep on Tuesday night when i received a notification from a female friend of mine. Asking me to borrow her some money to sort out a course, I asked her when she’d pay back and afterwards she blocked me. Didn’t even notice until today. The matter tire me. Or is it a crime to borrow money and expecting a refund considering the bad state of the economy.
Some ladies and their gutter behavior. SMH.

but she hasn't done anything wrong judging from the screenshot, she gave you 7missed calls, she found alternative, when you decided to come up after your pride, you are now angry because she told you not to worried, I'm sure she blocked you when you show your anger because you couldn't show almighty to he just for 5k, until I hear the girl's side of the story. Go one side

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
but she hasn't done anything wrong judging from the screenshot, she gave you 7missed calls, she found alternative, when you decided to come up after your pride, you are now angry because she told you not to worried, I'm sure she blocked you when you show your anger because you couldn't show almighty to he just for 5k, until I hear the girl's side of the story. Go one side

check the time on that screenshot, she called midnight and the guy replied early morning after 6am

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
but she hasn't done anything wrong judging from the screenshot, she gave you 7missed calls, she found alternative, when you decided to come up after your pride, you are now angry because she told you not to worried, I'm sure she blocked you when you show your anger because you couldn't show almighty to he just for 5k, until I hear the girl's side of the story. Go one side

What pride are you taking about? It's evident you didn't grasp the essence of my post. Your assumptions and misinterpretations are quite telling. Maybe next time, take a moment to read thoroughly before attempting to dissect my experience

Proserpina:
Is she on Nl? Why isn't he tagging her monicker?
And where is the evidence she genuinely blocked him like other evidence of her asking for help we have seen?

I wonder what type of men we breed these days. Men who are quick to make topics online instead of directly addressing people whom they have issues with offline.

Op could have spoken to the lady offline and let her know she did wrong if he's not convinced by whatever reasons she comes up with. Instead he is here tabling his issues with other gossip and shallow minded lots like himself. All for NL validation?

Lol 😂

What stupid validation is that? It’s apparent you're quite eager to jump to conclusions without understanding the full context. My post was about addressing a situation, not seeking validation. Maybe next time, refrain from making assumptions and focus on comprehending the situation before passing judgment.

Charlex23:

What stupid validation is that? It’s apparent you're quite eager to jump to conclusions without understanding the full context. My post was about addressing a situation, not seeking validation. Maybe next time, refrain from making assumptions and focus on comprehending the situation before passing judgment.

If you don't see the wrong in you bringing a private issue online for strangers opinions while the person involved is oblivious of your grief then this conversation ends here.

Not only did you commit a fallacy of hasty generalization by your experience with a single girl, you are here claiming not to seek validation when that's the logical explanation to your actions. Delulu?

Speak to the girl that offended you and don't come and disturb us online if truly you do not seek Nl validation and cheers.

Don't come here to do "Gather ye brethren let's hate on girls together"

You do not lend money to women. If you must, hold something of hers as leverage or do charity and dash her completely, because depending on a woman's sense of honour is a road to (very) big disappointment.

As for befriending women for 'true' friendship, refer to Briffault's Law.

Nigerian women are evil we agree

Should that make Nigerian men petty, insecure and so childish?

Person offend you offline instead of you to address her, you come create topic on Nl. Wetin make we do? Collect her address go beat her?

Do you all really think before you create threads here?

Proserpina:
If you don't see the wrong in you bringing a private issue online for strangers opinions while the person involved is oblivious of your grief then this conversation ends here.

Not only did you commit a fallacy of hasty generalization by your experience with a single girl, you are here claiming not to seek validation when that's the logical explanation to your actions. Delulu?

Speak to the girl that offended you and don't come and disturb us online if truly you do not seek Nl validation and cheers.

Don't come here to do "Gather ye brethren let's hate on girls together"

It’s exhausting living in a world where everyone else is wrong and you're always right. And you chose to be disturbed if not, you could’ve quietly avoided this thread and do something better with your good for nothing life. Enjoy your holier-than-thou parade while the rest of us live in reality. Cheers to your delusion!

Proserpina:
If you don't see the wrong in you bringing a private issue online for strangers opinions while the person involved is oblivious of your grief then this conversation ends here.

Not only did you commit a fallacy of hasty generalization by your experience with a single girl, you are here claiming not to seek validation when that's the logical explanation to your actions. Delulu?

Speak to the girl that offended you and don't come and disturb us online if truly you do not seek Nl validation and cheers.

Don't come here to do "Gather ye brethren let's hate on girls together"

You talk too much.

Charlex23:

It’s exhausting living in a world where everyone else is wrong and you're always right. And you chose to be disturbed if not, you could’ve quietly avoided this thread and do something better with your good for nothing life. Enjoy your holier-than-thou parade while the rest of us live in reality. Cheers to your delusion!

Oga go and face the girl that offended you offline. Be a man, tell her she's wrong if her reason doesn't resonate with you. Don't come and gossip her on Nl .

Funny enough your type may even smile and stylishly explain yourself to her if you see her. We know your type.

Him dey talk reality.... So Nl is your reality while the lady offline is your delusions. Wahala

Snowx:
Can never lend money to women again..one called and ask for 5k I refused..I told my guy my guy said I should give her. I asked her when she would pay she said one week...this happened last year June uptill now she hasn't paid shishi..

The other one complained that her husband beats her and she has no money to start something she demanded for 80k I gave her 30k she said to pay within one week it's getting to one year now no show..

Some women no deserve help at all

Majority of women will do this, they don't usually pay their debt they see men as disposable items to enable them achieve their financial responsibilities. Very appalling

They won't face issues head on they will rather gossip and hate online and claim it's reality.

Is this the quality of men we now have in Nigeria?

Charlex23:

What pride are you taking about? It's evident you didn't grasp the essence of my post. Your assumptions and misinterpretations are quite telling. Maybe next time, take a moment to read thoroughly before attempting to dissect my experience

any learned person that check my analysis will know that I read and understood your post, I decided not to judge without the other side of the story and you are pained about it, that shows you are wrong from the whole process. You can't be the judge in your own case.

Proserpina:
You know I really wonder what people like you wish to achieve with threads like this. People will always need help and there will always be people to give. Men request for help too but you don't see women opening threads up and down with screenshots.

Guys billings dey pass 5k self but we no dey come here dey post. Na you "Mummy thank you" go dey disturb the whole neighborhood with threads and screenshots.

If you can't help say No and move on. Coming here doesn't make you any better than the person asking.

Oh she even told you she has sorted it out... So why the thread?

Read to understand and not read to respond, this is the singular reason people fail exams even if they have read.

Did you see where the OP refused to lend money to the lady?

Women lack accountability and responsibilities, once you put a lady to task most of the time she default What is wrong for a lender to request a repay of the loan he issued? Nothing but most women will get angry because of entitled mentality just like the message above.

That girl is just a scammer who job is to scam unsuspecting guys who fall for her gimmicks, what stops her from taking the money and returning it back as the lender asserted if not that she expected free money from men as usual. Ladies should be learn to be responsible, no one owes you anything. As an adult you have to give account for everything you engage yourself in.

idahme:



Read to understand and not read to respond, this is the singular reason people fail exams even if they have read.

Did you see where the OP refused to lend money to the lady?

Women lack accountability and responsibilities, once you put a lady to task most of the time she default What is wrong for a lender to request a repay of the loan he issued? Nothing but most women will get angry because of entitled mentality just like the message above.

That girl is just a scammer who job is to scam unsuspecting guys who fall for her gimmicks, what stops her from taking the money and returning it back as the lender asserted if not that she expected free money from men as usual. Ladies should be learn to be responsible, no one owes you anything. As an adult you have to give account for everything you engage yourself in.

Convince me she truly blocked him / the purpose of this thread or keep your opinion to yourself.