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Pros And Cons Of A People Pleaser by Solofresh2: 7:22pm On May 23 |
Hello fellow nairalanders I want to share with you the pros and cons of being a people pleaser without taking much of your time Being a people pleaser can have both positive and negative aspects. Positive aspects: - You prioritize others' happiness and well-being, which can lead to strong relationships and a sense of community. - You're often empathetic, understanding, and supportive, making you a valued friend and companion. - Your willingness to help others can bring joy and fulfillment to your life. Negative aspects: - You might compromise your own needs, desires, and boundaries to accommodate others, leading to burnout, resentment, and loss of personal identity. - Constantly seeking approval from others can make you vulnerable to criticism, rejection, and low self-esteem. - You may struggle with assertiveness, decision-making, and setting healthy boundaries, as you prioritize others' opinions over your own. To be a healthy people pleaser, consider these tips: - Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care. - Practice assertive communication and express your own needs and desires. - Learn to say "no" without guilt or apology. - Cultivate self-awareness and self-acceptance to reduce your need for external validation. - Embrace your own identity and values, and don't compromise them to please others. Remember, it's essential to strike a balance between caring for others and caring for yourself. By doing so, you can maintain healthy relationships and a positive sense of self. Hope I made good points |
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