lefulefu:

and in the meantime u go dey choplate all the bobo money

i must taste a food before i know if its sweet or not.

Since 2011, nawa o

pocohantas:
Excellent.

Any man that can keep himself till marriage is a wonder of the world. I will cross seven seas for him...

Wash!!

I love sex but that doesn't make it my priority in a relationship. I can't pretend to be your own understanding of "Nice guy" just to impress you and end up cheating on you later on.

A man can decide not to have sex with you until marriage but that doesn't mean he is not having it elsewhere...shine your eyes

Adaeze003:
people now see love as sex. What a pity!!!!

Some girls now see money as love..what a pity!!!

There is nothing to take about it,
It’s just like a football game, anything can happen..
50:50 game

SaintHilary:
This nairaland sef...Topic since 2011
Na tokunbo moto

I laughed out loud at this comment.

What an inspirational thread! If after 8 years it made front page. What's your excuse for giving up?

A post from 2011?? Na today e make front page?
God forbid

Relationship without sex and marriage without sex are same thing to me both are impossible

Ha.
I don't understand o.

How come a topic created since 2011 is just making front page, 8years later?

I guess, this is proof...
it's never too late to make it in life

xynerise:


Wash!!

I love sex but that doesn't make it my priority in a relationship. I can't pretend to be your own understanding of "Nice guy" just to impress you and end up cheating on you later on.

A man can decide not to have sex with you until marriage but that doesn't mean he is not having it elsewhere...shine your eyes

We are used to hearing this. Just stick to your own standard- don't use it for everyone.

Okay?

It's has a good side

Nothing kunle no go see for nairaland. 2011 thread just making front page?

pocohantas:


We are used to hearing this. Just stick to your own standard- don't use it for everyone.

Okay?

Not my standard, young lady. It's just the sad reality to the majority. Love attracts sexual feelings and nothing wrong expressing it.

Let's not be hypocritical about this.

Adaeze003:
people now see love as sex. What a pity!!!!

the same way people see spending on a lady as love.. what a pity

sexy74:
That's not possible its one of those things that spice up a relationship.
If a lady tell you no sex until marriage she should not expect any thing from you until marriage too.

Sure.....but come to think of it, seriously what do average Nigerian men give to ladies to warrant the sex they so crave for( even without giving her anything) before marriage?

xynerise:


Not my standard, young lady. It's just the sad reality to the majority. Love attracts sexual feelings and nothing wrong expressing it.

Let's not be hypocritical about this.

My point exactly...

EXCEPTIONS APPLY!

That one nah relationgoat.

pocohantas:


My point exactly...

EXCEPTIONS APPLY!

Yea, maybe genetically

awaiting the doorstep delivery of a bottle of Fura, make I go siddon for fence dey observe diplomats...

I'm into one at the moment, the reason is because I needed to stay away from sex for now and I searched for someone who have similar idea/view like me.
We are cool with it.

BTW nothing no fit happen for this life o, since 2011... 8 years thread...

Never give up, even this thread no give up why human like u go give up.

That a total waste of time,guys spend in relationship while ladies open leg...if you ain't opening your leg,I'm not gonna spend sis!

sharone21:

Sure.....but come to think of it, seriously what do average Nigerian men give to ladies to warrant the sex they so crave for( even without giving her anything) before marriage?

Don't even go to the idea of what is given to warrant sex

Guys will come for you

Post of 2011 now making front page

Nairaland is now turning a joke

Even the OP of this thread might have forgotten their is a site named nairaland

Whether it's no sex without relationship or no relationship without sex, the thing is sex without marriage is actually a sin nd it's not a good thing cus it has so many set back to your destiny. Keep yourself holy your body is the temple of God

it is like Eating bread without butter

Balenciagabrain:
Here is the single truth and nothing but the truth.

It is very possible to have a true relationship without sxx. In fact, it is the best kin of relationship because it takes away the attention of sinful pleasures, instead, channelling the energy into building a strong bond of friendship. This is the type of relationship that is built on spirituality.

Believe me, spirituality is the best way to live.

Nice point but my own view or reason is slightly different from yours....
Mine is channeling the energy into building a better life for me and my loved ones not only building a strong bond of friendship.

Which ancestor of a moderator decided to push a thread opened eight years to front page?

On the topic. I have been doing some thinking. Why exactly is sex so important? There is no day that passes without discussions bordering on sex on nairaland. Marriages have been destroyed because of sex. Careers have been destroyed because of sex. Lives have been ended because of sex. Reputations have been mortgaged because of sex.

Why exactly is sex so important? If there is anyone that knows, please tell me. I wish to be educated.

dat one no b relation-ship na relation-canoe.

A relationship without sex is redundant

If you have respect for your body. No man (or woman) who isn't your husband (or wife) should ever have sex with you. I'm not even talking about Christianity but self dignity and the power of the will. We are talking about the body of humans not animals here. Nevertheless, we live in a debased world where the line has been delineated. Personally, I kept off sex for a long time simply because I learnt early that most humans do not have control of their bodies. They call it an animal thing but we're not really animals.