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Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:56am On Dec 09, 2011 |
Long One: hmmmn . . . *whispers @ Slimyem* can I borrow your "magic chip"? Ijogz K: maybe |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by freecocoa(f): 6:26pm On Dec 09, 2011 |
Nah never flirted with a chic before,I can tell the difference,I'm sure,although seems like one chic is hitting on me here. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by eros(m): 9:37pm On Dec 09, 2011 |
coogar: 190_@: Do you have proof of this? A picture or video |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Xionez(m): 9:36am On Dec 10, 2011 |
Yeah, just once. During the blooming days of Yahoo Yahoo. Took 2 weeks to finally 'see' Hated Yahoo Messenger ever since. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 10:19am On Dec 10, 2011 |
I once acted like a "female" online just to obtain some important facts from someone unyielding, It did the trick but ever since i don repent!! |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:43am On Dec 10, 2011 |
mdsocks: lol likewise but I never purposely decieved anybody but apparently I had a masculine handle but everybody just concluded I was g[i]a[/i]y so I ended up becoming a babe-repellent |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by r231(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2011 |
^^^^^heyyyyyy where have you been |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Dec 10, 2011 |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 9:28am On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: lol likewise but I never purposely decieved anybody but apparently I had a masculine handle but everybody just concluded I was gay so I ended up becoming a babe-repellent Case of mistaken identity then, There are many in your shoes in here, but sometimes they are the ones that deliberately fueled it by leaving their handles without a gender and speaking from both sides of divide!!! But does emofine sound masculine?? |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:38am On Dec 11, 2011 |
r231: act as if u no no mdsocks: I was talking about a different site. I actually ran with the idea that people thought I was a male for a while because I thought it will be interesting to channel a male perspective - even though I wavered many times . Some people were suspicious of me that's why many believed I was g[i]a[/i]y because apparently I sounded too sensitive to be a man . Even with the belief that I was a "guy" one dude still hit on me and appeared disappointed when I finally clarified my gender - but who knows, the "dude" could have been an actual "female". In conclusion as a part-time "fella" the "lads" liked me better than the "ladies" - and when I say "liked" I mean a friendly like. I don't know if emofine sounds masculine to others because before I marked "(f)" to identify my gender some people referred to me via masculine pronouns. Thus I finally felt compelled to clear the confusion. Regarding people not making known their specific gender - some may not want their gender to influence how fellow posters take their thoughts in consideration because people have biased minds. That was one of my motivation for not immediately declaring my gender plus I wanted people to figure me out first. Surely if my identity had been "male" I would have garnered a different audience and reception. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: Regarding people not making known their specific gender - some may not want their gender to influence how fellow posters take their thoughts in consideration because people have biased minds. That was one of my motivation for not immediately declaring my gender plus I wanted people to figure me out first. Surely if my identity had been "male" I would have garnered a different audience and reception. Yeah, very true!! Same way some people hide their ages or lie about it because most people judge what you say most times by your age. But i guess you enjoyed being a "fella" while it lasted. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 2:59pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
mdsocks: Well I must confess being considered a bloke did have some benefits |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: Well I must confess being considered a bloke did have some benefit What benefits Like being able to bamboozle people into acceptance during arguments or what?? |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 8:10pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
lol well for one, no one even bothered harassing me for pictures when they hounded other females and they gave me a lot of space. They also seemed to respect my opinions a lot more as a guy. Oh and just like you I took advantage and teased some information from some of the lads . But it all changed since the reveal. When they discovered I was a lady the whole dynamic changed and my thoughts and ideas were said to have been inspired by PMS - my future nickname at a later stage. Some of them thought I was irrational and they kept on baiting me, wanting me to kick off. And of course ever since then they flooded me with piles of personal messages requesting to see the new "lady" on the block. I declined all of their offers because none of them deserved the privilege after e-bullying me . However some were cool with the "girl" with the masculine handle but quite a few particularly ones of a Nigerian descent were sexist pigs and denounced my so called "feminist" () ideals and it got worse once they discovered my age . A lot of them were just sexually frustrated cavemen (or women, who knows) really. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by coogar: 8:25pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: these things happened on nairaland or on another forum? |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 8:34pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
coogar: Another site. As if I'll ever label Nairalnders as "sexist" "cavemen" |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
:d |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: Quite an experience, but what did you expect, you had taken them for a ride and didn't expect a presidential handshake or a red carpet for deceiving them!! but @ the bolded. Did you have to also tease me!!. I told you i already repented and wouldn't try it again. I was really desperate for that info back then. I guess i was lucky my "victim" never got to know. Dumped the id immediately i got what i wanted! |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by pendo89(f): 9:06pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine you are very funny.Most times you sound as if you are posting from a laboratory you know. but ur making me laugh here. funny. |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by coogar: 9:29pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
emofine: haha. sarcasm. nairaland has the biggest assembly of sexist cavemen. . . . |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:16pm On Dec 11, 2011 |
mdsocks: Yeah so? they should live and let live pendo89: Most times you sound as if you are posting from a laboratory you know. lol well I like experimenting, making observations and analysing but I'd rather sound like someone who has just left an artist studio instead (I need to UnCloth my vocabulary). |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 10:04am On Dec 12, 2011 |
emofine: Yeah so? they should live and let live Yeah, good for you!! coogar: haha. sarcasm. hmmm, Thats a new discovery but I guess the cave[b]men [/b]have "partners" also [size=4pt](i.e their opposites)[/size] |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 25, 2011 |
yes oooooo!! i would rather forget about it!! cos it lasted soo long until we both realized the other was a female! it was someone other than 190 though which makes it twice it's happen to me |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 25, 2011 |
@ coogar you funny |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Dec 06, 2013 |
coogar:oh, the horror! |
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Timagex(m): 10:54pm On May 16, 2018 |
It happens to me almost every week when I use female pics for my dp ....I have been entertained and I also learnt some formats |
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