I have a companion I love very much and I call her Sweetest for that is exactly what she is.
She is wow!
But,

Yes. There is always a but in every relationship and marriage.

I love her intoto.
But,

But what?

I am addicted to literature. But she is clueless about my literary passions.

It is a waste of time to discuss my rejection slips from publishers and it is also a waste of time to tell her the good news about success stories. So, I discuss and share my literary passions with others.

I am totally devoted to her career and I do my best and even allocated the royalties from one of my books to her without telling her.

Whenever I feel very excited and I want to share my excitement over my writings with her, I keep it to myself. Because, the last time, she did not seem excited about it.
She loves Hip-Hop and movies more than books.

I know there are many couples in similar positions. And I think it is better to let her be and love her as she is without forcing her to love literature as I do.

I believe that partners should rub minds as much as they rub shoulders.

What is your own view?

find something you guys are both into and work your way from that, i don't like watching news but my bf does, i love watching movies he doesn't, but because we love each other we try to atleast get into what the other person likes.

you just need to try to understand her and sit her down and explain ur stuff to her.

This is really important to you. It will always come up and cause you friction. Like you said, there's always a but. But can you do without her interest in this matter? Think about it.

"Many waters cannot quench love" Songs of Solomon.