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| For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Agybabe(f): 8:05pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
This advice was passed along to me from a counselor; it was great to hear so I wanted to share it. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t "be friends." A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships, There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him—he takes it for granted. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies. You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 8:07pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Which women are VIRTUOUS Do you mean NIGERIAN WOMEN - U certainly CANT BE SERIOUS KMT |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Flashaldrin(m): 8:08pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
has been posted before. nice tho |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 8:10pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Disclaimer This post is directed to other parts of the world EXCLUDING (Remeber EXCLUDING) if you dont know the meaning of excluding it means E NOR JOIN ( eXcluding) NIGERIAN WOMEN Thank you |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Goldieluks: 8:16pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
190_@: You dey madt sef?   |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 8:18pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
^excuze me |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Agybabe(f): 8:28pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Take it or leave it. I A̶̲̥̅♏ referring to all virtuous ladies i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the world. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 8:33pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
^Minus 90% of the shameless nigerian women out there  1 Like |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Osama10(m): 8:51pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
190_@:  |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Beync(f): 8:57pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Who let the dog out again Op, Nice one jor  |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by ArQueBusieR(m): 9:04pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
190_@:Dude, be careful! Be very careful!! Do you have any idea my sisters are of Nigerian origin?! Keep it at it, and we'll have to settle this like men.
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| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by mashnino(m): 9:08pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
ArQueBusieR: |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by ronkebp(f): 9:10pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
LMAO ;DO>>>>>>@ ''E NOR JOIN'' Dude you be something else. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Beync(f): 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Lmao@ the punch brings hanglove for ArQ to punch d ode |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 9:25pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Nigerian dudes are certainly not smiling seems we have cretins without BALLS among them |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by ArQueBusieR(m): 9:42pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
^^You just painted the perfect picture of you, using nothing but words. Bravo! |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by freecocoa(f): 9:49pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Nice,I so believe the "if he cheated with you" part. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Idowuogbo(f): 9:56pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Agy come y u dey liee which counsellor pass am on, u shud b sued for Plagiarism dis is copy and paste from a old thread, u don try ur luck sha sharp gal. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by lolaluv1(f): 10:05pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
I've swallowed all; hook, line and sinker. . . . |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Decent2008: 10:10pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Take from it what you will. Good one, thanks for sharing. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Bisjosh(f): 10:19pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
Loves it |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
190_@: *flings snowball at 190*  |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Agybabe(f): 10:57pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
@190 have u got any problem with M̶̲̅ε̲̣? If u got, make sure u don't cross M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ path! Bingo asap! @idowuogbo na u sabi, п̥̥̲̣̣̣̥ợ̣̣̝̇̇̇ comment! @all 1 love |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by LesbianBoy(m): 11:58pm On Dec 21, 2011 |
190 u r the man! If I hear say naija babe VIRTUOUS eh! Nor be only virtueous na vitus!, next! |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 12:40am On Dec 22, 2011 |
LesbianBoy:  |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by pato405(m): 1:00am On Dec 22, 2011 |
190_@: hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, i fear o! exactly my thoughts when I first saw the post. 9ja ladies of these days. virtuous my foot! self centred, gold diggers on exploration and exploitation. gone are the days when men tied nuptial knots with virtuous ladies. our generation of ladies don tear eyes o! if this is for all ladies, fine and good. if it is for VIRTUOUS ones, please stop wasting space on this forum joor! |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 1:38am On Dec 22, 2011 |
By their fruits you shall know them Out of bethlehem they say . . Complete the statement i don forget Virteous kini? Nigerian women virtoeus even spelling the virtuous sef don hard me cos its completely not possible |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Agybabe(f): 6:30am On Dec 22, 2011 |
@190 and γ̥☺υ̲̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ dogs continue putting yourselves i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ shame! Bladerdash! |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Metalgoong(m): 7:00am On Dec 22, 2011 |
Well, for all MEN, please ignore all these gibberish being spewed by them feminists. Men have the opportunity to choose any girl they want, and marry at any time they deem fit. There is enough women to go around, and thats the reason a man can marry 20 wives without causing shortage for his fellow men . Lets live and enjoy life to the fullest, and never hesitate to dump or break the heart of any of them feminist that lacks what you want in a wife. . . . . . Again, don't keep the relationship going just because of sympathy or because you don't wanna break her heart. |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by 195(f): 8:50am On Dec 22, 2011 |
Metalgoong: women UNA hear so Agybabe: Go and adjust your boxes before u talk 2 me - whats all these boxes abt? |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Flashaldrin(m): 8:55am On Dec 22, 2011 |
Metalgoong:degenerate he-diot |
| Re: For The Virtuous Ladies Out There by Idowuogbo(f): 8:59am On Dec 22, 2011 |
Metalgoong:Element of truth said in a cold and mean way, bros ease ursef joor haba don't bite her nau Agybabe:Go and troway dis ur BT cellnet phone joor, its classed as antique no 1 uses dis kain tins dis days |
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