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Afodot0022:
Op na laziness dey worry you,na watin push you enter the situation you dey now. It's not that you really love this woman but becos of what you are getting back from her. See it's a big task marrying a single mother not talk of having 3 kids, are you ready for the task ahead cos I bet you, it will drain you In all ramifications,why put your self in such when you can easily go for young single woman . Single mothers are know to be toxic with bad characters which made them become a single mother, no reasonable man will leave a good woman to the street, men value women that are worthy. All what she is doing for you is just to gain ground into your life, it's a trap from the pit of hell, once you fully commit and marry her, she will let down her guard and show you the stuff she is made of. All stories have heard from men that married single mother don't end well, those men always bite the dust and regret it. Pls focus on your hustle and make your own money and don't depend on another woman money, it makes you vulnerable to stuff like this. All those story she told you about tribalism are just format, you can get the real truth from her man. Life is hard brother, don't open your eyes and make it more harder. You gonna regret it

Gbam! You hit the nail on the head. These people can be very nice until after the marriage, she will have a baby for you and the true colour will emerge. You think you are smart eh?

Look for the ex. Sit him down with green bottles and hear his side of the story.

Prepare to be a philanthropist because unexpected must happen and you will be the one catering for one or two of the children if you can do so you will enjoy the love, then if she respect you, you must reciprocate also

Wainey:
Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

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For a man, the most important thing is what will make him happy and who gives him happiness

Whether she lives with one of her children, the rest will definitely move in with her once she is married

So both of you need to understand the fact that you are going to accommodate those children because it's her bagages

I am glad she can fend for herself, that means you can both be supporting each other

So if your happiness is with her then go with who you want your happiness to be with

Being a single mother is not a curse, it's circumstances that leads to it

The matured single mother's are more organised and supportive

The choice is yours to make.

just know that she will only give you only one kid and at thesame time you will see her kids as yours too and all this depend on your own understanding and maturity
the good lord is your strength bro

Hassanmaye:
Haha bad guy he needs her money he thinks women are stupid, he will learn

Strong thing awaits him.

frozen70:
For a man, the most important thing is what will make him happy and who gives him happiness

Whether she lives with one of her children, the rest will definitely move in with her once she is married

So both of you need to understand the fact that you are going to accommodate those children because it's her bagages

I am glad she can fend for herself, that means you can both be supporting each other

So if your happiness is with her then go with who you want your happiness to be with

Being a single mother is not a curse, it's circumstances that leads to it

The matured single mother's are more organised and supportive

With them most single mothers show you why they became single in the first place.

Wickedfacts:
By the time she gets into your house, you will see the reason why the father of her kids ran away.

Hehe he no know say women are very manipulative. I fear who no fear women

Wainey:
Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

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The problem is not her but you.

Look into the mirror and ask yourself this question: Are you ready to accommodate her and her kids. Her kids will always be on your space...do you have a large heart for that

If you were my brother or relatives I will do everything possible.ro make sure that you will never get married to a single mother
For it is better to marry a retired prrostitite R Han marry a single mom

sylve11:
With them most single mothers show you why they became single in the first place.

Anything can happen to anyone in marriage, for every single mother there is a single father

But nature still favours the women to have the children

Nobody ever falls in love with a broke single mom.

Just saying.

Signed.

-Uncle W