Blackteeth:

@freecocoa. Your post doesn't make a bit sense at all.
Ok. Lets put it this way, why can't the sellers stop selling so there would be no more buyers? Are the buyers solely responsible for the thrive trade?

freecocoa:

for starters,read well before you reply,is there anywhere I wrote that buyers are solely responsible?

I don't expect my post to make sense to you prolly cos you may be one of the biggest buyers around,having said that,let me also ask you,why can't the buyers quit buying so that sellers can be driven out of business?

Take it or leave it,demand is on the high and these sellers are already neck deep into the business,because of this,they are willing to always supply to keep themselves in business,now if the buyers quit demanding,the supply rate will reduce.

If you come to my shop to buy an item,as a good business woman I'll gladly and happily sell to you,but if you don't,I'll not come to your house and force my goods on you because I may not even know your house to start with.
Now let's say I even know your house and bring it to you at home,its up to you to say NO.

Anyhow you look at it,the buyers are the reason why sellers will never stop selling,if the person demanding\buying stops,the producer\supplier will stop producing and supplying.

jay bee:

GF's and wives should start shouting hallelujah cos chances that 'em playas are going to start staying at home has just gone through the roof. No more meaningless waka about

MRbrownJAY:

Mrs C
we as parent should educate our kids the best we can, but if someone's daughter is a hoe then there is ABSOLUTELY nothing anyone can do about it. a hoe will remain a hoe, whether you dress her like a princess or wife her!

as we can clearly see by the documentary, some of these gals are HAPPILY doing what they do, and are not ashamed to say it on camera!

jay bee:

@Mzdark

How do you treat a drug addict or chronic love peddler?
Do you deny them the thing they love or hope/preach that they had get the strength from outter space to quit their bad habbit?

@Q
I see ya
Happy new year

MsDarkSkin:

AMEN!!!!!!!!

Knorkastur:

lol wouldn't be a bad idea to come with a can of oil to the date rofl,

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MsDarkSkin:

the customer. the customer puts the business in motion. that's common sense.
supply and demand. HELLO?!  

Princek12:

The seller sells the product in the first place, and had the seller never sold the product, the buyer would have nothing to buy. The seller consciously and voluntarily avails herself for sale, so do not blame the buyer who is just paying for a service. It is a business transaction. Common sense.

The seller comes out on top because the seller is making the money, right? So why are you complaining about the LovePeddlers who get paid for doing something they voluntary did?

You cannot blame the buyer for conferring a financial benefit on the seller.

freecocoa:

for starters,read well before you reply,is there anywhere I wrote that buyers are solely responsible?

I don't expect my post to make sense to you prolly cos you may be one of the biggest buyers around,having said that,let me also ask you,why can't the buyers quit buying so that sellers can be driven out of business?

Take it or leave it,demand is on the high and these sellers are already neck deep into the business,because of this,they are willing to always supply to keep themselves in business,now if the buyers quit demanding,the supply rate will reduce.

If you come to my shop to buy an item,as a good business woman I'll gladly and happily sell to you,but if you don't,I'll not come to your house and force my goods on you because I may not even know your house to start with.
Now let's say I even know your house and bring it to you at home,its up to you to say NO.

Anyhow you look at it,the buyers are the reason why sellers will never stop selling,if the person demanding\buying stops,the producer\supplier will stop producing and supplying.

Blackteeth:

Are the sellers not selling voluntarily? Did anyone force them to sell? Will you sell your two kidneys because their are buyers out there? Don't you chose what to sell and what not to sell? Therefore why can't the ladies in question chose not to sell their bodies?
A BUYER EXISTS WHEN A SELLER HAS VOLUNTARILY CHOSEN TO SELL AN ITEM OF PUBLIC INTEREST.

Princek12:

The seller sells the product in the first place, and had the seller never sold the product, the buyer would have nothing to buy. The seller consciously and voluntarily avails herself for sale, so do not blame the buyer who is just paying for a service. It is a business transaction. Common sense.

The seller comes out on top because the seller is making the money, right? So why are you complaining about the LovePeddlers who get paid for doing something they voluntary did?

You cannot blame the buyer for conferring a financial benefit on the seller.

jay bee:

@Mzdark

How do you treat a drug addict or chronic love peddler?
Do you deny them the thing they love or hope/preach that they had get the strength from outter space to quit their bad habbit?

jay bee:

@msdark
So you are basically saying psychological treatment works better than rehab?
Ok let's try one more scenario, how come medically obese people are treated by stomach stapling instead of asking them to calorie watch once they are addicted to food?
I kinda know we going to continue going back and forth so I am ready for ya yipppeeeeeeee  

MsDarkSkin:

rehab = psychological treatment bro. 
majority of the '12 step program' IS psychological. Ask mr.cork 

but on a serious note, stomach stapling is the equivalent to removing part of someone's lung or harmful particles from the trachea as a result of years of smoking. Those are simply means to cure the PHYSICAL effects of their habits. But had someone reached "inside" and touched them psychologically there would be no need for that. As both eating and smoking are like s3x. . . they serve as stress relief and can be addicting.

Addiction is MENTAL. 

Mrs, Chima:

Quiet Jaybee?

jay bee:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_happens_in_a_drug_rehabilitation_center

http://www.medicinenet.com/gastric_bypass_surgery/article.htm

-ad·dic·tion   [uh-dik-shuhn] Show IPA
noun
the state of being enslaved to a habit or practice or to something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming, as narcotics, to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma.

-stress (strɛs)

— n
1. special emphasis or significance attached to something
2. mental, emotional, or physical strain or tension

[size=18pt]Overcoming Drug Addiction[/size]
DRUG ABUSE TREATMENT, RECOVERY, AND HELP

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/drug_abuse_addiction_rehab_treatment.htm

Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 1: Decide to make a change

-the way you deal with stress
-who you allow in your life
-what you do in your free time
-how you think about yourself

Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 2: Explore your treatment options

. . .There are many places to turn for help. Not everybody requires medically supervised detox or an extended stint in rehab. The level of care you need depends on your age, drug use history, and other medical or psychiatric conditions. In addition to doctors and psychologists, many clergy members, social workers, and counselors offer addiction treatment services.

As you seek help for drug addiction, it’s also important to get treatment for any other medical or psychological issues you’re experiencing. Your best chance of recovery is through integrated treatment for both the substance abuse problem and the mental health problem. This means getting combined mental health and addiction treatment from the same treatment provider or team.

Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 3: Reach out for support

Don’t try to go it alone. Whatever treatment approach you choose, having a solid support system is essential. The more positive influences you have in your life, the better your chances for recovery. Recovering from drug addiction isn’t easy, but with people you can turn to for encouragement, guidance, and a listening ear, it’s a little less tough.

Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 4: Learn healthy ways to cope with stress

Even once you’ve recovered from drug addiction, you’ll still have to face the problems that led to your drug problems in the first place. Did you start using drugs to numb painful emotions, calm yourself down after an argument, unwind after a bad day, or forget about your problems? After you become sober, the negative feelings that you used to dampen with drugs will resurface. For treatment to be successful, and to remain sober in the long term, you’ll need to resolve these underlying issues as well.


Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 5: Keep triggers and cravings in check
While getting sober from drugs is an important first step, it’s only the beginning of the recovery process. Once sober, the brain needs time to recover and rebuild connections that have changed while addicted. During this time, drug cravings can be intense.

. . .Challenge and change your thoughts. [/b]When experiencing a craving, many people have a tendency to remember only the positive effects of the drug and forget the negative consequences. Therefore, you may find it helpful to remind yourself that you really won’t feel better if you use and that you stand to lose a lot. Sometimes it is helpful to have these benefits and consequences listed on a small card that you keep with you.

[b]Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 6: Build a meaningful drug-free life

You can support your drug treatment and protect yourself from relapse by having activities and interests that provide meaning to your life. It’s important to be involved in things that you enjoy and make you feel needed. When your life is filled with rewarding activities and a sense of purpose, your addiction will lose its appeal.

Drug addiction treatment and recovery step 7: Don’t let relapse keep you down

Drug addiction and mental health
Drug addiction frequently goes hand in hand with other mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, attention deficit disorder, and bipolar disorder. In many cases, the drug use is an attempt to self-medicate. When these problems co-occur, recovery depends on treating them both.

BelaMorena:

Jaybee i responded but was banned by spambot!! 

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=759034;sa=showPosts

d0nde esta mi post?!!   

jay bee:

@Q
I'm not putting down psychological therapy or what not. Just saying it's far fetched when dealing with addiction. You can do all that therapy ish when they are not addicted.
For crying out loud sistas, why do they treat heroine addicts with methadone? Why don't they just get into their psyche and drill into their numbskull that any drug is bad beit recreational or medicinal (side effects)