Tosinville:

Mrs.Chima
Why not? you can still marry more men as long as you like & have 'em with mr.chima on the same roof.

Mrs, Chima:

Are you telling me HOW TO LIVE IN MY MARRIAGE?   

LMAO@the thought of me telling Chima about another man. [size=13pt] Did I tell you what he did to a dog that chased me right? [/size]

~Killz~:

That's my boy. . .

Mr, Cork:

****3some with Laprasa & Mrs Chima? I pass! ***

. . . . .and there was silent.  

Before nko?

~Killz~:

Before nko?

odiaero:

Nigerians with copycatism, i thought i saw a thread bout why the world is so unfair to men?, now some dumb head have taken time out to compose and bring out why the world is so unfair to women. Hissing in hausa

^^^
You are wrong bro! The other thread on why the world is unfair to men is a copycat to this one. Pls check the dates! It was as a result of the dumbness of a man, to reply a woman with another thread that made me lash out on that men thread! Blame the spineless complaining wimp that opened the men thread!

~Killz~:

^^^
You are wrong bro! The other thread on why the world is unfair to men is a copycat to this one. Pls check the dates! It was as a result of the dumbness of a man, to reply a woman with another thread that made me lash out on that men thread! Blame the spineless complaining wimp that opened the men thread!

When I asked her why her son isn't married yet, she said he's a man, he can marry anytime.

anataala:

Thus the fact that man has been favored in some ways more than woman does not automatically make him superior to her. It is only when his taqwa is more than hers that he can from the Qur'anic point of view be considered superior to her. And when a person's taqwa increases to a worthwhile level the question of his superiority does not interest him, for he or she realizes that all praises are due to God.

2) The first reason then why men are qawwamun over women is their physical ability to protect women. The second is that "they (i.e. men) spend out of their wealth." Although the Holy Qur'an permits women to earn and own wealth, it expects that men will generally be able to earn more than women because of the natural differences between them. This means that they will generally be responsible for the economic needs of women and this responsibility also makes them qawwamun.

In thinking of men as qawwamun over women we should not limit their role to mere protectors and providers. Properly taking care of women requires more than ensuring their physical security and providing food and shelter. It also requires looking after their psychological and emotional needs which can be summed up in terms of the need for love (30:21). Thus man's role in the relationship between men and women (as husbands and wives) generally consists of three things: protecting the woman, looking after her economic needs and giving her love.

What is the woman's role in this relationship? A brief statement follows about this in the verse:

"The righteous women are devout (qanitat) and guard what Allah has willed to be guarded even though out of sight."

michelin89:

[b]Women are the cause of their own fortune/misfortune.

I have seen women who like to be abused. And they think they are strong and bold because they abuse the man back. Olodo nor know say a only the one wey she dey receive people dey see.[/b]I have seen women who like being cheated on. They feel even more important when the man comes back to them as to prove no woman outside is better than her at last.

I have seen women who don't care about being educated. They believe after all, someone is going to marry them and take care of them.

I have seen women who don't want to work. They are convinced they are smarter than their sucker working girlfriend, because they use their "charm" to get what they want from men.

I have seen women who'll laugh at this thread. All they can say is: My man likes me they way I am.

Yeah, there are women who don't think life is unfair, because they believe in a superior god called P-ENIS. Long live the Penisians! Life is easier for and very fair to them, truely.

queensmith:

^^ why do you think africa is soo backwards? they will never let it go.

luckgames:

Mrs. Chima
our relationship base on what society thinks, your family thinks, and stereotypes.  You will be unhappy and miserable for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.  Do you.  "


Great comment
You are so  right
That is the greatest  issue in marriages
I wish you can advice lot of young women out there