freecocoa:

What do you mean by"see me dey visit romance section"? You better pass people wey dey here abi wetin?

egift:

No. I no better pass. Only I usually shy away from such subjects. Not an age limitation. Thanks both for your advice.

egift:

Chia! See me dey visit Romance section. Anyway, I have 2 little issues I need suggestions on. Please endeavour to address them separately - Thanks.

1. My girl-friends are very possessive
I have few female friends I do chat with and are friendly too. But my problem is that they are very possessive. They act as if they own me or will soon own me. Sometimes people who know me will tell me how some of them brag about me (it sounds as if I am engaged to them or I promised). Me do make that mistake of promising marriage, when I do not plan to. But when I hear those, I really do not have problem with people being ambitious - but am very uncomfortable with it. They don't know each others and never met.

egift:
2. The quality I seek in a wife
All I want from the lady that will be my wife is one that will make me happy - just make me laugh, (her talk, actions, even how she carry herself). Love that will not cheer me up will be useless. But all the people that surround me are just interested in themselves - buy me this, get me that and none bothers about what I want or make effort to please me. Even the one am considering, don't also have that as her primary effort. Should I tell them what I want? Am trying to avoid being deceived with pretense. Or will I get my desire (dedicated effort to cheer me up at all times) when I marry or hit great wealth?

Please maintain your nature. I like when you said you dont want to be deceived by pretense. There's a very high probability and also possibility of them becoming sweet and acting all nice to you if you make your intentions pinpointed! A wise person sees calamity and conceals himself, so thinking she'll change when you marry or hit great wealth would not be so wise because, you already know who they are and what they are capable of. Great disappointment comes from thinking a stone will turn into a loaf of bread! That lady is out there, you just have to keep searching. Maturity is an essential quality of any one hoping to get married, male and female alike. If they are not matured to your expectations, DONT! A wife makes a home from the house you gave to her. A wife is not interested in herself alone. Any lady that is not interested in pleasing or making happy a guy she calls her boyfriend, will do worse as a wife! Your reasoning is ok. Just dont get despaired so quickly. The world we live in has been turned on it's head. Good "things" are rare and hard to find, but as always, the patient dog eats the fattest bone!

MRbrownJAY:

@OP
1) find better friends
2) hook up with better women

egift:

No. I no better pass. Only I usually shy away from such subjects. Not an age limitation. Thanks both for your advice.

Okay,sorry I jumped on you,I thought you are one of those people who normally claim nothing good can be found in the romance section,hey as per what you call advice from me,I was being sarcastic.