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| I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by kunmibola(m): 7:10am On Feb 19, 2012 |
Hmmmmm, There is ds lady dat I havebben seeing for sometime. We both shared strongs feelings and until yesterday, evrytin was fine between us. We were together alone in the house wen we started exploring our bodies. I must say at ds point dat she was a virgin and though we used to play, I,personally,have always respevted her virginity. Infact, i did not want her to lose it. Unfortunately, yesterday we became over adventurous dat she was even the one wu inserted my manhood in2 her piece, I tot it was d normal play but we got wild and suddenly, i penetrated her! Omg! It wa sreally painful for her as she shouted real loud, very loud! I withdrew and dr was blood al over the place. I started apologising and she wouldnt listen! She got herself cleaned up and immediately, she left. Since den, I have been trying to get her on phone to no avail. I am feelong like a cheat now, She left in anger but im very scared she's not goin to come back to me. How do I get her back pls? What do I do to win her love back? Im reali down cos i nvr meant it to happen. 1 Like |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Sundayademola(m): 7:27am On Feb 19, 2012 |
What more can I say? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Nobody: 7:39am On Feb 19, 2012 |
why should you work yourself up for something SHE did? why should YOU be blamed for something SHE did? why cant you be honest about what happened and accept that you didnt do anything wrong? are you even sure that she is upset with YOU, rather than HERSELF?! to me this is just the case of a girl being so Hot that she couldnt turn the dikc down, all this play-play must have gotten to her head. . . . . . . . you wanted to slow down and preserve it while she wanted to be penetrated (she just didnt expect it to hurt that much). you better go back and fukc her properly before someone else takes over your duties! 4 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Dabss(m): 7:43am On Feb 19, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:lol 3 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Nobody: 7:55am On Feb 19, 2012 |
@op, u berra do as mrbrownjay says by fu€kin her well, before another guy takes it up for u. And face it son, she's no longer a virgin, so any other subsequent fuk for her would be like lickin sweet tangarine. Stop whirnin over nothin and be a man. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by slimyem: 8:30am On Feb 19, 2012 |
:d :d |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by pendo89(f): 8:47am On Feb 19, 2012 |
this is why i keep saying if you do not want to Be Intimate then stop playing with fire cz you will get burnt! stop blaming urself for something you both did willingly! are you small kids? I know she's having a hard time dealing with guilt and regrets. Give her time to overcome and she will come around. And for heavens sake she lost a hymen not God! 3 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by kunmibola(m): 8:59am On Feb 19, 2012 |
@MRBrownJAY thanxs but she doesn't even want to see me. Her phone's been off since yesterday. @Pendo86 Thanx sis! |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Nobody: 9:27am On Feb 19, 2012 |
^^ it's only been ONE day, chill, she probably still in pain and confused! btw: dont you know where she lives?! cant you go see her? at least, if she doesnt want to see you, then she has to let you know about it, and possibly explain why. |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by 9janinja1(f): 11:02am On Feb 19, 2012 |
pendo89: agreed. people tend to lose control with these things, i pretty sure she didnt plan on things happening like that. She's mostly upset with herself and not you, i'm thinking the pain brought her back to reality. give her space but not too much space. if her phone is off then leave txt messages letting her know you'r still there for her or something like that. |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Excelboi(m): 11:09am On Feb 19, 2012 |
And so what? Are u to celebrate it or why d broadcast? Mstcheeew |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by deniyor: 11:20am On Feb 19, 2012 |
Give her time to clear her head and she will be back. |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Basics007: 9:49pm On Feb 19, 2012 |
Sundayademola:Me too. The word has eaten the answer (oro pa esi je!) |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Killz3(m): 10:26pm On Feb 19, 2012 |
She chose to lose it. . . You were only a catalyst that sped up the reaction!  2 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by MrsChima1(f): 10:28pm On Feb 19, 2012 |
OP Did you rape her? |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by 2goodbobo(m): 11:27pm On Feb 19, 2012 |
Guy no worry your sef. Gurls tend to be glued to a guy that break their pkekus. All na initial garagara. Wen jungle mature, she go come. Na she go even disturb u to knack her again. na just one day and u don day kolo like dis. Pikin way go well go well. If you like carry am go America if e go die, e go die. 1 Like |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Nobody: 11:40pm On Feb 19, 2012 |
@ poster, to add to some of the advice here, I suggest that when you do see her again, put your arms around her and hug her and hold her for a long while. See if she will talk to you about how she feels and really listen. Show her that you are there for her.  1 Like |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Ranoscky(m): 1:07am On Feb 20, 2012 |
All i can do is lol @ the comment that said "the pain brought her back to reality." Lol. Funny that! 1 Like |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by omega25red(m): 1:58am On Feb 20, 2012 |
poster you better get a lawyer because you are about to be accused of r@pe  that girl is stupid as shlt she got naked let you rub your dic on her pussss even put it in the area and she expects you not to thrust. Anyway give her time and when you get the chance to talk to her listen closley to what she has to say then convince her to let you hit it again  because she gotz nothing more to loose. wear a hat for your jimmy |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by mobf: 12:31pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Hope say no be Rokiatu? 1 Like |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by 9janinja1(f): 12:38pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Ranoscky: yup. that awkward moment |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
She lost her virginity at her own will, the pain only brought her to her senses. Morever is she underage? |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by davida222(m): 1:03pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Just passing |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by lanre80(m): 1:44pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
i've been in dis kind of scenario b4.Ma virgin gf was d churchy type.when we started dating,she said no pre-marital sex n i neva objected cos i really liked her.Anytym she comes 2 ma place we play since i'm no stone.Though afta enjoying it she wud warn me n come again. 1 day d play got off limit n i almost enta her ireland but stop ma self, i was so aplogetic. she just kept saying i'm a fool. i got anoda chance n i busted dat thng.She was mad n left.Afta a while she came back.They always do. |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Freiburger(m): 1:46pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Freiburger(m): 1:47pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Mrs, Chima: |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by kunmibola(m): 2:15pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
@All, Thankx so vey much for ur pieces of advice. I have sent her messages and the only time she picked my call, she asked why I called her, I really don't want her to feel cheated and I am kinda worried that she would end up doing somthing very nasty and silly! |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Ranoscky(m): 11:07pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
^ U dont need to bother one bit, if u ask me. She inserted ur simcard into her phone [intentionally and wasnt forced to]. The problem is, she wasnt xpectin such pain. She thought it was the normal free-flowin-ride she probably might be watchin on pornno movies or, the interestin "uhh ahh" her friends do share with her whenever they comback from the boyfriends houses durin weekend. But just like som1 said earlier, the pain 'knocked' and brought her back to reality [that statement is soo fuckin funny. Lol]. She doesnt wanto blame herself for bringin the pain to herself but, rather blamin and angry with u cos u own what was penetrated and caused her so much pain [na wao! Guys don suffer]. The only thing i'll advice u to do is just keep callin her until she finally decides to patiently hear from u. But pls, dont hang up there cos ur journey has just begin. Believe u me, when she's done with the pleasure she derives from ur callin her err'day [feelin all funky,] she'll finally bring herself back to u to finish what u started. And if she comes, just like MBJ said earlier, u better suck up em dueces and 'finish what u started, or else, som1else wil continue from where u stopped'. Cheers bro! |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by kunmibola(m): 5:48am On Feb 21, 2012 |
@ All, once again I thank u all for ur advice. I think i shiukd update u guys on the latest developments. Well, so far, she has been avoiding me but she picked my call last nite and after pleading blah blah, she wanted to know if i did it deliberately but she didnt believe wen i told her no. She later told me she hates so much and dat she wishes me dead! This came as a shock cos she was never ds mean, cc:MrBrownJAY, slimyem,others |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by pendo89(f): 6:17am On Feb 21, 2012 |
kunmibola: This is the one question all virgins that get burnt ask. Stop carrying too much guilt guy cz the girl will come around!! Jeez the stress of disvirgining somebody! Your girl is going through a phase of guilt and anger cz she idolises virginity just like many girls do since its a pre requisite to marriage. (there) But reality has hit her! ITS GONE kaput! she will never be a virgin again and if you don't end up as her hubby she has trouble wondering what she's gonna tell the guy that will end up marrying her ie if he cherishes a virgin. Please when she calls show her some love.Tell her you didn't plan to do so but she was just irresistable!! praise her a bit so she stops feeling 'taken advantage of'' I wish u could tell her that you enjoyed it and you don't mind doing it again if she permits you to. That also means its not the end of the relationship.Shes probably worried that you are going to drop her now that you have gone all the way and there's nothing new to explore. No mystery awaits! Look here dude ,she's picking ur call that is a good sign.Let her release her anger on u.It's ok and for a while. Keep uttering I love you all the time she wishes you dead and don't waste too much time explaining why and talking like you regret cz it only worsens the situation.She is a woman now not just a girl so let her know you are proud of introducing her to womanhood. The poor girl is fighting her own demons.Give her time! You know you are both annoying in this sense.You played with something u knew was dangerous and ignored the warning signs. So lets say it's a good lesson to those virgins who keep playing with that weapon of mass destruction and crying foul later. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Daywalker1: 7:48am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Hahahaha, eldas talk |
| Re: I Made Her Lose Her Virginity! by Killz3(m): 7:55am On Feb 21, 2012 |
pendo89:Nice compendium. . . Get a blog!  |
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