solomon111: And what is wrong in begging a man you love to stay with you,when it could also be the man doing the begging, or are you just trying to enforce on us your strange, unafrican(or should i say western) marital ideologies which i have seen in a lot of your posts,which without a shadow of doubt has been largely responsible for the staggering rate of divorce and all kinds of marital dysfunctionalities, from where you come from.
This is africa,and we have our culture,our traditions,and it has been working for us for generations.
I really pity any delusional african woman here, who takes your ideologies, hook,line and sinker.

solomon111: You are an Id!ot!
Don't come here trying to break the balance of African relationship.
I wonder who is dumber,if with all your 'smartness',all you guys can show for are crack heads,beat dads,baby mamas,artificial marriages, then i'd rather they be dumb.
Restrict your dumb-ass ideologies to america!
When it comes to relationships and marriages,we've got nothing to learn from you.!

Sagamite:

And all the above are not in African relationships?

solomon111: Nah!
It did not use to be,until all this feminists came with their crazy ideas.
These guys are ruining african families.

solomon111: You are an Id!ot!
Don't come here trying to break the balance of African relationship.

solomon111: You are an Id!ot!
Don't come here trying to break the balance of African relationship.
I wonder who is dumber,if with all your 'smartness',all you guys can show for are crack heads,beat dads,baby mamas,artificial marriages, then i'd rather they be dumb.
Restrict your dumb-ass ideologies to america!
When it comes to relationships and marriages,we've got nothing to learn from you.!

Adaeze003:
hmm this is some serious shyt! So your idea of a 'balanced' african relationship is a woman kneeling to beg a man? And uhm y cant u argue without bein insultive? Respect other pplez opinion...

Sagamite:

You need to pick up your books and start reading about history.

Never bring weak arguments to an open debate table, you would be made to look like a fooool.

queensmith: Well as opposed to how some will put it, the act is degrading, there is never the need for it. Be it feeding your husband at a wedding or greeting the elderly. There are many ways of humbling yourself or showing respect without compromising your dignity. Which i feel the act of kneeling or postrating is all about. Hardcore worship for people that like to be worshipped. How many of us even bother to kneel down to pray, esp in church these days. Something you haven't done for the deity you worship you will do for a spouse who is bent on leaving? I don't think so.
Besides its downright pathetic to take to begging in such manner, for the bible thumpers that want to use this opportunity to chat absolute sheet

freecocoa: I've not begged any man on my knees before for anything and i'm not planning to but like they say"never say never".

I think that shyt happens almost only in movies since i'm yet to see it in real life.

Mrs.Chima:


But I am an ediot when he is the one posting PURE DUMB BULLSHIT!

solomon111: You are an Id!ot!
Don't come here trying to break the balance of African relationship.
I wonder who is dumber,if with all your 'smartness',all you guys can show for are crack heads,beat dads,baby mamas,artificial marriages, then i'd rather they be dumb.
Restrict your dumb-ass ideologies to america!
When it comes to relationships and marriages,we've got nothing to learn from you.!

lefulefu:
bros mrs chima belongs to the feminist movement
ehen u need to see the way she treat her igbo husband like a slave

MsDarkSkin: No.
I have too much pride.
I'd rather lock myself in my room and cry my eyes out
over losing him than get on my knees and beg.

No man is worth giving that much power to!!

MsDarkSkin: No.
I have too much pride.
I'd rather lock myself in my room and cry my eyes out
over losing him than get on my knees and beg.

No man or HUMAN BEING is worth giving that much power to!!

cantell:
Talk is cheap.

Mrs.Chima:


YANNO SIS!

lastpage: ^^^^^^^Sharrap joor, we dont need your E-mail addy!
If you like, be a Bollywood fan or even Toshiba Fan sef!

~Killz~:

It depends on your offence, and the heart condition of whoever you are begging. Are you sincerely telling me that if after crying your eyes out and he doesn't budge and you realize that kneeling would solve the problem, you wont do it? You may be very humble but then it depends on the guy. Me, i'm sold on tears alone. . . But i cant say the same for the next guy. . .

Amicus Curiae:

What of those who can't cry easily no matter how hard they try?

Latrice699@gmail.com:
I'm a Nollywood fan also...I'm a Yankee and love the movies and I always wondered the same thang...makes the Najia women look weak an desperate....I have a lot of africian friends here in the States and they dont play that beggin stuff....

luckgames:

They don't have to play the begging
But they will play the single game

Amicus Curiae:

What of those who can't cry easily no matter how hard they try?

They should go see a psychologist. . . Something is wrong somewhere!