tivta: Is it just me or is it difficult to remain friends with an ex especially when you are a guy? I know most girls dont have problems with being friends with an ex but i usually wonder how you girls feel being friends with a man who is entered your honey pot before? Guys what do you also feel under such situation?

iyatrustee: @ ogbongzyk, must u guys always link everytin to financial gains? wonder d kind of girls u guys here date sha.

knowledge4: The Bible says ''flee every appearance of evil''
Friendship with an 'Ex' is sure temptation to adultery.
Many people (men and women) who allowed friendship with an 'Ex' end up in adulterous relationships with each other.
Let sleeping dogs lie. Avoid any form of intimacy with an 'Ex', if you really value your relationship with your God and your spouse and do not want to damage or sour it.

emiye: I dont suggest it, never be deliberate friends with your ex.

I noticed most ladies sees nothing wrong in it, the irony is that ladies are the weakest emotionally and are the most liable to being manipulated.

To the ladies who claim they can still stay as close friend to their exes, i will advice you stay clear, it has been proven to be the cheapest way for a Lady, married or single to cheat, though sometimes unintentionally.

dasparrow:

How old are you? As an adult, should you not already know the answer to that question? Why do you want to remain friends with an EX? so that you can despoil her like you Nigerian bred males are fond of doing? Please go and get a job and make yourself useful to society and whilst you are at it, stop fornicating. Heaven and hell is as real as day and night. Repent or face eternal damnation when your life on earth is up. Peace, out!

~Killz~:
No i can't. It makes no sense whatsoever to remain friends with someone who discombobulated your emotions, auctioned it, and eventually sold it. An ex is an ex. Remove the old, and make way for the new. I won't hate her, but i won't pick up the phone to call and find out about her whereabouts. I'll only communicate with her when we meet accidentally at an event or any random place. . . Meeting her would never be premeditated.

She's not the only one that can make me happy, why would i allow her make me miserable by remembering our past everytime i see her as just a friend? Life goes on gaddammit!

Metalgoong:

You frustrated old hag really need some psychiatric help. Venting your anger on faceless Nairaland/Nigerian males wont extricate you from your mental disabilities.
Please seek help!!!!

emiye: I dont suggest it, never be deliberate friends with your ex.

I noticed most ladies sees nothing wrong in it, the irony is that ladies are the weakest emotionally and are the most liable to being manipulated.

To the ladies who claim they can still stay as close friend to their exes, i will advice you stay clear, it has been proven to be the cheapest way for a Lady, married or single to cheat, though sometimes unintentionally.

dasparrow:

How old are you? As an adult, should you not already know the answer to that question? Why do you want to remain friends with an EX? so that you can despoil her like you Nigerian bred males are fond of doing? Please go and get a job and make yourself useful to society and whilst you are at it, stop fornicating. Heaven and hell is as real as day and night. Repent or face eternal damnation when your life on earth is up. Peace, out!

tivta: Like i said. I personally find it difficult keeping friends with my ex due to the fact that there is always the chance of hooking up again. Well as i also mentioned, most or some women have no problem with keeping friends with ex's and they usually end up being intimate with them either knowning or unknowingly. So ladies is best to eat with a long spoon when dealing with an ex. Yes your ex may be in the position to help but usually they will require you to pay in kind. I just wish most girls will learn that something goes for something when dealing with an ex.

jackima: Parted! Everyone to ur tent oh Israel.

tivta: Is it just me or is it difficult to remain friends with an ex especially when you are a guy? I know most girls dont have problems with being friends with an ex but i usually wonder how you girls feel being friends with a man who is entered your honey pot before? Guys what do you also feel under such situation?

writejhn27: YEA. I GO FIT. I GET UP TO 4 OF MY EX GUL FRIENDS WEN WE STILL DEY PING AND TALK. I NOR DEY BREAK UP MY RELATIONSHIP O. WE DEY SIT DOWN TALK AND COME TO COLUSION. THEN WE GO STILL BE FRIENDS COS ANY OF US FIT HELP EACH OTHER TOMORROW AND IN CASE I WAN BEANS WE FIT STILL BEANS.


MANY GULS TOO HARSH, WETI BE THE NEED OF BREAK UP THEN QUREEL. ABEGI UNA GO STILL BE FRIEND COS IT GET SOME KIND TIME WEN U GO STILL TINK ABOUT HER OR SEE HER FOR ROAD SHE GOP COME OVER SET PASS BEFORE. THEN IF UNA QUREEL U NOR GO FIT BEANS AGAIN NA. BUT IF UNA STILL BE FRIENDS U CAN STILL BEANS ANY TIME EVEN IF SHE DON GET NEW GUY

DOG NOR DEY RUN FROM THE OWN. MOSTLY IF U SABI BANG WELLLA.

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why do i love that statement