2nkechi: ok so dis is my story. have dated "guy A" for 7 years, we have being through a lot,( lost me virginity to him) . but the truth of the matter is, i dont tink am gonna get married to him. at the same i cant let him go. but, my parents are not in support of my relationship with him cos we are not from the same tribe. weird right? And have dated "guy B" for a year. but i luv him, not as much as i luv guy A. Guy B is from the same tribe as me but i luv guy A so much dat i dont know how to let him go. pls i need advice, not criticism. thanks

You need advice..right?
The best advice is REPENT and seek God!
Repentance: Forgo all you've mentioned or
had in common with them. Seek God and move
ahead to live a new and clean life.

Without this, even if you are advised to marry
any of them, you might not enjoy your marriage.
I'm not prophesying but you see, God does not
mean harm to any of us. Going on to marry any
of them may not be His will for you.

People mostly marry outside God's will and that's
why you see problems in the family.
Repent and go back to your creator and He will
receive you and give you a new beginning no matter
how black your sins are.

I hope that helps.

Cheers

190: what do u expect

Isnt she NIGERIAN - Notin GUD EVER comes out from them

I don't know who you are, I don't knw where you from, but what I do know is that your total lineage is a failure! You said nothing good comes out of Nigerians. To start with you're on Nairaland, who runs it? Ur father? I checked your profile and I saw that you have spent your life time on NL, I guess thats the only thing of worth you've used your miserable life doing. Again nothing good comes out of Nigerians, you have a Nigerian comic animation video in youtube on your signature. See your life, remember I told you it's miserable! Msscheew.

Lexusgs430: Elope with Guy A, your parents would turn around very quickly!!!

true talk

how everybody is quick to judge looool. when woman has 2 she is a slut, when man has 2 he is a hero and can brag about it loud especially if he is loaded. innit? shit happens in life. not ideal situation. however: If you can’t choose between two people, choose the second person because if you truly loved the first person you never would have noticed the second person.

mako007: I don't know who you are, I don't knw where you from, but what I do know is that your total lineage is a failure! You said nothing good comes out of Nigerians. To start with you're on Nairaland, who runs it? Ur father? I checked your profile and I saw that you have spent your life time on NL, I guess thats the only thing of worth you've used your miserable life doing. Again nothing good comes out of Nigerians, you have a Nigerian comic animation video in youtube on your signature. See your life, remember I told you it's miserable! Msscheew.

LOOOOL dude u r pathetic

mako007: I don't know who you are, I don't knw where you from, but what I do know is that your total lineage is a failure! You said nothing good comes out of Nigerians. To start with you're on Nairaland, who runs it? Ur father? I checked your profile and I saw that you have spent your life time on NL, I guess thats the only thing of worth you've used your miserable life doing. Again nothing good comes out of Nigerians, you have a Nigerian comic animation video in youtube on your signature. See your life, remember I told you it's miserable! Msscheew.

and WTF with your profile pic?

voodoo85:

and WTF with your profile pic?

and who the eff are you?

voodoo85:

LOOOOL dude u r pathetic

I'll settle for pathetic patriotic.

Guy A straff for 7yrs n still counting, Guy B straff for a year n still counting.... At d end, she aint gonna get married to either of dem... I dnt knw wat will remain for Guy C... *shakes head*....*yawns*..... *walks out of thread*

mako007: and who the eff are you?

the one who says that your pic is shit

voodoo85:
the one who says that your pic is shit

and what does that matter?

mako007: and what does that matter?

u dont understand what that means? poor u

voodoo85:
u dont understand what that means? poor u

say something new, see get this into your head that's if you have one, Im not a low lifer! Put your best pics up your profile let's see and not some white shiity head. Mofo

what a thread!

mako007: say something new, see get this into your head that's if you have one, Im not a low lifer! Put your best pics up your profile let's see and not some white shiity head. Mofo

silly silly black idiot. i don't need to brag about my life to prove smth u brighten my day with your foolishness btw like your racism

voodoo85:
silly silly black idiot. i don't need to brag about my life to prove smth u brighten my day with your foolishness btw like your racism

pot calling kettle black btwen who is the racist here? I knw your type, scammer! Me, Black and proud! You, Black and shitty .Get a life

mako007: pot calling kettle black btwen who is the racist here? I knw your type, scammer! Me, Black and proud! You, Black and shitty .Get a life

called me white shiity head and this is racist. u started mumu. u know my type? :DDD am glad that we r talking now for years and u know me so well am black? hahahhahahha bud thinking but u r wrong honey

voodoo85:
called me white shiity head and this is racist. u started mumu. u know my type? :DDD am glad that we r talking now for years and u know me so well am black? hahahhahahha bud thinking but u r wrong honey

speechless. Who are you?

mako007: speechless. Who are you?

your terror :DDDD no seriously u r stupid

voodoo85:

your terror :DDDD no seriously u r stupid

nonsense, I've had enough, no more mentions.

mako007: nonsense, I've had enough, no more mentions.

oh common today i have time exactly for u lets enjoy it

voodoo85:
oh common today i have time exactly for u lets enjoy it

sorry bad market, look for another customer while I wait for my change

mako007: sorry bad market, look for another customer while I wait for my change

i thought its no more mentions ?

voodoo85:
i thought its no more mentions ?

mako007:

baby u r desperate

voodoo85:
baby u r desperate

of?

mako007: of?

replying

voodoo85:
replying

u wish

voodoo85:
replying

besides cyber war is ur definition of fun?

mako007: besides cyber war is ur definition of fun?

u haven't seen cyber war. this is not that
i wish of u being desperate of replying to me? please... who do u think u r? that u r still replying shows smth about u

voodoo85:
u haven't seen cyber war. this is not that
i wish of u being desperate of replying to me? please... who do u think u r? that u r still replying shows smth about u

I'm simple me, me still replying shows I'm bored here

2nkechi: ok so dis is my story. have dated "guy A" for 7 years, we have being through a lot,( lost me virginity to him) . but the truth of the matter is, i dont tink am gonna get married to him. at the same i cant let him go. but, my parents are not in support of my relationship with him cos we are not from the same tribe. weird right? And have dated "guy B" for a year. but i luv him, not as much as i luv guy A. Guy B is from the same tribe as me but i luv guy A so much dat i dont know how to let him go. pls i need advice, not criticism. thanks

...ok, we r not sayn ur dak skin but u dated 7guys for 7 years and u expect us to save u??......this is exactly y we quit datin black women.

...r u light skin?