Grow a pair and tell her to leave that the living circumstances will not work for now and you should live apart for a while. If she refuses to be a normal human and leave you turn to p,an B which is a last resort, you pack her bags for her and have your gate men or get local police to 'escort' her off your premises. Cheers!

Because they are selfish and power hungry. Men don't think as thoroughly as women about long term coniquences and re just opportunists.

Be careful of women especially African ones thy like to have thir cake an eat it to. Which man is crazy enoug to tl and threaten a married couple I doub she has got gold between her thighs. Be careful she isn't the reason for all these continuing problems.

Hmmm wow Lool amazing yes it's true Nigerian girls are mad jealous of foreign women taking 'their' men my husband is Nigerian born and bred his family are quite well off and travel very frequently. I'm a british east African and my husband and his family love me or this reason as Nigerian girls have the habit of being gold diggers and most will have men on the side while in a relationship. If not that then the woman's family just take take take you don know how to let people be in their marriage whereas east Africans are independent and give people space, what is all this rubbish about mother inIaws not leaving their daughters marital home or these Inlaws on nl that insult their daughters husbands freely without shame. Where I'm from Inlaws can't visit without invitation and can not stay under the same roof as your husband. RESPECT is a major thing that Nigerians lack.

I advise Nigerian men if you want peace look outside o your country. White women are also very king gentle women.
I'm against Zimbabweans because you teal people's husbands and are unfaithful drunkards! Cheers

Zimbabweans make me sick the women are whores and the men are drunkards it's hard to find a decent zim in the uk. And it is soooo false that most Zimbabwe ppl have British passports. I would advise anyone to stay away from a Zimbabwean I have come across these sultrous women who carry HIV and steal Nigerian husbands from their wives and ruin families, not saying its just mbabweans that do this but wen I found out about a group of zim women tha were proud of this I was truly traumatised!

What a stupid man, a very foolish idiot. Don't try it o, don't let him sample anything before he marries you. How dare he degrade to and tell you to go and Marry your pastor. This sounds like a man that lacks respect for you tbh I'm not ure you will even be happy in that marriage if that's the kind of thing he is capable of saying to you. Don't just rush into marriage because your 35 make sure he is truly worth it. As for your father I'm in shock!

Lmaooo this post is so funny to me I'm an east African British female dating a Nigerian. Nigerians seem to have a bad rep everywhere wow as far as I've heard in the uk it's £5000 for this fake marriage ish I wouldn't advise anyone doing it as the stem is long.

Op don't think all Nigerian men care about this citizenship the Nigerians I know are very proud and have no care for western countries except to drain them of how ever much money they can then o back home.lol Nigerians are funny.

Oh my days if Nigeria is still ths behind then I feel so sorry for you. It is massive discrimination for you not to be employed on the basis of your health condition HIV does not affect your ability to work if it is being properly treated. It is against your human rights to be forced to disclose such information. It's not like your applying for a job within the healthcare sector where it would be required to disclose even still you are not discriminated by your condition. I hope you get the job. Don't be pressured into disclosing your status to your family if ou are not ready.
Good luck