Dyamante:
Im wondering the same thing too

Tolucciii: @Poster
I can reali undastand how u ar feelin rite now. But I wl advice u take slowly cos anxiety kills. Marriage is nt wat ucan rush into. I wl encourage u trust in God mor nd try 2b more virtuos in ur friendsip wt men. Stop burderin instead b happi alwayz nd add values 2ur life. If u ar xtian ucan b attendin single submit nd d rest. God wl surely grant u ur heart desire. But b warned dont take decisions under presure, cos it cud b dangerous. Shalom

Bestjon50: OP, I honestly feel your pain and understand the environment you are very well. It is not as you stated that guys in London are immature, it is just that most of them have one issue or the other that may influence largely any decision they make, especially when it comes to settling down with a woman. I also think that some ladies do not help matter as well. They have thrown the virtue of being natural in the bin. They have long forgotten their roots and how they are supposed to treat their supposed husband to be. Be that as it may, man (London man)has over time faced with difficulties as to marry or just remain single for life.

Just as you feel, many men in London also think that Nigerian girls in London do not want to get involved in a serious relationship that could lead to marriage. So you see! It is a 50 50 kind of thought. But i tell you, there is hope for Isreal. Just try and make yourself a good brand, that is a wife material, men would crawl on their kneels to ask for your hand in marriage. Also, try and lower your standard. Do not think the man must be very rich before you could listen to him in relation to this issue at hand. I have a feeling that someone that wants you as a wife does come your way, but ignorance makes you to turn him down because of his present package. It takes divine intervention to see beyond the package and perhaps, have a glimpse at the content. It is a mystery that you must unravel. When God is giving you the best, He always presents it in the most crude state. It is you that may do the refining. My friend watch and pray, your miracle is on the way, even from the forum.

Pricelesss: Am over 28yrs Old, and i feel so good and happy with my life, don't care wotever any1 says about me. and i don't feel pushed or intimidated by anything.

~Bluetooth:


I laugh when I see women talking like this like they dont care about getting married.You may not get worried while getting aged but trust me when you get aged,you will definitely wished you had started earlier.
I know someone presently who's going to be 48 by july this year.she sacrificed everything to make her career,she has houses and drives expensive cars but today,she comes to my mum most times telling her how she is unhappy with her life because something is missing there.you should start getting worried about marriage once your bre'asts start sagging !

A-ZeD:

There are also women i know who are married and are terribly miserable......
Marriage !== Happiness

I can get you pregnant now but marry u in the next 2 yrs
....send me an email on: saemmanuel@ovi.com...

o.obim:
Why desperate at 25?do not make d mistake of marrying 4d wrong reasons.i knw society/family gets our women desperate.marriage out of desperation is a mess.LIVE RIGHt,even at 34,u can get d best man n build d best home.no be by who marry or born 1st o!

o.obim:
Why desperate at 25?do not make d mistake of marrying 4d wrong reasons.i knw society/family gets our women desperate.marriage out of desperation is a mess.LIVE RIGHt,even at 34,u can get d best man n build d best home.no be by who marry or born 1st o!

~Bluetooth:


Nigerians and their hypocrisy. . . .be sincere to yourself,can you marry a 34 years old woman ?

Brixtonyute:

That's EXPIRED goods.

Killz.:

+1000

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.
Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

dubem3:

W.A.E.C, N.E.C.O or J.A.M.B...which do you work with, oga examiner?

ebecode: Pls OP,don't mind these ppl saying @ least u shldn't be seriously searching @ 25yrs as a lady.Blv me this same ppl will be castigating u when u're 29yrs,accusing u of all sort of things & asking u were where u when ur mates are getting married @ 24.My advise to u is don't be desperate,look for a serious guy & settle down as soon as possible but pls don't u ever cross dat 30yrs bridge else......God helep u...& to all our african queens in here,alwys keep it @ d back of ur mind dat LADIES GET EXPIRING DATE OOO...I TAKE GOD BEG UNA.

chineloSA:
My dear at 25, you still have a bit of time at your hands to play with.

But as ladies, we must understand that not all of us are meant to get married. Some are meant to be housewives, single, nuns, etc

What I can advice you to do is to strive for independence, enjoy your singlehood, travel and tour the world, buy yourself a car, wear all the expensive brands you desire, spoil your siblings and thank your parents etc.
There is nothing as boring as schoolfees,investing in some kids boring future, cooking even when you dont want to, driving a tired car because thats what your husband can afford, be limited with finances because of your husbands affordability especially when you didnt have the opportunity to enjoy yourself.

When the time comes, God will send the right person to you.Keep on praying.
But if God never had plans for you to get married, you will have to learn to accept that.

Our ways and plans are not Gods, he may have a totally different plan for you.

But understand one thing not all married people are happy. Poverty is also not sexy in marriage as well.