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Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by cowgurl: 10:00am On Apr 18, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:On a date Am definitely not a bore!!! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Sammyfemy: 10:01am On Apr 18, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:Ask them the right questions using the right words. They'll definitely open their mouth. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Nobody: 10:07am On Apr 18, 2012 |
ZUBY77: I hate that about ladies. lol...I know how you feel dude Nice One |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by 9jaman007: 10:09am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@poster next talk with such a person, Try to keep your questions open ended. if u ask questions that start with 'Do you' 'can you' you will most likely get a YES or NO answer unless the girl really wants to talk. SOLUTION = Re-construct your questions to start with the words 'how' and 'why' This strategy will work if the girl does not know how to keep a conversation like you suggested or if she's playing hard to get. NOTE: If she does not want to talk to you, then she does not want to talk to you. lol |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by rexfada(m): 10:26am On Apr 18, 2012 |
The lady could probably be a deaf and dumb girl who just experienced a miracle |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by pendo89(f): 10:27am On Apr 18, 2012 |
ArQueBusieR: Now if you want details ask like this.I will narrate much if I am attracted to you.Because they are open questions not closed. But if I dont feel you,this is how I will answer. -Despite the huge traffic jam on the way, you managed to get here on time. Tell me about it? There's really nothing to tell as its not unusual.I managed just like everybody else did. -Now that you've been burned once, you must view men differently. Tell me about your new perception of men?. Well men are just men and they are all different. -More often than not, beautiful girls are hitched in their early 20's. You're 30, beautiful, and unmarried! How come?! Because I don't follow crowds. I have my priorities set and I stick to them. That is me. End of conversation.If I feel you? you will beg me to stop talking. Now lemmie tell u guys a secret.If you find a girl answering generally,you know without trying to get personal,watch out. See like my first answer above I said,I managed 'just like everybody else'.See? I am trying to make you view me like the rest.Trying to divert your attention and focus from 'me'.She's telling you am not unique and don't treat me uniquely cz I have no absolutely no interest in you. See how she personalises* the answers to your questions cz if shes in love she will try to lock out the world and talk about herself. My straight or closed replies are meant to stop further queries and stop you in your tracks. A girl that feels you will talk about what you dint even ask her. She will talk a blog. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by kokoA(m): 10:38am On Apr 18, 2012 |
Most of them can hardly make a correct sentence in English language that's why. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Nobody: 10:38am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@poster, if the lady in question, has been answering you in that manner, then i can tell you, that the problem isnt shyness or playing hard-to-get, but she isnt into you, my advice, is that you give her space, you dont need prophet T.B Joshua to tell you that. On the contrary, if you should persist, you stand the chance of being embarrased. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by slimyem: 10:39am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@pendo...u nice!see long story! Wait,make i answer my own... ArQueBusieR:see...if i don't want to talk,i still wont talk! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by slimyem: 10:45am On Apr 18, 2012 |
kokoA: Most of them can hardly make a correct sentence in English language that's why.most of who? You mean most of the ones you come across? Learn to make logical sentences not plainly dumb ones! Nonsense! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Sugardiva(f): 10:50am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@ OP Try to get her involved in the Convo and ask open ended questions that concentrate on her. But if she gives u one word answers when ure asking these questions chances are she is in a bad or reserved mood and doesnt want to talk so give her some space and try later. However if she responds like this EVERY time u try to talk to her, face it dude she isnt interested in u, just move on to someone else who is. Simples. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by pendo89(f): 10:51am On Apr 18, 2012 |
This is how I would give closed answers to MBJ's MRbrownJAY: If I answer you like that just park and go. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Coefficient(m): 10:57am On Apr 18, 2012 |
If I ask you all those questions and you give all that one word answers, I'll flash you my magnum pistol. You'll talk for the rest of the day even when I don't pose any question to you! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by stepo707: 10:58am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@ op Another thing to watch out for most importantly is the tone in which she is answering you and look at her face if she is frowning.With that you wouldn't need to waste your time. @ pendo I understand you perfectly well [/quote] |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by dakronik(m): 11:03am On Apr 18, 2012 |
na form dem de form 1 Like |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by freemanrule: 11:03am On Apr 18, 2012 |
@ MRbrownJAY: ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha dt really sound kul 2 u bt some bebe ll really ask u back if dts a jamb question or wat.bt 2 me tink d bst ting is study her and knw whn she is in d mood dts all.@ MRbrownJAY: ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha dt really sound kul 2 u bt some bebe ll really ask u back if dts a jamb question or wat.bt 2 me tink d bst ting is study her and knw whn she is in d mood dts all.@ MRbrownJAY: ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha dt really sound kul 2 u bt some bebe ll really ask u back if dts a jamb question or wat.bt 2 me tink d bst ting is study her and knw whn she is in d mood dts all. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by pendo89(f): 11:04am On Apr 18, 2012 |
I agree with slimyem MRbrownJAY: - oh you are a student, so why did you decide to study medicine/law etc?-parental influence! - there was a huge traffic jam on the way, how did you manage to come here so quick?-short-cut! - woah you are a lawyer/doctor, tell me how exciting or boring a day at work is?-just there! - really, you are from Kaduna? so how different life is, now that you are living in Lagos then?-i get thru! - are you single, really.......so why/how did your last r/ship ended?-yes!, misunderstandings! - why is a beautiful girl like you single?-a choice! - he cheated on you? but how did you found out and how involved in the r/ship were you at the time?-complicated! - how do you view men now that you have been burned ONCE?-deceivers if a guy gets two/three answers like these and he still doesnt know its time to shut-up,he must be a real fool! There's a diff btwn playing hard to get and just trying to get rid of a nuisance guy.Some men don't give up easy and they don't understand what No means. Instead of sounding rude.Just give them closed answers.Next time he wont know what to ask. I repeat again.If she likes you she will answer in details whether you ask open or closed questions. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Nobody: 11:07am On Apr 18, 2012 |
pendo89: I agree with slimyem It is Well... |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by zikclassiq(m): 11:07am On Apr 18, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:na u talkam pass jare. Up u! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by ATMC(f): 11:09am On Apr 18, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:target? Abeg what is BS, this is d most important thing, we talk when we r comfortable with a guy, |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by slimyem: 11:29am On Apr 18, 2012 |
Coefficient: If I ask you all those questions and you give all that one word answers, I'll flash you my magnum pistol. You'll talk for the rest of the day even when I don't pose any question to you!all na mouth! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by ebamma(m): 12:30pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
gurls are bitches the come as witches to steal our riches and leave us in stitches |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by kilimanjaro(m): 12:30pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
slimyem: @pendo...u nice!see long story!Were u the one i met at oshodi 2 days ago? U gave me exactly these answers while u were haggling a bend-down-select pants! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by chux76(m): 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
not2long: hey guys, i have had numerous experiences with ladies, and what really pisses me off is ladies giving a one word answer like 'yes','no','ok' and so on. am just thinking that is it they dont know what to say or thats a new way of forming hard to get or they cant keep conversations, and how can one keep such conversation in case you meet such ladies because such word makes me feel somehow,pls advice. Just bone her/them,tell her/them to have a nice day(in a polite manner) and keep on walking..chikena!!! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by vega84(m): 12:38pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
Thank God am nt facing this probelm alone, see I see thos kinda of gals as dumbass |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Nobody: 12:41pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
kilimanjaro: Not Nice! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by chux76(m): 12:54pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
slimyem: if a guy gets two/three answers like these and he still doesnt know its time to shut-up,he must be a real fool! That's an opening... 1 Like |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by kilimanjaro(m): 1:02pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
kunletiwoo:preacher! |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by agb2011(f): 1:05pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
If i'm in a bad mood and u ask me these questions MRbrownJAY:If i'm in a bad mood and u ask me these questions MRbrownJAY: |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by agb2011(f): 1:09pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
oops! I double posted |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by kaboninc(m): 1:10pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
This whole thing is just very funny. First of all, must every girl think that you want to 'chyke' her because you want to start a conversation with her? Because thats probably the first thing she thinks and it'll make her do her one word answer making you look stupid just because you want a civil conversation. Secondly, why accept a friend request from someone you know and yet gives that one word reply? If a guy does not approach a girl, they'll say he's not yet a man! That he's shy. If he doesn't say hi, they'll say he's forming. I don't want to generalize because some girls give genuine reasons why they don't feel like conversing. |
Re: Help On How To Cope With Lady's Single Word Answers by Skii(m): 1:18pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
This goes without saying It depends on the platform from which you are making the conversation. In this regard, I take it that you are speaking to ladies from the approacher or potential toaster point of view. Depending on the quality of the lady as well as your own quality and especially what you say (since most women are moved by what they hear), the first moments are very important. What you say, don't say or how you say what you say determines the level of responses you get and I daresay regardless of the mood, except she has been befallen by some extreme tragedy which is hardly the case. Advice, too much preparation for conversation and too much confidence building dey kill. You have to work yourself up to that natural masculine level of confidence that can get you into any conversation with anybody and sustain it. Read book, watch films study people. Improve your vocabulary. Plus practice makes perfect. No disrespect to the wonderful and beautiful ladies on the streets (who command their own in their own rights) but start with them first, work your skills up the ladder, you would be amazed the similarities amongst ladies |
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