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Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by mincepie(f): 1:32pm On Nov 07, 2007
my friend broke up with her boyfriend 2yrs ago but refused to say y
Now d boyfriend  is all over me saying he loves me and he wants e to date him
am begining to give it a second  thought after hearing what happened between him and my friend

am here to seek your advice.do u think i shuld accept him?i don't want to loose my friend.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by oshoyombo(m): 1:37pm On Nov 07, 2007
its not the best especially if you are still intouch with your friend and see regularly, it will only cause friction btw u guys
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by iice(f): 1:47pm On Nov 07, 2007
Personally i can't
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by cblow(m): 1:49pm On Nov 07, 2007
it depends on what happened between him and your friend. you forgot to mention that bit so how do we know what to say,
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by feco304: 1:50pm On Nov 07, 2007
u think very well because it is going to cos calamity between u and ur friend and i will advise u to go 4 another guy
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by mamaput(f): 1:52pm On Nov 07, 2007
No never.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by powerofmap(m): 2:08pm On Nov 07, 2007
Try to differentiate the Difference btw Love and Lust so you dont loose you friend,

Shalom!!!
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by fakedavid: 2:13pm On Nov 07, 2007
go for it - is the p ussy or d ick sour? dont be slow - ok?
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by MoOdYLaDy(f): 4:55pm On Nov 07, 2007
Why are you taking someone else disposable? undecided

There are many other fishes in the ocean, so why don't you pick from there
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by chiboyz(m): 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2007
@ topic

please dont do it. i am telling you from experience.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by adekennis(m): 3:27pm On Nov 08, 2007
I hope you can see pple responce undecided
pls my, friend dont do it sad
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by busygal(f): 3:51pm On Nov 08, 2007
if this chic don fall 4 d guy!!!!!!!!!!!

SHE WILL TURN DEAF EARS 2 EVERYONES NAGATIVE REPLY.
[b]so my dear,i hope u ve not fallen 4 this dude oooooo[/b
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by uchetobi(f): 4:07pm On Nov 08, 2007
il feel funny about it
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by opokonwa(m): 4:46pm On Nov 08, 2007
@poster

Try and get your friend's side of the story to balance up before you take the plunge shocked

There is always 'something' the other side will leave out.

And don't give in out of 'pressure' or sympathy

Give it a whole 'six months' of no chyking to think about it.

THAT IS IF YOU HAVE A WILL
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by thimbook2(m): 7:36pm On Nov 08, 2007
could be dangerous and yet you may not be able to blame the guy on the long run,


just open your eyes and hear all sides well be4 u take him up on his offer
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by ima1(f): 7:55pm On Nov 08, 2007
NO friends don't date friends exes, its wrong and the #1 friend rule
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by chiboyz(m): 9:16am On Nov 09, 2007
it is a taboo!!( well at least for my culture)
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by bebe2007(m): 9:32am On Nov 09, 2007
Hell no!! even if he is the last man standing. It will look like you took her reminant.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by lilrukevwe(m): 12:03pm On Nov 09, 2007
Dont be in the bad books of frds talk to her abt it the guy doesnt have loce its infatuation and more of sex starved or wat do u think playing the player boy game sleeping with 2 frds
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by karinkapo: 3:24pm On Nov 09, 2007
pls don't ore, you friend will not ask you neither will she knows that he was the one that came to you after two years, he will naturally assume both of you have been seeing each other before the breakage. on the other hand to buttress the point raised by earlier people that have contributed on this trend, it is simply called a betrayer of friendship.

this guy might be good, handsome, rich, might have all the good qualities you want in your man, bUT it not the best for u.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by fabulous10(m): 4:10pm On Nov 09, 2007
i really feel its not rigth.Unless u just want to have a short term relationship.Secoundly, consider ur relationship with ur friend over.Thirdly, are u sure d guy is not just looking for a way to make ur friend jealous.
Consider all these facts before jumbing into anything with him.
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by Scopium: 4:22pm On Nov 09, 2007
busygal:


if this chic don fall 4 d guy!!!!!!!!!!!

SHE WILL TURN DEAF EARS 2 EVERYONES NAGATIVE REPLY.
[b]so my dear,i hope u ve not fallen 4 this dude oooooo[/b
[size=13pt]EXACTLY. Come to think of it, virtually verybody is somebody's ex. I agree that the fact that you are a friend to this person's ex will make the situation a little difficult.[/size]
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by Scopium: 4:23pm On Nov 09, 2007
bebe2007:

Hell no!! even if he is the last man standing. It will look like you took her reminant.
[size=13pt]So who's remnant did you take?[/size]
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by Scopium: 4:25pm On Nov 09, 2007
MoOdYLaDy:

Why are you taking someone else disposable? undecided

There are many other fishes in the ocean, so why don't you pick from there

[size=13pt]And those other fishes in the ocean are not someone else disposable?[/size]
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by cybersleek(m): 4:55pm On Nov 09, 2007
If you love him, you could give it a try. But on the real, know you will face a lot of obstacles, but then if you guys are meant to be together nothing can stop you. Ive been there and done that, but the stress sometimes aint worth it. Best of luck!
Re: Can You Date your Friend's Ex? by Nautillus(m): 5:17pm On Nov 09, 2007
angry

Dont do it, its completely wrong, if you still value ur friendship(with ur gal pal that is)

Anyway, its a more intense scenario with guyz, i have withnessed a death occurence over

this kinda situation.

DONT DO IT,

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