sexkillz: You can force a horse to the stream, but try as hard as you may, you can never force it to drink water. You are a rare breed of Nigeria male who sees the good in others, at least, from the little you posted here. You have refused to take undue advantage of the young lady, even though the opportunity to do so presented it self, and is still presenting itself.
At 19, not only is she legally an adult, she has full capabilities of making life altering decisions. There is very little you can do to make her realize that the train is about to leave the station, other than what you ve previously been doing. Your constant persuasion and nudging of her to be a better person and be useful to her self may be falling on deaf ears. Rightly so too because she may erroneously think you to be like the other guys who probably advice her in the morning, then services her at night. So I'd like you to keep the precedent you have set by not having anything to do with her sexuall'y. Since you have made it clear to her that she should not call you till she has written the exams, pls stick to that decision, since your being firm in this regard could likely jolt her back to her senses and realize what you have been trying to help her do all along.
When someone falls into a pit, he has to stretch out his hand before another person would grab and then proceed to rescue him. Therefore, while you are not totally abandoning her to her whimsical attitude, allow her to make an effort to help herself first, then you can start persuading her all over. That is when i think your efforts will yield any result.
I salute your courage and steadfastness even in the face of temptation and adverse advice from friends and people around you who would only see the young lady as an avenue to keep their engines well oiled. . . Kudos bro, kudos! If all else fails, at least you tried your best, it's left to her to do the rest!

ijebabe:

What he said!
You know this is why I love u killz

NOIBMUUL: #Don't actually know where to put this but i trust the moderators to re-post in the right section.#

I met this intelligent and sweet young girl like 3 months ago, 19years old, and although I'm aware she sleeps around but not in the capacity and oftenness of a prostitute/runs girl/casual sex worker. She had a child last year immediately she finished from Secondary School. While I've offered to help her with her education and even link her with an NGO for women and children just so she can live a better life, it still beats me that she's turned a deaf hear to this opportunity. Personally, I've given her money on several occasions to get her WASSCE results and register for the next UTME exam but I could fill the whole of Nairaland with her excuses. Personally, i'm fed up with her and even told her not to call me again until she gets her WASSCE result but deep inside I feel the urge to help her get back on the right track. Now, before the torrents of comments come rushing in, i need to state clearly here that I have not slept with her, though she's tried enticing me on a couple of occasions.

Some of my friends have asked me to let her be but i don't think i share their opinion. So i beg the question, should I just let her carry on with her life or still continue to persuade her?

onila: killz the nigga killz

naijarican: Dude, haven't you heard the saying you can't make a hoe a housewife... Heed it!

NOIBMUUL: #Don't actually know where to put this but i trust the moderators to re-post in the right section.#

I met this intelligent and sweet young girl like 3 months ago, 19years old, and although I'm aware she sleeps around but not in the capacity and oftenness of a prostitute/runs girl/casual sex worker. She had a child last year immediately she finished from Secondary School. While I've offered to help her with her education and even link her with an NGO for women and children just so she can live a better life, it still beats me that she's turned a deaf hear to this opportunity. Personally, I've given her money on several occasions to get her WASSCE results and register for the next UTME exam but I could fill the whole of Nairaland with her excuses. Personally, i'm fed up with her and even told her not to call me again until she gets her WASSCE result but deep inside I feel the urge to help her get back on the right track. Now, before the torrents of comments come rushing in, i need to state clearly here that I have not slept with her, though she's tried enticing me on a couple of occasions.

Some of my friends have asked me to let her be but i don't think i share their opinion. So i beg the question, should I just let her carry on with her life or still continue to persuade her?