My girlfriend started liking a guy who happens to be my previous boss in the office and a friend, though we are not too close. We all attend the same church.

She showed him she liked him and a guy who used to gist with her took to ignoring her and looking down on her.

I know its not all guys, but why do most of you guys look down on girls that give you green light? It has happened to me before and I have a brother and male friends so I know what I'm talking about. Yet you wonder why some girls would rather die in silence

That it happens with only a number of guys doesn't warrant the question, "Guys Why?"

sauer: That it happens with only a number of guys doesn't warrant the question, "Guys Why?"

Oh yes, it does. She may as well want answers from the males' own perspective.
So guys, I want to know too. Why?

Rocktation:

Oh yes, it does. She may as well want answers from the males' own perspective.
So guys, I want to know too. Why?

well, Z! There you have it!

never knew guys are like that. if guys think like that then maybe they think the girl is cheap

D ans is vry simple o. 'd BOSS IS NT JST INTO HER'. Jst lyk wen a lady doesn't lyk or wana date a guy. D lady shld b lucky dat d guy ignord coz if it wer to b som oda guys, dy'l play along, av demsefs satisfied n run fasta dan Usain Bolt afta dia satisfactn had reachd its climax. D boss is a gud guy 4 ignorin n bsyds, he myt av a steady relatnshp wit anoda lady (if nt married).
N who evn says d guy does nt get to c ladies afta him occassionaly?

In my opinion it's a psychological thing. We were raised in a culture where when a brother approaches a female she is expected to front and be difficult and God help the lady that gives in easily, now imagine a lady coming on to a guy-she's asking for trouble. Now one would expect that brothers would have upggraded their thinking but that's not so, thus acting in such manners that this thread should spring up. Therefore, tell ya friend to move it, people are hardly ever who we want them to be. She shouldn't sweat it.

What sort of signal was your friend passing?

Not every guy would do that.

ArQueBusieR: What sort of signal was your friend passing?

Just hanging around places she knows he ll be at and generally just being nice n friendly to him

fresh dude, you could not have said it better.
What culture has instilled in people is so hard to wash away.
Using myself as example, though i may not tell the gurl off outrightly i could turn it down if the gurl does not meet my standards.
U say they used to be friends, its not all my gurl friends that i can enter into an intimate relationship with. So may be he smiled and flattered her so much she thought it was all real. She should move on. It happens.
Girls reject guys they dont want likewise , a guy can turn down a girl he does not fancy. Its not necessarily a case of considering her cheap.

Godmother:

Just hanging around places she knows he ll be at and generally just being nice n friendly to him

Oh, I see! She was stalking him. Hmm. . .

Not all guys can read d hand writing on d wall!

@ Op, maybe your friend is miss wow (no offense)

Some people are just too traditional and primitive with their thinking. To the guy, she is probably a flirt and he thinks she is cheap.

must hye like her?
what if she ain't his type of girl?

dubem3: must hye like her?
what if she ain't his type of girl?

he might have his own personal taste no doubt but why did he change his atitude towards her, remember they used to be friends until this happened.
That is why I don't subscribe to this message sending thing. If you like someone, call the person and let that person know

Mynd_44:
he might have his own personal taste no doubt but why did he change his atitude towards her, remember they used to be friends until this happened.
That is why I don't subscribe to this message sending thing. If you like someone, call the person and let that person know

we all have our ways of reacting to stuff.
But let me tell you
a lady That U've been friends with who confides in You, will change her attitude towards you once you ask her out and she refuses.she'll avoid u while still claiming to be friends and that nothing has changed. Kaji?

Fine you win

Godmother: My girlfriend started liking a guy who happens to be my previous boss in the office and a friend, though we are not too close. We all attend the same church.

She showed him she liked him and a guy who used to gist with her took to ignoring her and looking down on her.

I know its not all guys, but why do most of you guys look down on girls that give you green light? It has happened to me before and I have a brother and male friends so I know what I'm talking about. Yet you wonder why some girls would rather die in silence

Childish and dumb

Jaykizz: D ans is vry simple o. 'd BOSS IS NT JST INTO HER'. Jst lyk wen a lady doesn't lyk or wana date a guy. D lady shld b lucky dat d guy ignord coz if it wer to b som oda guys, dy'l play along, av demsefs satisfied n run fasta dan Usain Bolt afta dia satisfactn had reachd its climax. D boss is a gud guy 4 ignorin n bsyds, he myt av a steady relatnshp wit anoda lady (if nt married).
N who evn says d guy does nt get to c ladies afta him occassionaly?

No further explanation.

Mynd_44: Fine you win

its not about wining joor!
abi Wetin talk na lie?

dubem3:
its not about wining joor!
abi Wetin talk na lie?

I don't believe but I am done arguing about it so you win

koolkamzzy: @ Op, maybe your friend is miss wow (no offense)

On the contrary she's a knock-out; tall, slim n very pretty. Though the guy himself is very good-looking so I'm sure he must have chicks all over him

Mynd_44:
I don't believe but I am done arguing about it so you win

Thats not what i'll call a win.

dubem3:
Thats not what i'll call a win.

Well call it what you like. I am not arguing it with you again

Godmother:

On the contrary she's a knock-out; tall, slim n very pretty. Though the guy himself is very good-looking so I'm sure he must have chicks all over him

let her not be discouraged.
She should just know that when u take a bold step and do something few of ur kind do, things ain't always gonna work the way you expect them to but then just keep living ur life cos thats what makes her who she is. Sooner or later, she's bound to find what it is she is after. guys get turned down too u know?

Mynd_44:
Well call it what you like. I am not arguing it with you again

u be my guy that year oh!

dubem3:

u be my guy that year oh!

huh?

Mynd_44:
huh?

Godmother:

On the contrary she's a knock-out; tall, slim n very pretty. Though the guy himself is very good-looking so I'm sure he must have chicks all over him

Knock-out=tall,slim n pretty. . . . . in ur fuckin eyes eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh. . . . .