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Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by DukeNija(m): 10:18pm On Jun 28, 2012 |
Whatever works for you. You never can tell. Afterall, people fall out of Love. Ask the divorcees. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by taryour(f): 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2012 |
anitank: I dated this guy for 8 whole year and I loved him wit evrything I am. I could tell that he even loved me much more. We have a son together. Our wedding date was fixed for d 9th of april dis year and I was particularly very excited because I was finally goin to get married to d only man I ever loved. After d most magical vals day we spent together, he was travelling back to abuja, had an accident and died! Now dat dream of marrying d man I love is gone. OMG!!! Accept my heart felt condolence dear,God bless u and ur son. God will surely give u strenght and see you tru it all. Pele my dear.. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Johndoe100(m): 11:40pm On Jun 28, 2012 |
Guitarlife: man where have you been? Been looking all over for you since tha 3rd world war. Almost gave up, even had a monument of eba erected in your memory down my throat. No war bro, just doing my bit. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by anitank(f): 11:55pm On Jun 28, 2012 |
taryour:Thanks hon, we will be fine ronkebp:Amen!! |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by speaktoinzaghi(m): 5:10am On Jun 29, 2012 |
I believe marrying the one you love is the best option, because I know of a lady while I was working in the north, she was forced into an arranged marriage, but the husband never had peace, she already had someone she loves and she will not talk nor eat in her husband's house, unless she sees her boyfriend and at times she might look threatening as if she wants to commit suicide, so its now the responsibility of her husband to drive her to her boyfriend's house just for her to see him and be happy. We can all see the dilemma the husband is facing for marrying the woman that never loved her. So I say arranged marriage is 90% bleeped. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 11:45am On Jul 11, 2012 |
Sagamite:Dis 1 na small boy. Confirm! |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 12:00pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
ifyalways: Loving the one you marry for me!& In adition, i av a question 4 evry1: do u av 2 love ur lecturer to get ur certificate? My point? Mariage is like school. U dont av 2 love it prior 2 admisn 2 guarante urself a degree. A guy noted in dis thread dat an arrangd mariage dint work 4 a lady he knows cos she loves sm1 else. Look guy, if as a student u dont do ur duty, u'l falter! As 4 me sha, Love is minor. Whats important in school is whats important in mariage: do ur DUTY and evryoda tin wil b good. E.g. As a man/woman, ur duty is 2 respect, love ur partner etc, u get it? Love who u marry. Case closd. (N.B.) If u mary boko, u'r on ur own o. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 12:02pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
ifyalways: Loving the one you marry for me!& In adition, i av a question 4 evry1: do u av 2 love ur lecturer to get ur certificate? My point? Mariage is like school. U dont av 2 love it prior 2 admisn 2 guarante urself a degree. A guy noted in dis thread dat an arrangd mariage dint work 4 a lady he knows cos she loves sm1 else. Look guy, if as a student u dont do ur duty, u'l falter! As 4 me sha, Love is minor. Whats most important in school is whats most important in mariage: do ur DUTY and evryoda tin wil b good. E.g. As a man/woman, ur duty is 2 respect, love ur partner etc, u get it? Love who u marry. Case closd. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Sagamite(m): 9:43am On Jul 12, 2012 |
Michky: Dis 1 na small boy. Confirm! You are a cretin. Confirmed! Michky: & In adition, i av a question 4 evry1: do u av 2 love ur lecturer to get ur certificate? My point? Mariage is like school. U dont av 2 love it prior 2 admisn 2 guarante urself a degree. A guy noted in dis thread dat an arrangd mariage dint work 4 a lady he knows cos she loves sm1 else. Look guy, if as a student u dont do ur duty, u'l falter! As 4 me sha, Love is minor. Whats important in school is whats important in mariage: do ur DUTY and evryoda tin wil b good. E.g. As a man/woman, ur duty is 2 respect, love ur partner etc, u get it? Love who u marry. Case closd. (N.B.) If u mary boko, u'r on ur own o. And this confirms you are really a proper person. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 12, 2012 |
ifyalways: Loving the one you marry for me! I don't agree here. https://www.nairaland.com/615501/wish-send-husband-back-nigeria https://www.nairaland.com/600027/dont-want-bring-husband-abroad The post in bold happens a lot of time. No be today |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Nobody: 10:03am On Jul 12, 2012 |
Michky: & In adition, i av a question 4 evry1: do u av 2 love ur lecturer to get ur certificate? My point? Mariage is like school. U dont av 2 love it prior 2 admisn 2 guarante urself a degree. A guy noted in dis thread dat an arrangd mariage dint work 4 a lady he knows cos she loves sm1 else. Look guy, if as a student u dont do ur duty, u'l falter! As 4 me sha, Love is minor. Whats important in school is whats important in mariage: do ur DUTY and evryoda tin wil b good. E.g. As a man/woman, ur duty is 2 respect, love ur partner etc, u get it? Love who u marry. Case closd. (N.B.) If u mary boko, u'r on ur own o. WTF Please type in English. This isn't funny |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Sagamite(m): 10:04am On Jul 12, 2012 |
jennykadry: I really do not know why people feel the need to write like an illiterate. He is an utter person! |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 12:45pm On Jul 12, 2012 |
jennykadry:In sumary, wats most important in mariage is DUTY. My advice, love d 1 u mary and do ur duty as requird in d mariage (but b very careful nt 2 mary any1 dat wud cause u bodily harm). Simple! Ahora Comprende amiga? |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 1:02pm On Jul 12, 2012 |
Sagamite:Oya Lets go there Were! Wen i manage mess ur mama (even wen i cudnt bear d odour of dat hole btw her legs), she ask 4 abortn whch i refusd. Stubornly, she go do am. Unfortunatly, d drugs only disfigurd u. Dat na y i no gre acept u. Tel me, is she stil alive? I promise, I go use condo.m & cova my nose if she beg me 2 mess her hard again. I cnt stand anoda disfigurd bashtard like u. Oloshi buruku. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Sagamite(m): 1:09pm On Jul 12, 2012 |
Michky: Oya Lets go there Were! Wen i manage mess ur mama (even wen i cudnt bear d odour of dat hole btw her legs), she ask 4 abortn whch i refusd. Stubornly, she go do am. Unfortunatly, d drugs only disfigurd u. Dat na y i no gre acept u. Tel me, is she stil alive? I promise, I go use condo.m & cova my nose if she beg me 2 mess her hard again. I cnt stand anoda disfigurd bashtard like u. Oloshi buruku. What a person! You are still struggling to spell? |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by kalufelix(m): 7:09am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:LUST! |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 8:20am On Jul 23, 2012 |
kalufelix: LUST!No mind am. The boy has no matured relationship experience atall. Everytime na fvctard, fvctard, fvctard him go dey shout. I dey sure say if him c correct fvck sef, him go run. I repeat, he is a small boy. Confirm! Nairaland is for adults ok? So, Sagamite, its beta u go and play with your fellow teens on facesh*t. You'l be a quick hero there. SOAB! |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 9:15am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:Mr Fvctard, here is a simple question for you: would you be saying this same sh*t if your sister looked like a gorilla? I guess not. Besides, if we all go for the attractive, who wil marry the average looking girls or the ugly ones? Let me tell you something boy, life is not a bed of roses as you think. Infact, if the law of deprivation is anything to go by, (what you lack the most the lastime is what you'll want the most of the nextime) then something tells me you must be really really ugly - as in, like a crossbreed of chimpazee and hyenna. Just saying. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 9:33am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:Thank God you agree that your sister is the only good looking thing in your house. The rest of you look like a chimpazee/hyenna hybrids. Thats why you are too fixated on attraction. I can even bet that the girls that follow you around are your look-alikes too. Abi i lie? |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 9:35am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite: |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 9:35am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:Ah! Thank God. Thank God you agree that your sister is the only good looking thing in your house. The rest of you look like chimpazee/hyenna hybrids. Thats why you are too fixated on attraction. I can even bet that the girls that manage to follow you around are your look-alikes too. Abi i lie? |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by fagamite: 9:40am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Michky: Mr Fvctard, here is a simple question for you: would you be saying this same sh*t if your sister looked like a gorilla? I guess not. Besides, if we all go for the attractive, who wil marry the average looking girls or the ugly ones? Let me tell you something boy, life is not a bed of roses as you think. Infact, if the law of deprivation is anything to go by, (what you lack the most the lastime is what you'll want the most of the nextime) then something tells me you must be really really ugly - as in, like a crossbreed of chimpazee and hyenna. Just saying. First of, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and one man's "ponmo" is another man's "shaki." As long as that aphorism continues to be true, ugly women will never be short of attention from average-looking men like you. Secondly, I am a big believer in Jahn Nash's revision of Adam Smith’s principle that the “best result comes from everyone in a group/society doing what’s best for themselves and the group/society." And if the end product is getting laid, people like you would be best served if you went for the unattractive women, leaving people like me to cater for the attractive ones. That way, it is win-win for us all |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by fagamite: 9:49am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite: person. You mean from the same genetic make-up/genome sequence? Anyway, FYI, a gene is a section of the genome which codes for one polypeptide or RNA chain that may or may not have any understood function . But for you, lets just say, a gene = a protein. And NO, people dont always "come from the same gene." |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 9:51am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:You seemed to have missed my point earlier. I meant only 1 of your sisters is presentable. The rest of you (you + your other sisters) look like chimpazee/hyenna hybrids. Besides how do you cope with all that odour from the hole between their legs? I remember i had to walk by your house the other time and heavily regretted that i didnt carry my gas mask along. Chei! That smell. Again i ask, boy, how do cope? |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by Michky: 10:43am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Sagamite:Wow, you seem to be speaking from personal experience. & if i may ask, how many times have they used your smelling shirt today already? Again i ask: boy, how do you cope with all that odour from the holes between your sisters legs? How? And while you are at it, am refering you to my previous post. Again. Wishn you an odourless day. Oloriburuku. |
Re: Which Do You Support: Marrying The One You Love Or Loving The One You Marry by EfemenaXY: 11:34am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Michky: No mind am. The boy has no matured relationship experience atall. Everytime na fvctard, fvctard, fvctard him go dey shout. I dey sure say if him c correct fvck sef, him go run. I repeat, he is a small boy. Confirm! Nairaland is for adults ok? So, Sagamite, its beta u go and play with your fellow teens on facesh*t. You'l be a quick hero there. SOAB! Jeezz!! I nearly choked on my breakfast just from reading the bolded! Una nor go kill pessin with laff for nland o! Ahem!! Er Michky, what does a correct fvck / fvctard look like sef? Me, I'm curious naw... But seriously, Sagamite vs Michky, e don do abeg. Haba! Na so una wan start the week? It's only Monday morning... |
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