omotohdarajugbogbolo: Does he beat u? Or does he have anger issues? Throw more light sis!
And for his sisters that are not yet married, that's no issue so far u have good rapport with them

Rocktation: It is a classic case of pre-marital jitters. Good news is they are totally natural, normal and to be expected of such a monumental event as a wedding that has so much hope, so many expectations and involvement from so many people riding on it. When one considers the big commitment of marriage and begins to consider whether they should go through with their big day, this could be a very healthy part of the wedding process. It is after all, a major commitment.

Everyone questions whether they're making the right decisions. Questioning is not doubting. Jitters thrive on fears, so I advice that you face yours.

Keep an open line of communication with your partner, and discuss these fears/thoughts with him. Discuss your home (space), tastes, your fear of him being violent in the future, the level of family involvement there might be in your lives and stuff like that.

Also, find a healthy way to deal with all the family (his sisters and all), their demands and expectations. Yes, they have their own feelings of loss, happiness and disappointment too. Why! They may not even like you.

Understand though, that others that have gone on this same odyssey, did not have it all on a platter either. And that no matter how hard you try, you cannot please everyone and everyone may not be pleased. But remember, 'try' always have its pivotal destinations, so be sure to always want to. All the best.
Tank a lot. I feel a lil bit at ease nw. I appreciate

W'sfirstlady:
( No, he has neva raised a finger on me. Am jst scared of the unknow, wat if he does someday. I really dnt knw much abt his sisters cos I haven't spent much time with dem. Its freaking me out mehn!