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You are right, discipline is key for both male and female otherwise, everyone is cheap once they get an attractive 'offer'

Fortuna2:
As far as I'm concerned, men are too cheap. [b]It takes extra discipline [/b]for a full ass grown man to reject sexual advances especially from cute chicks like us .QED.

I have said No to several sexual advances from ladies especially during my service year. A made up mind is what has kept me going.

FarFromAverage:
I'm too ugly and yet anybody that hears the tone of my voice never resist coming again. Everything boils down to confidence

And value

Injiggerwolf:
Defining Handsomeness is Simple

Be Neat
Be Clean
Have Good taste of dress and nice perfume
Be Swaggerful, Confidence and be straight
Work on your body


Have a Vision

On point!

webizone:
The one post wey make me dey check guys dp. Choi!

Hahaha you will see many fine boys sha

vinsilva:
Some true points you have there. No girl would believe you if you tell them you are single...

Even when they eventually verify you're single they are still not secured around you

Great work!

Hahahaha be serious for once na

EXLOVER:
Peter Wife is the cause of all the problem in the family, imagine Paul will visit Peter, Peter will tell his wife to go and boil Eba water for Paul to eat the Egusi soup that she cook, but she will refuse, complaining that she can't go and do Eba for a person she's older than, she can only do that for her husband but not Paul.

And she also stop Peter from smoking ganja with Paul and Jude, and you know ganja brings men together, she's just there to take Peter all to herself, and Peter himself is a woman wrapper. Peter always do the cooking in the household while she watches BBN.

Nice submission! I wanted skipping it because it's too long but every line is worth reading. I hope everyone read this and think twice. Thank you

franchasng:
You are more than correct with the parts in bold.


But very wrong with the parts in red font, and you know why I will explain in details below, the reason why entrepreneurs have the last laugh.

No matter where you work or which company or organization you are working for, you cannot work beyond 70yrs at most, and imagine at 70, you stopped working...

@Pocohantas no reasonable entrepreneur will/can discourage anyone from doing their "comfortable" 9-5 job and no one is really kicking against it.
Even Roberts Kiyosaki the author of "Rich Dad Poor Dad" who always kicks against "going to school to get good grades and find a good job" never kicked against 9 - 5 as that was were he started from with his wife.
However, it is imperative to have other source of income if you are have a job. You can start saving to start your own business or partner with someone else. It is only when you are certain that your business can foot your bills that you should quit and if you are really comfortable with your job and it's not taking your time or distracting you from your business you can be doing both. No matter how much you are earning in your job, if you don't have your own business, life will tell on you after retirement. So you can start a small business while working and let that be your retirement plan.
It's a mindset thing sha and not everyone will understand it now unless you have developed your mind. There are four cash flow quadrants as written by Roberts Kiyosaki - The Employees, the Self Employed, The Business Owners and The investors. The first two will not make you wealthy and you have to be present always to make money. But the other two will thrive with or without your presence and you can go on vacation, have the real time and financial freedom and acquire luxury.

Dear OP stop making peope comfortable with working for others without having a side hustle they can hold on to. And if you are the owner of @shoepify on IG as indicated on your signature, I put it to you that you are misleading the 'masses'
Cheers!

Word!

ZitNg:
“If your country is governed by the most stupid people, it is vital for you to continue going up personally while your nation and your country is going down because your country will inevitably collapse and it will be in need of people like you, people who managed to improve themselves while everything else was falling and deteriorating!”
― Mehmet Murat ildan


This guy is just a clear description of a failed nation.

jabberjawz:
That's like 143M on the table....not to talk about the one on the floor......left alone the ones stashed in the bank, stocks & real investment........Damn I wish I had a quarter of what's on the table....only a quarter...I no get big eye....

I know say I no Sabi maths....I no even go sch sef.....those wey don dey mention my post dey come.....una wehdone.

U sabi!
Convert it to naira and see what that ordinary table is carrying N5,18,800,000 (5bn, 18mn, 800k).
Baba everything is possible, make we pray well, work well, hustle legit and grind in focus. 10 - 20 years from now people go either draw motivation from us or hate us We shall all get there by God's grace.

obembet:
Which one is beautiful female kidnappers..

I tire o All these bloggers adding unnecessary adjectives whenever it involves female criminals.
Crime is crime and all criminals should be addressed and dealt with equally.

Huh?

Chai na so law sweet reach? I wantu go to school again

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

Lol, after I don waste my comment. I think he just wants to trend and get likes that won't increase his bank account balance. Nairaland MODs should ban such people for cooking up fake stories and putting other people's marriages at risk. It would have been better if he said he was posting for a friend, but no, he's just a LIAR

I don't know if you told us the full gist, but going by what you wrote I think your wife is making it easy for him and putting you in the battle field.
Why didn't she block the number after the first call eventhough she informed you which is a good thing?
My take is that, she should block and keep blocking all medium of communication between her and the ex if she really value your union simple!

handsomebanana:
The girl still fine.

Na bad picture

Ok, I for say o

These children wey fine well well when dem dey small I no know wetin come happen to them now
May God restore their Glory.

Hmmmmm.
In my perspective, there are no laid down rules when it comes to matters of the heart (love/relationship) because what works for "A" might not necessarily work for "B" and doing all you have listed does not guaranty you will be loved back by the guy you're lavishing such "love" on. Op, you will agree with me that not every guy deserves such treatment (same applies to ladies if you look at it the other way round).
I personally don't agree with the first 7 on your list as they're not really necessary now adays, infact it will make a lady appear desperate to a guy (well, not all guys, like I said, it may work for others while others may not want you to put yourself through these to prove you love them). Some lazy youths will be happy at the first 7 on your list but will be quick to describe a lady as materialistic and too demanding if it was a lady listing those as ways to show her love.
My take is, don't go beyond your means (financially or mentally) trying to please another person that may not be deserving of it in the end. Be the best version of you, improve in areas you know you have lapses, let your strength make up for your weakness and appreciate the man your heart chooses with as much RESPECT as you possible. If you show the right man genuine love and respect and add numbers 8 - 10 on Op's list, you will win his heart forever. As a matter of fact, if you have the means to do 1 - 10 do it but make sure you're not being taken for granted. If you pour out your love on a guy who is not reciprocating it please don't waste eternity trying to bleed yourself to win his love. Let him be and work on yourself. Don't go about exhausting yourself looking for your dream man, prepare yourself for him and he will find you. Same applies to guys when it comes to looking for your dream woman.
I hope you get my point.

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khiaa:
I couldn't help it.

i'm sure they got their eyes on you
HAPPY SUNDAY to you

khiaa:
The biggest RATS that I have ever known of are "The Re.tard Gang".

hahaha DON'T GO THERE

khiaa:
A Rat, good lord. Do you guys really have Rats that big? I would faint if I came across a rat that big.

I was shocked at my first sight of Ikeja (Lagos) Rats myself. Rats that are not scared of humans. They go about their normal activity even when they sight you. You may confuse a Rat for Grasscutter here if you don't carefully observe them

OdefaGirl:
Thank you.

You're welcome

Digital101:
This one is not about Konji, that guy need deliverance

you may not be far from the truth lol.
This kind of people resort to raping if they can't find an easy "hole" to expel their uncontrolled libido.

Konji na bastard but self-control sure pass.
This guy is a disgrace to manhood and an insult on womanhood

delishpot:
It is called Royal Antelope.
It is indeed such an elegant and delicate looking animal. The name suits it fine

I think I agree with you based on the size and looks. Royal antelopes have close resemblance with a Dik-dik.

Did Mikel Obi promise him they'll return with the cup this time?

I remember how, many years ago, I had a face to face encounter with a similar animal (I think an antelope or a deer). I and a group of about 13 boys between the ages of 10 - 15years had taken an "adventure trip" to the top of a mountain in Kwali, an outskirt of Abuja (inbetween Gwagwalada and Abaji). After wandering atop the mountain for hours doing what I'll best describe as an excursion, we got exhausted and had little misunderstanding that we parted in two groups. Just then my group saw an antelepe and we called out for the other group while ambushing the animal. They rushed back and we lunched out an attack but till date I cannot explain how one lovely innocent looking creature escaped amidst 13 gallant (or hungry) looking boys, worst was that it even went through the position of the guy holding a cutlass. We asked why he didn't use the cutlass and he said "I throw am the cutlass but na im tail e hit"
That is the end of my story.

holubee21:
Yoruba call it 'etu' menh dat animal can runnnnn with that its pointed legs...they run zig zag..very nice meat anyways