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Money changes not just the person having it but even the people around the person (if they are aware you are suddenly rich). Sometimes it is the behaviour of your close pals that will change you. For instance, you win a lottery jackpot of 20 million naira and you will see the kind of VIP treatment you will get from people whio never valued you before just to gain your favour. Some of your close friends will keep their distance not because they are jealous but because they feel staying around you will make it look like they are interested in your money and that action will make you think they are jealous and you will also distance yourself from them and the "change" becomes necessary even when you try to be yourself.
Also if you're not discipline money will expose your bad side. Girls that were forming hard to get for you before will begin to fams you and if you are not born again you will like to chop all of them. You will begin to commit bigger sins than you used to like booking luxurious hotels and hosting girls from different part of the country even if it means getting a return ticket for them. You will want to flaunt your cash to oppress your former oppressor and humble that uncle from your father's side.
My advise is that, no matter how rich you become try to be humble and help the less privilege. Also invest in in different business and best of all live a Godly life not to please men but God!

Nice adventure

fnep2smooth:
True... Renting house here is too expensive... Only if you want to live at places like gwagwalada, nyaya, gwako, mabushi, soka, kuje, etc oboy ghetto for here

You're correct. From Nyanya to the city center is just 15 - 25 minutes drive and one can get a very good and spacious 2 bedroom flat in Nyanya between N250 - 300k

MrMumu:
These two people are extremely boring to me i don't see them as a comedian rather they will make a great Mc at a funeral service with their dry jokes that can make you shed tears.
Seriously Nigerians got a lot of boring souls all claiming comedians from the dirty set of uneducated boys who called themselves ikorodu boys to akporo to lasisi or whatever he's called to Broda shaggi or whatever is that tout name.

These guys are fucking boring, watch Martin Lawrence and see what comedy is all about but stand up comedy and movie.

Well thank God me and atiku is from the same village then I'm automatically a Cameroonian at least we got Eddie Murphy, basket mouth, bovi, mr bean and Davido

Mumu you are making waves. I like the fact that you're in your best act. It's worth applauding.

MrMumu:
The way I take hate that ogboni girl ehn

Her toto go don dey rust now sef I'm very sure cos the last time we had sex I get scratches all over my dick i had to waste 2k to plasta my penis the next day

Mr. Mumu!!!

omokiri5:
Hello everyone. Please how can one recover a Facebook account that was hacked and the owner locked out. The hacker changed both the email address and phone number. The guy is a unionist so his account can easily be used to commit fraud. Please help.

Sorry, you cannot recover it since the email and phone number linked to it has been changed. The hacker now has full control but you can block him from using the account.
Check your email inbox you will see where Facebook notified you of someone trying to change your email or phone number, in the mail there's a link provided for you to click and recover your fb account if you're not the person initiating the change. Click on the link (although it's late to recover your account), you will be asked to provide a valid ID that has the same name as your original account. Upon confirmation, Facebook will permanently block the account from both you and the hacker.

Thanks for this elaborate explanation OP, God bless you.

Ademidd:
A Scammer Called Me And Not Long After My Facebook Account Was Blocked.

...I didn't give out name of account even though its my Facebook username and any other account details.

Now, what do you think could have happened...

I think he's had access to your fb account before he put the call through to you. He wanted to get some important details he can use to completely OWN both your facebook and bank account.
As for your bank, go to any of the branches closer to you and complain. If you still have your phone you may not need to change the number linked to the account, maybe just the email - let the bank advise you on what's best.
As for your facebook, contact facebook support and report "compromized account." If you can trace your email inbox carefully you will see where facebook had sent you a notification that someone is trying to change your profile phone number or email and that you should ignore the mail if it's you or click a link to retrieve your account... If you see such, click the link. Although it will be too late already but you will be asked to provide a proof of ID. If you provide a vaild ID FB will block the account permanently and neither you nor the hacker can gain access to it again. I think it's better they permanently block it instead of someone else using your account to defraud your unsuspecting friends and putting you in trouble. Sorry about that.

JejeNaija:
Whatever dear... I believe when you get more matured you will understand the true meaning of cheating. What about married actors and actresses who kiss in some movies and their husband/wife has no problem with that? Do you call that cheating when their partner knows its nothing but just a simple movie and a professional act?

Bro, no need explaining that much to convince someone who has no real experience of such before other than relying on mere imaginations to judge. I've been in your shoes before. These women start the move and give us every reason to trust them and one would never imagine them taking it to the next level until they expose their amorous tendencies. It happens so sudden and only men who are on their guard can resist such temptations. In the end you'll be glad you did not yield to the temptation and that's why i'm impressed with you. That person judging you should wait for her turn let's see how she handles it. I hope her story will be nairaland worthy though. Hypocrite!

luminouz:
*sighs*
What am I to do with you

Now...go to the kitchen and make akamu for me...right NOW!!

Hahahahaha i'm sick of Nairaland!

dairykidd:
Its not about $82 or $82,000 rather its about passing the right information in the first post by the Op.. Okay now its clear she also saw some documents bearing the bag owner's name and email id in the bag.

My problem is not with Op who did not make proper findings before posting but with readers who started raining insults on someone they don't know. If i'm in doubt about any piece of news and still want to make comments I first dig deep into the source and find all relevant info I can get. Still, I will not insult any person. That's where my comments emanated from, not just the place you quoted me. It's really not about the amount.

Kingkun69:
everybody Nah friend when small money come

Lol. Whether small or big money, no be everybody be friends o. Them fit try famz you but shine your eyes.
Meanwhile, no be for this kind small money we go dey fall our hands na. Neither me nor Lucy wants that kind of money. We hustle for ours, but if the owner does not show up it's left for her to do whatever she wants to do with it.

agarawu23:
aboki's don't buy small denominations same price with big denominations. I doubt if all that money go reach 20k

Why meet an aboki when you can transact directly from BDC with minimum of 357 naira for a dollar? And it applies to all dollar bill. It's over 29k!

Ozkar:
Lol. She sent a mail to the original owner of the okrika bag. I guess she got the email address by divine inspiration the moment she found the money

Check the mail she sent below. She uploaded on her WhatsApp status this morning because she's beginning to get a lot of doubting thomases over $82

happybee:
Wow..
Well she's lucky then..

Yeah.
Check the mail she sent to the supposed original owner of the bag, but I can't find that person that called her "stupid" for claiming she sent an email.

400billionman:
Nah ordinary $120 you dey make noise for.

Iberiberism.

Social nuisance.

See her finger like hawk looking for chicken to carry.

Oh so she sent email to Donald Trump to locate the first owner of the cheap bag in USA ?

The email part shows how stupid this girl is.

Buhary must hear this !

First and foremost, It's $82 not $120.
Secondly, I don't know how her finger is something you should worry about. Thirdly, if you're not sure how or who she sent an email to you should have copied her twitter handle and dm her asking who she contacted instead of running your mouth on NL saying what you don't know. Finally, you cannot stare her in the face and call her stupid! Show respect to people even if you don't know them, thanks.

happybee:
I don't believe this, because this used to happen back in the days.
Which makes all those okrika sellers always check their goods carefully whenever they come from market.

It's true Bee, she found the dollar notes inside a hidden purse in the bag. She's my friend way back since NYSC days and she doesn't have time for unnecessary attention.

Hmmm

Buharifanatic:
i thought that Kwankwaso owns kano

red cap men underate buhari at your own risk


you igbos just destroyed those men careers


dino gone
saraki gone
Kwankwaso gone
sani gone

Any result nlt from INEC is fake please let's be mindful of things we circulate online because of sentiments. Dino wins!

Goldmaxx:
hope you OBIdiently ATIKUlated?

Lol. I voted my conscience o. Nigeria must work again sha �

Mcquine:
Kindly ask those APC goons to drop that umbrella and carry their dirty broom to shade themselves nonsense

Lol �

I casted my vote around 10am. It's raining in Lagos now although I can still see people coming out with umbrellas to cast their votes in the Poling Units close to my house.

Aaronbee7:
. This is only my second post on nairaland and I only want to encourage other corpers and help them leave a lagacy in their host communities. If this is good...

Many people have been sending me mails here which I respond to and some I don't get to respond on time.
To easily reach me to guide you on personal CDS project please chat me on WhatsApp +2348069449655.
I have mentored many corps members who are passionate about this course and that's how I ensure community development service is sustained. Let's all contribute our quota to nation building and leave a legacy in any community we find ourselves.

Patrick is that you? Nice postulation Sir!

Mendelssohn:
Some of us have inexorably postulated, sometimes against the risk of sounding platitudinously hundrum, that electoral contests are not won on social media or by mere reliance on linguistic concoction of some indolent entities in terms of some housewife tales woven together with contemporary lexicon and anachronistic threads of beer parlour analysis with speculative deductions...

Fogerrit! Na money be fine bobo!

Deltayankeeboi:
sorry bruv i cant relate. i am a very cute guy.

come to my whatsapp and see a truckload of unreplied messages from girls.

i choose my female friends, they don't choose me.

benefits of being cute. if you know you know.

what we don't have yet in pocket size, God gave some of us extremely cute face to make use of for the main time until the bank account starts doing the talking for us.

handsome and rich guys don't bother about how to slide in a girls dm.

you can't be ugly and broke. pick a struggle!

#diary of a broke handsome playboy

otaghogho:
anyone of the two.... thanks

Done

eleojo23:
This is what happens when you suspend common sense because of greed...

Real investments grow over time and require patience but people always want it sharp sharp...
and that is why they will continue to fall for this kind of scam in the future...

You said it all, HE WHO HAS AN EAR (or eye to read) LET HIM HEAR (read).
Sharp sharp money leads to sharp doom. Avoid illegal schemes even if it pays someone you know, they're not sustainable and will eventually crash or abscond with your money.

Sorry I just got to see your comment. If it's not late you may need to reply and let me know if you're referring to progress report or final report. My email aaronbee7@gmail.com

otaghogho:
please send me a copy of project report, so that I will know how to write my project report. thanks.
kmoses34@yahoo.com

SingleDaddy:
She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.

I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.

Let me advise you based on my experience (i'v had married women make advances at me and I always quenched the flame and let them decide if they want the candle broken or not), there's this particular married corper I met during biometrics who collected my contacts with the disguise of getting NYSC updates from me... Long story cut short, we got so close and exchanged visits and I didn't have problem with that untill she opened up that she wants me (gave me many reasons why it is okay to have her, how her husband is out of the country for so long and he is there helping himself but she's lonely and starved), it was so obvious she was obssessed with me and one day I was faced with a "Joseph - Potiphar's wife" scenario and had to plead with her to let go of me that if I ever attempt that I WILL DIE because i'v made up my mind for long never to have anything to do with a married woman. Sometimes I feel pity for her and my other mind will be suggesting I just "help her" it's no big deal but on a second thought I said what if it's my wife and another boy/man? So I opened up to her that I cannot continue with this kind of friendship unless she drops her amorous tendencies. I passed out without tainting my "clean sheet" and at a point she thanked me so much for not letting her cheat on her husband. We speak on the phone once in a while now unlike before that she calls morethan 5times in a day. She's still serving and we respect each other a lot now (dear married corper/friend if you ever come across this, know I didn't share this story with anybody cos I respect you).

So guy, it's up to you to do the right thing and back out now or stay in it and get more entangled. But doesn't your conscience prick you that it's another man's legally married wife? YOU KNOW THE RIGHT THING, DO IT!
(A woman in love can do so many desperate things, it's your duty as a good friend to forgo your selfish interests and guide her through the right part and she will forever remain grateful to you).

Commendation letters from the Chief of Karu, The Speaker of AMAC, GDSS and LEA Ayenajeyi Pry Sch.

You've said it all! People are owing us for three years and still saying "bro I never forget ooo." The earlier you moved on the better. So don't ever borrow money you cannot afford to lose (especially to friends and family) sothat you don't lose both your money and the debtor. Remove your mind and forget it, if the debtor happens to suprise you and payback one day, fine.

ladyF:
Your money is gone! Shey nairalanders said borrowing is not a criminal offence, that it's a civil offence. Nothing anybody can do for you

Next time, don't borrow money you cannot afford to lose. We learn everyday...

It's LadyF again.

Nice job bro.
You were indeed of great assistance. May God continue to empower you as you try to reach out to the communities. And may we never be tired in our quest to touch lives.
I'l WhatsApp you