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U see, in africa, there is a saying that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" this means that the best way for a lady into an african man's heart is to prepare good and delicious meal for the man. Most of us nigerian men luv our nigerian native meals (swallow). Let me tell u a secret, if a man really wants to marry a lady in nigeria, the man will want that lady to know how to prepare nice and delicious nigerian native meals.

I saw ur other post abt how to impress ur nigerian guy, the best advice I can give to u is to suprise ur man by preparing his best nigerian meal. Ask him what is his best nigerian meal, go and meet some naija ladies over there and learn frm them how to prepare this meal....this is somethin that he will neva forget once u do it

By the way, stop running away from ur boyfriend's nigerian meals that he wants u to taste, do u really think if u guys get married in d future, he will be eating pizzas and harmburgers everyday...? NOPE

Try to adapt, try to luv and develop interests for ur man's meal, afterall, he is ur man and u need to take gud care of him, stop runnin and start cookin those meals for him....ciao!!!

I dnt tink it is bad for a gal to ask her guy all dis questions, bt if he doesn't reply u, no vex....

Questions like.."Baby, do u really luv me?" Or "does ur mum talk abt me?"......pls ladies, ask dis questions once in a while and not everyday, I can answer them without gettin angry bt pls it pisses a guy off wen u ask him everyday whether he luvs u...it is kind of a bit annoyin atimes.....it may mean u re doubtin d guy everyday from the guy's interpretation....

Handle ur fiance, it doesn't matter if 10 ladies call him for abt 10mins each per day, he shud face u and u alone since he engaged to u....or was he forced to engage to u..? No, I dnt think so...

Leave the lady out of this, and think of how best u can hold ur guy tight to ursef..

kofsy: Ok! But now how do you handle a man that is not willing to admit? The victim's plan is not to force it out of him. She knows her man so well and knows how to get him... And probably punish him. But she wants to put a peg on the affairs. She's not sure if they still talk or see, cos he had promised not to call the slut again. Now the girl does all the calling. She calls for like 10 times in a roll, even when he's not picking. As in, she so desperate! Never knew girls like that existed.

U can't stop another lady from calling ur guy, u may insult her or warn her bt wen a lady is desperate, she will call, and if possible offer sex to her target

Truth is, it depends on d man, if he can resist the lady's temptation.

And d fact is, men easily fall to temptation, xpecially when the temptation is sexual, am sorry to say, bt most of us men are weak in resistin a free "ride" on a body that's got a strong sex-appeal.....it only takes the Grace of God and a man who is really satisfied and contented with his lady and his life. But it is very much possible sha

Cathaliya:


Big Rat poison.

Babe, u no well....hahahaha, lolz

Btw, if I was ur fiance, after seeing the way u beat the lady I cheated u on, I don't think I may go ahead and marry u again because I may even start fearin u....

Who knows, u may decide to poison me any day u suspect me of infidelity!!!

Ever wondered why many guys say women have "fish brain"....?

So u want to deal with the lady ur fiance is sleepin with...!! What is her crime, is it not ur fiancee that askd her out...? So what is u discovered ur fiance has abt 10 ladies he is sleepin with now, will u also arrange to "deal" with all this 10 ladies..?

If today, I catch my gal cheatin with me on a guy, I hav no business wit the guy cos he hasn't offended me. It is my gal that I hav a score to settle with, shikena...

If u do anythin to that lady, I promise u, ur guy will start loosin the little luv he has for u, infact he will start seein u as a lady that fights up and down and trust me, as a guy, we dnt like marrying such "fighter" ladies. Infact if u re not careful, ur guy will even feel sympathy for the other lady after u must hav gotten her beaten (since that is wat is in ur mind) and I hope u know that for us men, there is a very thin line btw sympathy and luv...?

Ur guy is cheatin, u can't handle him instead u want to handle d 3rd party who mayb doesn't even know u.....just prepare ursef to be fightin different ladies every week in ur matrimonial home in d future since this is ur way of handlin a cheating fiance!!!

Btw, that he may be engaged to u now doesn't mean he will still marry u 2moro, infact surpose he even decides to marry the other lady after u may have finished beatin and battering her, what will u do.....?

fabulousdame: it's not just about his friend, my instincts too besides wat kinda bf deletes his gfz text messages from his phone

So u left ur bf because of ur instincts and not because u caught him cheating in any way.....?

Well fair enough

Now u are confused whether to let him back in ur life or not....

Btw, what happend to ur instincts, don't they stil feel dsame abt ur bf......?

U just left ur guy without any proof that he was cheating on u, just the "words" of his friend alone...!!!

I dnt see why he shud want to come back to u

And I dnt see why u shud want to accept him after leavin him wit no real reason

Both of u are confused

ETT

Multiple personality disorder (MPD):. . . .gay, bisexual, tranny, lez, straight, etc @op.....u need deliverance

The truth is that jealousy works beta on women than men. Just stare or smile at another gal wen u are wit ur galfrend and u wil notice a change in ur galfriend's mood. Hav u ever wondered why our galfriends dnt introduce us to their beautiful sisters or friends not until more than a month into d r/ship bt stil they introduce us to those ones they feel are nt too beautiful earlier.....? The fact is women are very scared of another woman snatchin their man, havent we seen ladies fightin and cuttin each other's body with razor blade, knife, etc all becos of "boyfriend wahala"...whereas howmany guys hav u seen fightin physically becos of a woman. . . . ? but wat is d use of makin her jealous and insecured if u luv her and she isnt givin u "headaches", it may cause problems of "trust" 2moro. . . beware!!!

Was that a cowgirl I saw there...? Lolz....

Ur boyfriend will neva take u back even if u re the last woman on earth

Trust me, as a man, there are some sins we just can't forgive. I don't even think he will be able to trust any lady for quite a long time...

Just walk away, why put on another energy in hurtin someone that isn't even worth it....?

U shud rather use that energy and time in re-arranging ur life and moving on.

paradoxqueen: Men have been conditioned to pay for sex....as a wife you cook clean and provide sex as a husband he provides money! This isnt anything men are new to.
Wouldnt a man being getting a better deal to just pay for it up front as business deal instead of having to deal with all the inconvinces dating brings wether he is married or single?

Na wa for ladies o, u claim a wife provides sex, cook and clean for d man, while all d man does is to provide money. Don't u think the man also provides sex for the wife, as in, sexual satisfaction because when I last checked, sex btw husband and wife is a two way thing and both couples derive from it. Why do women always talk as if only the man gains from sex when in d real sense the pleasure is derived by both parties.....?

Reason: because most women won't give sex out freely to men...

They are different reasons women give sex to men, marriage, luv, sympathy (gettin extinct), fear, money, konji, aggro, etc..

But the fastest way of gettin sex nowadays is through money

It seems the guy was drunk when he said all this rubbish...

I don't like men that like boasting publicly abt their sexual prowess, can't he keep it indoors....? Afterall, as I recall, he is married with a nice family

nadia_SA: Well..

When u are ready, u will say what is really on ur mind....

Guy, cool down, am sure ur wife will change.....maybe when u guys have a baby

But u shud always pet her and anytime u apologise for sometin that was her fault, take ur time to talk to her later and explain to her d reasons for ur actions and neva forget to tell her where she went wrong.

Also, it is not too much of a suprise because most woment hav temperamental problems, infact, there is no woman that u will meet that dnt have one problem or d other, dsame for men. Mind u, no one is perfect so I will advice u to deal with ur partner's imperfection....we are all dealing with ours!!

Lucks guy.

Is it adult movie she wants to act or is it music she wants to sing....!! She better decide o.....

Btw, wat is wrong wit all this female musicians showing half-naked bodies always, must they stoop so low to sell their ugly music.....?

@poster......ask ur man directly, face-to-face,"where do u stand in his heart...?"

Dnt be scared, the earlier u know where the r/ship is heading, the earlier u will know what to expect

Don't wait until u hav fallen in luv with him 120%, then he will now tell u that he has no plans to marry u!! Ask him now and know what to expect in d future

Dnt give up, am sure he really luvs u

Wtf...?

Both of them are ok but to be honest, they both lack that captivating kind of body that makes guys go "ga-ga"

They lack captivatin bossoms, bottoms, curves, figure 8, etc

But am sure most people will pick bella, linda lacks real "fleshy" body

@poster....u wan chop meat wey jinn husband dey chop!!

Prepare for battle o

Better Get ur amours....

Guy beware o, u are datin the babe of a jinn.....and now u want to bleep the babe of a jinn.....and u are prayin to God to bless u guys "first sex" (fornication).......

And u really tink God will bless it...

3 words for u

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