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segzi cres: @ab025 pls STFU! Its guys like you with zero confidence that make ladies believe they can play whatever games they like on men. The babe is just a confused hoe.

So, u tink it is wen a guy fvcks a gal in their first meetin in her house, that is wen d guy is confident...? U are very wrong!!!

Haven't u ever gone to a lady's place and be denied sex b4? Why are all of u insultin d op that he fuckd up, as if he didn't try his best..? Sex is not a do or die affair na, what is bad if he tries another day...

@segzi cres....are u tryin to say u ve fvckd every gal that came to ur house or that u went to their house? Dis guy went to a gal's house that is trippin for him, although she refuses to sex him d first day, is there any tin that has changed...? Who says she won't allow him tomorrow? @segzi cres.. It is guys like u that always force ladies to hav sex.

All of u tellin d op that he fuckd up, which of u can swear that a lady has neva stoppd/denied u sex b4, xpecially a lady that u xpected will giv u freely b4, whether in ur house or her house....

Even dbanj and 2face, some ladies don even deny them sex talkless of all of una here, even married men sef, atimes their wife no dey gree do for some week sef

Just because a lady is trippin for u doesn't mean she will sleep wit u, that's women for u, trippin is different frm sex, unlike we men that trippin and sex are related

A man's mumu-button is different frm a lady's mumu-button....the op shud work on d gal and dnt give up

Why shud u expect sex d very first time u are meeting with ur online gf....?

Later, u will be boastin to ur friends how u ate her raw d very first time, how cheap she is, etc

So u think u are craig david that is why u xpect her to spread her legs to u in d very first meetin....?

Why won't guys learn to take it easy while approachin ladies, na ashawo she be wey u go fvck am d very first time...? Even if na ashi, una no go settle price first....?

She even try wey she welcom u well sef.....

Pls, about the 2 letters of attestation of good character that is required, pls how should we address the letters.....?

See the name of the operator sef "mtcheew", wat do I espect......?

@op.....put ur pics for here, u and all those gal wey comment, make una upload una pics here make we see whether una fine....how am I not sure that even our gays here on nland are more beautiful than u gals if they put on female cloths?

Upload ur pics o....we are waitin!!

Ladies haba....

Not all guys are ugly na, even if most guys are not that handsome, they are ok. Not ugly.

And it also applies to d ladies too, most times, wat help u gals is just ur long hair that u keep, coupled wit d boobs, curves and ass.

If we really want to know whether a lady is really beautiful facially, then she shud cut her hair to low-cut just like we guys normally do, let us see d shape of ur head and ur face. Only then can we really say whether u re beautiful or not.

If na like dis e easy, u think say any muslim fine gal wey dey fair and slim go stil remain for market...?

My guy, shine ur eyes well and look for ur gal o, dnt relax and expect gals to be sendin u application just becos u ve made ur preferred qualities known, search and pray to God for the best o.

Meanwhile, must she be fair...? Well maybe u will like ladies that do bleach sha...

I know many gals with dis qualities u stated bt I won't give them to u...!!!

If na like dis e easy, u think say any muslim fine gal wey dey fair and slim go stil remain for market...?

My guy, shine ur eyes well and look for ur gal o, dnt relax and expect gals to be sendin u application just becos u ve made ur preferred qualities known, search and pray to God for the best o.

Meanwhile, must she be fair...? Well maybe u will like ladies that do bleach sha...

Genny wannabe....

Why not respect ursef in d beautiful way God made u, why feelin inferior and d need to look like a celeb, can't u just be u?

@mimzy.....pls send me any past questions or gmats that u hav, tanx.

basonic2010@yahoo.com

This guy is just lookin for attention....

U opened an acct just to post dis as ur first topic....?

U are a regular nlander and stop all those lies u are sayin, even Jesus and Muhammed weren't stared at that much, who u come be...? Abeg park well joor....

@cathaliya...That's d problem with luv or crush, atimes it really sucks...

Wow, luv wan ti ti....

Could this be luv..? Part 2, starring cathaliya and chuksy, grab ur copy NOW!!!

Cathaliya: Not e-crush....someone said e-infatuation.
But I know I felt deep love for Chuks..

@cathaliya......this ur e-crush, sounds like j&H, (if u know wat I mean)

Guys too like fine gals o...

Just imagine, e don even front-date d b-day sef, bt everyday for here, enuf guys in dis same romance section use to have their b-days bt it is hard for u to see another guy openin up a thread to wish one another happy b-day, bt once it is a girl's b-day, come see threads, some go even enter page 10 just for "happy b-day" o...

Am not sayin it is bad to wish our ladies here a good b-day celebration bt let us also extend it to each other, afterall, are we not all friends here...? Or is it only people u guys hav crush on that u wish happy b-day...?

@nomski....happy b-day in avance, wishin u d best in life

If she doesn't call to greet u, wahala, if she calls to greet u, she automatically becomes a suspect!!!!!!!


Na wa o....

basonic2010@yahoo.com

Ladies shud stop using their "period" as an excuse for insultin their boyfriend

This same issue happend to me. I noticed that when my gal is on her period, she says things that shudnt be said, infact as at one time, she insulted me for no just reason, I was suprised and forgave her. The next month, durin her flow, she did dsame and dis time d insult was much more hurtin. I became really really angry and trust me, wen I am angry, u will hate me. It really took me up to a week to come back to my normal self o

All u ladies makin posts that the guy has a gal on d side b4 dnt understand what is goin on

1. The poster is lyin, if we shud investigate dis matter, we will discover this is not d first time she is insultin him durin her period.
2. When another woman on dis planet insults us, we can smile over it and forget it, bt wen it is d gal that we really luv and hav spent up to "3 years" with, damn....that thing dey pain ooo....xpecially d word "daft"
3. For the fact that she insults u durin her period, as a guy, u start to wonder, does it mean if I marry dis gal, everytime she is experiencin her period, this is what I will be facing.....?
4. After thinking of number 3 above, the guy will even start thinkin of whether to continue with u or free u since he won't be able to risk probably take insults once in every month of his life.

SOLUTION:

ANGER MANAGEMENT
Pls ladies, stop deceivin us that u are easily angry or so during ur period that is why u say things that u dnt mean. U are not d only one experiencin flows, other gals are there that also experience it bt dnt insult people. Btw wenever most ladies are in their period, d worst thing is, it is their bf they normally insult and no one else.

The fact is, u can't keep on doing this, u just hav to control it, no man likes to be insulted by a lady everytime and also apologised to everytime, it is another form of maga-ism.

Wen my gal did that for 2 straight months, I had to ask her if datin her means I will always be insulted every once in a month...well, we started dealin with her anger issues o, and for now, everytin is over, no more insults durin her flow, it is very easy to change bt it depends on d lady, she must be willin to change and must always remember that she may loose her man just becos of her foolishness. Also, most ladies that insult durin their period are ladies that normally insult guys before and ladies that hav failed to manage their anger problems even wen they are not in their period.

Pls, my advice is, no matter wat happens, train ursef never to say any insultive words in ur life, be it durin ur period or not, and plead wit d guy, xplain to him it is ur weakpoint and beg him to help u manage it, dnt sit-down there thinkin u ve pleaded enuf o, it is nt d "daft" u called him that is affectin him, it is d fact that he doesn't know if u will keep on callin him a "daft" evevry month or even durin wen u guys are married.

I am havin problems in making payment online through pay4me, why is it not goin thru now.....?

Ordinary 6months and u are shouting...!!

My gal is 22months older that me (almost 2yrs) and she is d sweetest thing I've ever seen and believe me, I plan to marry her, f*ck d age difference

I noticed that if a person is the most caring, respectful and best person u ve ever happend to date and u let that person walk away just becos a small age difference, I bet u, u may neva be opportuned to meet that person again in ur life.

The only thing my woman needs to do is

1. Neva, and I mean "never" in our marrital life threaten me or mock me wen we hav conflicts with sentences like "u are not my mate" or "u are a small boy"......this is d problem with most nigerian ladies, wen they want to insult their husbands, they choose the wrong "words" for insults.

2. My woman should always realise that whether she is older or younger than the me what she needs is luv, care and a person that gives her real peace of mind, forget the age

3. My woman shud train herself to see her guy/husband as the best thin that happend to her not becos I am younger bt because i luvs her very much.

4. Start seein me as a matured man and not as a "small boy".....afterall, if u are 28 and ur guy is 27, does it mean just becos u are a year older, then he is a "small boy".... at d age of 27..

5. My woman shud train herself neva to insult me in d future with my age, that is one insult that really hurts men....



And guys too that are priviledged to date or marry a very beautiful lady that is so caring shud neva ever in their life call her an "old woman", if she is old, what abt u, are u in ur early twenties....?

Marriage shud be more based on luv and the capability of both couples living together in so much happiness throughout their life-times and not on "small" age differences.

Na wa o, to pay for this thing online don dey get problem o, this pay4me service is no longer functionin well for online payment o...

The truth is, even in that skul that u are, even if a nigerian guy came over to u wen were feelin cold and offered u a sweather, u will refuse it bt as soon as that white dude or african-american guy shows up with even a t-shirt, u will accept it....am not suprised!!


Abi na lie I talk....?

Whether u abort the pregnancy or u decide to keep it, this should be a lesson for u throughout ur life...

Stop unprotected sex, and she is stil only in secondary school, now am sure she may have to stop schoolin becos of this and even u, u may need a job ASAP

Well, I will advise u guys go for abortion becos both of u are too unfit to be parents, xpecially u that shud even have sense more than a secondary skul gal, it seems its the other way round.....

paradoxqueen: Yes but it will take much rime before then. I figure I am 2-4 months from a proposal, a year until a wedding after that, 6 months after until he becomes suspicious, and 1-2 years after that until I cant hide it anymore so that gives me almost 4 yrs...by then I might be o.k who knows or maybe it wont matter to him by the time he figures it out
So I don't think I should tell him...
I just dont want him to think I dont care about his culture because of this. ..

It looks like u are dreamin aloud, do u really think guys are that dumb, as in, 4yrs before noticing that my wife can't stand cooking!!! If u think u can hide something as important as this frm ur guy, then go ahead. But don't be suprised if he decides to take it personal wen u decide to tell him 2yrs after the marriage....

The way u are going, ur actions may drive this guy over to the girl-next-door who cooks delicious meals....

One thing u should know is, nigerian men like ladies that cook

U said u may be cooking like just once in a week,..lolz, pls try and improve, cooking is very essential to most nigerian men in deciding whether to settle down with a lady or not