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@princessmel.......I just hope u are not one of those troublesome virgins that leads a man to run away from a r/ship cos I remember I once left a virgin because her "headaches" were too much

And pls, if u ever shuld have/hav had sex with a guy, neva use it to hold him down, don't start remindin him everyday wen u guys are passin through normal r/ship conflicts that "it is not his fault bt urs since u gave him ur virginity, etc..." Women are fond of sayin that to d guy that disvirgined them, infact, most times they stress and frustate d guy everyday which is a major reason why many good guys uptil 2day will always refuse to disvirgin a gal. But for a bad guy, the pleasure is all his, after "entering d place", he will stay and "shine d place" well for a while b4 movin ahead wether d gal insults him or not.

Pls all of u ladies shud give d man u luv ur virginity and enjoy givin it to him, don't see it as a favour u are doing him, instead, see it as consumation of ur luv together.

There are ladies that after disvirgining them, they start pestering u with marriage (an issue that was neva discussed b4 o) and any little thing u do, like mayb if u guys quarrel, if u couldn't call her early d next mornin, if u make a call to another beautiful gal, etc., she starts remindin u that it is her fault since she was d one who allowd u to hav her virginity, bla bla bla...pls ladies, stop dis behaviours of urs, loosing ur virginity to a man does not warrant u to remind him that it was ur fault 4 givin him daily neither does it warrant u to start pestering him abt marriage dailly xpecially if u guys didn't discuss it b4!!!

I wonder what type of wife wouldn't want to have a child for herself and her family o all because of her business!!!

If I marry, I wud even want my wife to give birth to our children very early so that we can start restin and training them

This ur wife lucky say no be my mumsy be her mother-in-law o, if not, them for start to dey ask questions say wether she dey barren..

Bro, am sorry to say dis, but ur wife is indeed "wicked".

She should have atleast discussed it wit u first b4 taking the drugs, afterall, d feutus is also a product from u.

I just hope u guys can be one and dsame again o becos there are some thin line that once it has been crossed in a r/ship, there is no goin back again

U may just hav to forgive her o even if it is for just this one, how u go do, na stil ur wife.....

Guy, I feel for u bt u have to understand that if she was really raped, and she lost her virginity through rape, things will be hard for u becos she is goin to be xperiencin some psychological trauma for a pretty long time o, my advice is u take it easy on her becos right now, u shud try to be her friend not her luver because she may be having issues trusting a man for a pretty long time, take it easy on her and don't blame her for d main time for not showin u enuf care or returnin ur luv, u shud be d one showin d care for now.

But if u feel u dnt really luv her or want to go all d way with her, then let her be.

Guys, is this how u guys really woo ur gals...?

I mean, whatz really going on here, is this "wooing challenge" or cracking jokes.....?

Damn, its really derailling.....!!!!!

Gosh!!! Oge okoye looks like a hungry albino there...

DJDOLA: when u no dat why do u buy that portrait and still hang it in ur room u still go an head an kneel in front of it and pray

I dnt know where u got ur info frm, but I don't hav any potrait of Jesus in my house and I can't put that potrait of that actor in my house, fact is, why will I use another person's image to represent Jesus?

Since I dnt know how he looks like (facially), let me honour and respect him in my heart and not on d potrait.

Even that potrait hangin on d wall, who told u that's Jesus...? He is just an actor who acted the role in a movie....

Truth be told, we really don't know how Jesus looked facially.

And for ur friend's son, he is a nobody!!!!

Why are all these mourinho fans too biased...?

I am not a pep or mourinho fan, but as far as I am concerned, with what I watched yesterday, bayern played better than chelsea

Go and check out the whole match statistics for the full 120 minutes in the field of play, bayern had more possession, more shots on goal and even more complete passes than chelsea, I wonder why human beings can be so wicked like this and be lying even after they watched the match!!!

Mourinho even went on to accuse the ref of killing the match for the red card he gave ramires, haba......how can he say that was not a worthy 2nd yellow card for a very clear stamping on mario gotze!!! That man lies a lot and I dnt like human beings that can't accept defeat. He claims no red card should have been given out becos it is a final, but don't u think football has rules? Even if it is a final, shouldn't the rules and regulations be followed?

Out of 16 head to head matches btw pep guardiola and jose mourinho, mourinho has won 3, pep has won 9 and they have drawn 4.

The statistics are there to speak for themselves, this is how u people fail jamb easily, pls guys learn to watch football without sentiments or bias pls.

And so?

What is wrong with marrying 4 wives?

@poster....would u hav married those women if he didn't marry them?

Did they complain to u?

Have u forgotten how many wives king solomon in the Bible married....?

Did they complain?

@poster..... Seems u re admirin one of his wives

If a gal should ask u for a break up, wether u say "yes" or "no", u are just wasting ur time, in her heart, she has already broken up with u, she is just informin u indirectly.



My advice: for ur gal to ask for a break-up, it means she may have seen someone else who she feels holds a more promising r/ship than u. Just let her go, afterall, its not as if u can make her luv u against her wish!!!!!

If u re at fault, go and plead with her but if u didn't do anytin wrong and she just wants to break up with u and she wudnt tell u d reason, then let her go.

@poster.....I agree wit u bt stil, u are a bit wrong

Do u think it is all southern governors that are peforming well? Pls go and ask abia state indegenes abt what their governor!!!

It is only very few governors that are trying in nigeria, all of them are thieves, wether north, west, east or south-south, they are all thieves.

Untill wen we d indegenes of each state start removin dis thieves frm office b4 our states will develop.

Can u imagine that a vegetable is the present governor of taraba? I remember wen we used to have an indian-hemp smoker as d governor of dis my state (kogi state)

I think d whole problem starts from the top (presidency), how do u expect the "tail" to be good when the "head" is already bad.....?

It goes futher down to even the local govt authorities in nigeria. Have u ever asked ursef what these local govt chairmen always do with the monthly allocation frm the federation's account...? Nothing! Except to even owe d poor local govt workers for 5 or 6 months without any pay, then after somebody will stand in my front to tell me there is an agency called EFCC!!

Jonathan and his crew are all criminals

Guy, I will be honest with u, the boko boys still rock that town once in a while o


But if u really dnt want the job, u can pass it over to me, my email is basonic2010@yahoo.com, u can reach me there.


As for me, I am not scared of working there, by the way, I schooled at maiduguri, am already used to the boko boys and their commotion, but life still has to continue atimes

Somethin must kill man one day, wether boko boys or nigerian bad govt!!!!

@sexytabhi.......u may not like my post, bt don't be insultive pls.

Btw.....I think more straight than u

Talking abt a gal with a profile pics of her ass hanging out to d whole world

Talk abt cheap market strategy!!!

Well I now wonder who thinks with the anus btw u and me!!!

Well, thank God u changed that profile pics!!!!

sexytabhi: why would I trip for a guy in benz 230/300 when I can trip for a guy with Lamborghini Veneno

Hmmm.....what makes u think after hustlin my ass and gettin mysef a sweet lamborghini veneno or a rolls-royce, I will want to date u, xpecially when u don't hav a car?

Mind u, if am using a lamborhini, I would also want to date a lady that is also usin a beautiful and a quite expensive car...not just some lady I gave a lift on d street!!!

I dnt tink I even need to give my woman engagement ring b4 marryin her..

As a man, whether I give my galfriend engagement ring, promis ring, marriage ring, divorce ring, etc....I will marry her if I feel I luv her and am comfortable wit her as my wife and mother of my kids.

Giving a lady engagement ring, gettin pregnant or setting a weddin date is never an assurance that a man will still marry that lady. Or don't u know that there are men that giv every lady they date engagement ring just to make them feel the r/ship is eventually progressin into marriage?

They way we think as men is very different frm the way u ladies think. Most times, u ladies want to apply those tins u read in novels (mills n boons) into r/ship life.

The best advice I can give a lady is to always be good, caring, kind and avoid all sorts of bad behaviours in dis life and I promise u, u will be every man's wife material.

@classiclady....u said u will keep on goin till u meet d man that will give u engagement ring bt do u know how many ladies that same man may has given engagement rings before? Do u know wether he is givin u d ring becos he luvs u or if it is becos he just wants u to feel secured @ that moment only to stil brk ur heart 2moro?

Engagement or promis ring means nothing except it comes from the right person. Let's just pray to God almighty to give us all the right partner.

@afrobaby.....tanx, I also think they are scam because I've checked for any info abt them (bernard benson) online and I really can't see anything abt them.

Na wa for this country o, after the whole wahala of goin to school we are stil strugglin with no jobs and peanuts in our pockets as graduates, now even the small money we are using to manage ourselves, these scammers want to still extort us of it...!!

God go punish all this scammers!!

A lady called me with that their phone number and askd if I will be able to come to lagos for their aptitude test which comes up next week since my cv shows I don't reside in lagos....

I really don't know what to do but I wonder why a genuine recruitment company will want a prospective job seeker to pay them money wen the job is not yet at hand!!

Pls guys, is dis fake?

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BERNARD BENSON LTD
12, Kofo Abayomi Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.

We are pleased to inform you that your application has been shortlisted after relevant analysis and reference check.
You are hereby to participate in a computer-based aptitude test with 29 other applicants at Bernard Benson Ltd which is located at the 9th floor of Gubant House,
12 Kofo Abayomi Street ,Victoria Island, Lagos. Out of which only 12 applicants will be recruited on behalf of MERISTEM PLC.

Shortlisted applicants are to print an entrance slip after filling out the Procurement Data Form embedded in the link below:

http://fs24.formsite.com/bernardbensonhrconsult/procdataformbatch002b/index.htmlThe slip is to be presented on request at the test center.

REQUIREMENT:

- A coloured passport photograph which is to be uploaded in the Procurement Form above and a teller number which will be derived from the payment slip at GTBank.

PLEASE NOTE:

Bernard Benson Ltd is a recruitment agency and will not claim any percentage from applicants remuneration after placement, provided the applicant has already paid a procurement fee to obtain an entrance slip which will contain the specific date and time of the examination.

Successful applicants will be contacted a week after the aptitude test for Industrial orientation and placement.

AGENCY BANK DETAILS:

GTBANK

Bernard Benson

0129415177

Endeavour to write down the teller number on the payment slip after paying the sum of two thousand five hundred naira only, as procurement fee, as you will be required to provide it in the form.

For questions pertaining  to the procedure, kindly refer to our faqs at:

http://fs24.formsite.com/bernardbensonhrconsult/faqs/index.htmlOr call the Admin Officer in charge:

Mrs Henrietta Adetiba

08183076408


PLS GUYS, I NEED TO KNOW IF THEY ARE FOR REAL.....!!!

Hello Nlanders, I received this mssg from bernard benson ltd today

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BERNARD BENSON LTD

12, Kofo Abayomi Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.

We are pleased to inform you that your application has been shortlisted after relevant analysis and reference check.
You are hereby to participate in a computer-based aptitude test with 29 other applicants at Bernard Benson Ltd which is located at the 9th floor of Gubant House, 12 Kofo Abayomi Street ,Victoria Island, Lagos. Out of which only 12 applicants will be recruited on behalf of MERISTEM PLC.

Shortlisted applicants are to print an entrance slip after filling out the Procurement Data Form embedded in the link below:

http:/formsite.com/bernardbensonhrconsult/procataformbatch002b/index.htmlThe slip is to be presented on request at the test center.

REQUIREMENT:

- A coloured passport photograph which is to be uploaded in the Procurement Form above and a teller number which will be derived from the payment slip at GTBank.

PLEASE NOTE:

Bernard Benson Ltd is a recruitment agency and will not claim any percentage from applicants remuneration after placement, provided the applicant has already paid a procurement fee to obtain an entrance slip which will contain the specific date and time of the examination.

Successful applicants will be contacted a week after the aptitude test for Industrial orientation and placement.

AGENCY BANK DETAILS:

GTBANK

Bernard Benson

0129415177

Endeavour to write down the teller number on the payment slip after paying the sum of two thousand five hundred naira only, as procurement fee, as you will be required to provide it in the form.

 For questions pertaining  to the procedure, kindly refer to our faqs at:

http://fs24.formsite.com/bernardbensonhrconsult/faqs/index.htmlOr call the Admin Officer in charge:

Mrs Henrietta Adetiba

08183076408

Pls fellow nairalanders, who knows Bernard Benson Ltd and how they conduct their recruitment job and I don't know why they should request for payment of money into an acct when the prospective applicant have not even seen them yet!!!

@poster

Ur situation is very serious and quite funny
It seems u are too "soft" or u are praying for God to change ur wife's mind....hmmm

Mr man, u hav to act fast o, if na me, I no go even fit touch that woman again cos I wouldn't want her to com and giv me sexually transmitted diseases

And if u re stil doubtin it, let me clear ur doubt, UR WIFE IS SLEEPIN WITH HER EX, so stop doubtin it, u should instead be thinkin of how to send that woman out of ur house and claim responsibility for ur kids

Gather as much evidence as u can of her infidelity so that 2moro, incase she takes u to court in order to take ur kids away frm u, u can win d case but for now, start thinkin of life after her becos I doubt if that woman can ever be faithful again to u

Although they say change is the only permanent tin in life, but the way I see this ur wife, she is just startin wit u, who knows wether she will move on to another of her ex when she is done with this one...?

By the way, go for a paternity test o, wit women like ur wife, u neva can be too sure if those kids are urs or if they belong to her ex.

Be a man and do d right thing, DRIVE HER OUT B4 THE END OF THIS YEAR

He asked for ur number, bt u didn't want to give him, couldn't u just tell him "NO" and let it end there...?

Must u come here to tell us he askd for ur number becos he payed ur t-fare..?

If all the ladies here want to start openin up threads whenever a guy requests for their number, I dnt think we will have any space here again to open threads

Just live with it, he admired u, paid for ur t-fare, requested 4 ur number and u refused. End of story....shikena#