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[quote author=chieveboy post=85172065][/quote]Bravo! You appear to have a depth knowledge of spiritualism to certain degree...I gave it to you bro

If you don't mind I wish to take your knowledge to higher level that may give you an edge in EVERYTHING...
Take it or leave it!

lefulefu2:
she"s not attracted to u.its like they forced her to marry u

Not far from the truth...

tellsblinks:
Guy!! Grow up!! Sex is a good thing especially with married couples... Go get counselling!! And stop this "slave to sex" quote

Don't mind him.

He may came to world simply to pursue money endlessly...

hammerU:
Useless man, y u carry this kind topic disturb us? Ok!


U think, her body is a sperm dump?


Anytime u just reach house, u climb release and start to dey sleep?


U are an idiot!


If u Bleep pussy properly, i dont think u will be demanding it every week.


mofo!

Bad guy

franchasng:
You guys worry so much about pleasing your partners honestly. So a man need to do all these just to keep his so called wife happy


See, I am happily married, and before I married my heartthrob, I made sure she understood me in and out. She knows I am not a fan of sex, I do it for doing sake. She knows and she is fine with it from beginning. If she decides to cheat because she need a horse to ride her, that's her cup of tea oh but let her pray I don't catch her or find out; she knows I am a tech guy and she is 247 under surveillance, so whatever she does I will find out. If she cheats and I catch her, that's the end no forgiveness for cheating in my book.

She knew my sexual strength and passion before we married and she was fine with it and I cannot put any other effort sexually to please her, other things I will do, but I cannot kill myself trying to please a woman sexually, guys don't kill yourself in an effort to please a sex maniac; if its 5 minutes u can do, do it and get off and face your life, don't die to please any woman cos if you die she will continue where u stopped

We blacks worry so much about sex, sex sex. Few minutes nonsense. Before you marry anybody know their sexual strength and decide if u can bear it.

Global economy is under attack and black Nigerians are busy worrying about sex and styles

As for the op, you sound like those sex maniacs who eat sex like food, and your type do wear your woman out with excessive sex, you better slow down because sex involves energy.

If you cannot tolerate her sex denials, tell her point black that you want separation and be serious about it.

Life is simple you guys should stop complicating it already.

We have Buhari and his evil government to worry about not all these bedroom nonsense

Bro...5min small ooo.


But you are actually on point..I am marvel when I see guys brag of doing 3,4 round at ago.
. I hardly do 2 round.. trust me, they enjoyed it to the fullest ( I am not exaggerating) may be because I understand the game because I don't take romance lightly...if you a guy think leaking plate is dirty.. I say to you.. you are yet to enjoy Life



I wonder the purpose of coming to Life without exploring woman body

I stand to be corrected anyway

Viking007:
Fake story.

Believe the unimaginable..

AwkaetitiBabe:
It cannot be described with any known language.

Bravo.. the true words never be spoken

If you know you know

Lordswazz:
Just as women won't tolerate a broke man, a well-to-do man should not tolerate being sex-starved by his wife. The average comfortable man is a woman magnet. If you can't use it to get as much sex as you want from willing and younger girls, and rather wait for anytime heaven touches your wife to bless your luck, you go die for konji. I am tired of men with ample means complaining of being sex-starved and having blue balls.

No wonder unmarried lovers have more sex on average than married people. Go out and get your fill my brother. The world is at the feet of any man who has means and knows how to use it. Just stay away from prostitutes sha.

You have a very good point bro.. it's Man world but e be like say you never meet cute and responsible prostitute...as a matter of fact.all woman na prostitute only in different form...even so called house wife


If you know you know..

chriskosherbal:
Let me share my little thought on this :. Now there is NO woman that don't like sex, however three things can make a woman dislike sex.

1. She is a virgin ...you can't simply like what you have not eaten, no matter how good a soup smells, you still have to taste it to determine if it's sweet or not.

2. Rape/ Bad sexual event of the past: This can make any woman dislike sex, cos it's just keep reminding her of what she is trying to forget .

3. Below Par performance from her spouse: This is one of the major cause why many married women rejects sexual calls from thier below par performance hubby, and get it outside, these below reasons can further butress the above

3(a) he is faced with constant quick ejaculation and weak erection ....popularly known as the indomie men.

3(b)lack a good understanding of sex as well as thier spouses core areas of sexual pleasure, these men even if they last in bed don't really know how to manipulate thier way ( in terms of skills & positioning) through the woman's virgina bringing about the desired orgasm that she seek.

Be that as it may, sticking to point 3, a woman should be able to communicate with her hubby if she is not getting it properly and tell him what to do per time before, during and after sexual intercourse.

However, op with statement like this coming from your wife..."Always giving excuses. At night, Am tired. In d morning, go work abeg others have left and making money and it here looking for who to ram." am sorry op I doubt if she loves you deeply.

Op do this ..

- ignore her for sometime, I mean avoid being too needy sexually, just pretend you don't need it anymore & put up a smiling face while doing it ...watch her reactions for sometime.

- op, for God sake can you allow her do the buying of those food items herself, it's like you are spoiling her, she sees herself as the price..she maybe feeling like queen of England ( of course she is Queen, no disrespect).

- Deliberately delay the upkeep money you give to her all the time, making up some excuses for it, and reduce the attention and hype you give to her.

- spoil yourself a little, change your fashion sense abit, wear sneakers, neat jeans, t-shirts, knickers with sneakers, get perfumes that smell well...just look more polished ...nice gold chains ..let her feel Jealous that anoda woman might steal you outside .


If she does not respond to the above after a period of time ...then op am sorry She ain't love you.

You mean a virgin don't have aexual urge?
Do your research again bro

franchasng:
You have a point but not entirely true.

Financial freedom gives a guy confidence, and it is your level of confidence as a man that increases your sex appeal to ladies.

He needs his confidence to attract or win his desired lady or ladies as the case may be.


When we talk about a guy focusing on making money and improving his financial life first before going after ladies, it is not for him to have money to be spending and squandering on ladies no, it is for his own good, to give him enough confidence and self esteem to attract or pursued his desired lady.

The op need to focus on improving his financial life so he can make good use of his little resources and abundant time to create wealth.

Bravo!

Woman!... what a mysterious creature

tevanso:
lol, my oga don vex o. longest time boss .

Not at all..no mind me jare

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I guess you should be sorry for yourself instead,

StacyO:
It is ocean

It's hoe

bukatyne:
How can a guy play hard to get when he is the one chasing?

Advice him to develop self-respect and have a good dose of self-esteem.

I wonder ooo

Classyuniquebae:
I stand to be corrected . Thank you !

Uwc girl..

Juliearth:
Free thinker and spiritual at the same time? Now, I am confused, bro.

I agree with you on defining our differences as I am in the process of defining a beautiful niche for myself.

I wish you strength in your endeavours girl..I just hope you are still less than 30 or so..that may make it easier for you..and above all you are yet to emotional attached to one nigga


Now, back to first response, Well, I will say many things that you may not understand.Like I said earlier Many fundamental idea about spiritual and Religion is wrong! Take it or leave it girl.
Tell me: how can you remove free thinking process from spiritual?. You expect me at this 2020 I should swallow all what Bible says?..not asking myself fundamental questions to get clarity.

My dear sister, just live a basic good standard... But for me..I got to know what I am doing

Juliearth:
Intuition, gut feeling and discernment mean the same thing, don't they?



I understand the plea for women to be independent and I am sure a host of other ladies out here do too. However, the same society that frowns at women being overly dependent would still frown at women who are doing well for themselves. I invariably, have come to terms with this reality and I am doing me, not for the purpose of validation by the society, but for my own satisfaction...and if another woman's definition of suiting herself means her being dependent and a leech, I won't tag her lazy. To each, his own!

Well, your happiness is in your hands..hence no excuse what society says

You see ,world has changed and will continue to transform...we are now in a new era.. information age.. It's high time we define our individual differences..to develop mind of our own.. else we tend to live a confused life because some basic assumptions is errors and illogical hence not fitted for modern Man lifestyle.


Note: I am free thinker and spiritual to the core. I think but don't follow the crowd

onwuakpachris:
u don't even need 2 play hard to get...that's a girlish thing...just be deliberately unpredictable and av an aura of "mystery" abt u wen dealing wit women... women love mystery...they admire nd also fear mysterious men at d same time..when u always predictable nd common..u will always appear boring nd weak 2 them..hence easily manipulated by dem..but wen u are always unpredictable nd somewhat mysterious.. u will always hear stuffs like "I don't even understand u a bit" nd "u scare me sometimes" from dem(heard those so many times from girls I'v dated )..if u also handsome(dats an added advantage)..then if u handsome nd also comfortable..not even rich per say(that's a double double o..my man na u go tire sef)..Lol..

You will go far in Life regarding lady's matter... Trust me!

ednut1:
Only works if u fine or get money

Yeah you are right.. but I say to you..you will only attract trash... like I said earlier no lady dare to approach me yet I go to any length to get what I need


Either I am handsome or rich may be left to sleep..

Randy100:
LOL. I am not here to brag about how many prey I have caught but it is quite big sha. Sometimes, a lion can get hurt in hunting, so, a lion must hunt with sense.

Are you in Lagos.. abeg chat me up on WhatsApp..we must have someone in common
It actually takes a brave heart to hunt

But note this please: Not every lady deserve this privileged and I value your last statement...it takes a good sense to deduce

Randy100:
Your advise is like telling a lion to quit hunting prey. Not possible. A man is made with testosterone to hunt women and bed them to either keep it or move to another prey. It is so with every other animal, the cock has to chase the hen, the he goat has to mount the she goat by force and so on. Allow the women to do the hard to get, we actually enjoy it. Thank you.

Give this guy a cattle of origin


Blunt truth though... it's men world to hunt and explore... proofing hard to hunt or give lady attention?..I don't get it

Let me give you a clue..as a bad nigga..no lady dare to approach me no matter how attractive I appear to you ..give green light in vain I don't care..But trust me,If I want you..you can't escape..I know what I want and I got strategy to get it..I am guy of taste

Squirrel01:
The format you are using to address them is outdated and old fashioned. Nothing real exist here, there are many out there in the real world who need your sermon,save if for them. Peace.

I repeat.. respect yourself mister...I did not address you.. Get your self busy


You may contact me if you need labour work at site...I have many of you.

Squirrel01:
I'm a nigga.

So learn to respect yourself Sir on faceless forum.. Besides,I am addressing lady exclusively

Squirrel01:
This format won't work. Already expired, look for another strategy.

Oh I laughed in Spanish

For your mind u don see nice guy who wan date u...Well , I don't blame u because we are in faceless forum no one knows whose

Wish you best of luck girl

Juliearth:
Spiritual? Well, if you call it so, its still fine by me...we can also finetune it to being the spirit of discernment.

Nice one girl...I fancy your good degree of understanding

But let's put it in another dimension.. what you called discernment is actually intuition...Do your research from the history of mankind and you will discover woman are more richer in this than Man.. although man has it too but to a reasonable degree.

I wish to help all lady in the house..

- To start with resist the trandinon, religion or society believe that you entitlement to men money.. please try to develop a sense of independence by provide basic need just for yourself this may sound harsh but it's blunt true... the reason being this so called men will take advantage of you.. even so called maga have target not to talk of smart guy


-You see, their is a force operating in the universe that govern our thinking... endeavour to guide how you think, keep it pure as much as possible
-You are what you attract.Nothing else!. Develop your self esteem financially and morally first then good man will come automatically

Anyone that wish for more may chat me on WhatsApp..see my contact below....My primary purpose in life is to give ...


Note:I am Architect by profession based in Lagos

I wish you guys best of luck!

Davesaves:
Pls connect me to her.. Pls. If all this things u stated here are true.. pls I want to meet her. I'm for real

From the way this lady in question was described and the way you spoke.... assuming you are for real and ready to marry this lady... You are already enslaved to her because it takes a real Man to handle such a lady



I am afraid to say you are far from such bro

I am really sorry for being blunt bro.. Accept my apolo!ogy!

ACE1010:
Most women are ignorant about it, they just believe its a normal thing that men lust after their body

Trust me.. they derived satisfaction in that....a path to their doom!

DonroxyII:
Attimes it is not as if the dudes ain't available but how many lady are ready to stay with a dude till he break through and for one successful all in all guy, there are like 200 ladies available for him and among the 200 ladies like 20 are first class well graded woman ... now he get confused on who to finally roll with .......

He is the only one you are seeing because he is d only one that fit the taste , but he has like other 19 girls that fit his taste and if you miss him, it will take eon time to nabbed another one like him while he will just move to the next graded girl !

The real problem with some ladies is taste and that "Cross-Qualities" they are looking for in a man .......Another problem is approach, how many ladies have the courage to beat the societal norms of toasting a guy that fit their taste .... You will wait for him to make d move , a move that he might never make .... e no easy !

The present society is not easy for most men to quickly breakthrough and some that breakthrough can not even add head or tail together ..... I.e. They don't have structure and they don't like being challenged .... if you ask a guy where do u see urself in five years, he fit vex for you ..... Change am for you .... simple question ... U will hear ur wahala too much, my exes don't ask me silly questions .... u be God ni


I used to say this, it is difficult for a woman of substance to get married these days because many guys around are fvckboys and most that are not fvckboys have fallen below the economic indices of well being .... They have the brain but the system keep fvcking them!


Those men that are above economic indices of well being and clearly defined in terms of:


moral Principle/Godliness:

Philosophy of Life:

Versatility:

Romantic:

Physical Appearance (Dark, Tall, Packed, Beards),

Career (Academic and Professional) and

Financially loaded .....

Your friend loves the above qualities , you love the above qualities and most graded ladies love the above qualities .....

Unfortunately, Such a man is fiercely competed for by ladies. Even when he is married .... He is a toast of highly graded ladies infact 10 ladies are ready to be his baby mama and make him their baby daddy .......

They don't want his money but his bloodlines ..... Even the married women in his office or neighbourhood are all salivating him because most of them don't get to enjoy such from their husband ....


Now, How many guys have such qualities ??

How many ladies want such qualities

and How many ladies are ready to wait for a guy to develop such qualities over time ......

I now read on Twitter, If he has potential but not yet made , Drop his a.ss ... na who potential help

Most ladies will manage what the society have to offer and if you don't wanna manage .... just stay unmarried ...

Every weekend Marriage occurs but how many happy homes do we have in Nigeria ..... Aisha Buhari self is not an Happy woman in her matrimonial home .... It was Mamman now na Garba Shehu

You seem to have high level of intelligence..u must be a street guy..

Classyuniquebae:
Yes she is Igbo . From Anambra to be precise. I need her permission to do so and I don't know how she would feel if she finds out about this( I mean writing about her on this forum)

She might accuse me of terming her situation a spiritual one . Lol. Let me find a way around this first.

Trust me..a smart guy will take advantage of this vital information... you have exposed her personality... and that is against her especially from any guy here... unless with an average intelligent guy... Somehow.I know you before I make move hence have an edge...


Please take this as a guide for her:
As a student, she has a long way to go hence she should not appear desperate to date or marry... trust me, your friend is epitome of God gift the way you describe her... how I wish I knew her (abeg I get such ladies at fingers tip...so that's not my problem)
She should maintain a high level of discipline and strictness by resisting the overwhelming attention from this lusting animal... otherwise I can see her future doom..I am talking from experience girl...I understand the psychology of lady to a greater degree... You see, God don't make mistake especially by creating some special body and attributes for such a lady..ask yourself..who did urgly created lady offend?.... Naturally endowed lady is God gift to humanity and they were expected to respect that God gifts and not to succumb to Man pressure.. they have no excuse.

Above all, I assume she is financially independent..she should not expect to get financial help from Man.. else she has lost the battle from the onset


I rest my case!

Juliearth:
Is it spiritual? I think it has to do partly with the vibes the ladies give, their inability to trust their instincts, amongst other reasons, but definitely not spiritual.

That very instinct you mentioned is actually the meaning of spiritual... nothing else!
You develop it hence you develop spiritually...hence you have a guiding angel



Such is the secret of lady that got it right by making right such...as woman possess it abundantly by nature.. Trust me?