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BecaciaBarbie:
Wow! I could remember opening a thread here many years ago as a new member here, telling everyone about my virginity status...I was bashed so much, I quickly begged the mods to delete the thread of over 30 pages filled with insults. People are scared to talk about their status today, to avoid being mocked or making the other person feel bad...which I understand really, but the truth is keeping yourself till your wedding night is the wisest thing to do. Forget all the stories you read online, God is the ultimate and you shouldn't please man to displease God, neither should you please your flesh. Just imagine how it would feel like, having sex for the first time on your wedding night....you know the excitement to have sex without being scared of all those things that comes with pre-marital sex is out of this world. This life would be a much better place, if ladies closed their legs.

Bravo!

CapitalHYC:
.. Fear women than you fear the devil

Yeah.because they were not far from the devil

Hmmm

dave4rella:


MY fiancee asked me out for good two years

While I was toying with her feelings with other girls
She kept pushing, before I realized she's the one for me.
I wonder what gave her the strength
I promise never to cheat or take her for granted
God bless you my gift.
I will always love and cherish you with everything in me

We are in the same shoe..but she rather gave me green light and I decode being a sharp guy but as normal Lady of value does..she change am for me by being hard to get... but trust me.. I know wetin I want

SlayWise:
The way we hype pussy as if woman no de enjoy dick de pain me. No wonder women de always play victims

A bottle of Star!

Noted

SimeonOTC:
a billion and one percent sure sir.

Bravo!


I wish you nothing but strength in your struggles against yourself...like I used to say...No enemy elsewhere but within!

kittykollinxx:
Your enemy is devil and your flesh

I hope you understand my expression.... when I said no enemy elsewhere.... I literally said we human being i.e our flesh is our enemy

No more..no less!

Finallydead:
Thnx bro. Im however not in need of help in thisby His grace. Check my other replies to brothers on this thread, ive said something similar to what you just said somewhere, but im speaking in general for believers in need of help.

Oh.. Congratulations!

Finallydead:
Not long tori at all. Bro you've already done better than OP. You've listed some practical points at least. So we can say it this way too. The principle is persistence/perseverance in what you've outlined. Building up spiritual strength and capacity requires consistency in spiritual exercise(prayer, fasting, and meditating on the word) in the face of seeming failures and unceasing showing up of the flesh again and again. If you stick to your spiritual exercise, eventually you would awaken your inner man and he will rise and overcome the outer man/flesh. However, most men don't know and they quit their spiritual exercise before their spirit is unlocked to rise to the occasion.

Bro, let me help you... take it or leave it You only have to focus on just one focal point and I assured you that's the secret of strength and grace.







Channel all your energy on your thoughts process... endeavours to keep it pure. Trust me.You will receive invisible help

SimeonOTC:
bro Overcoming sexual sin is not easy cux even the bible nvr told us to fight against it but to FLEEE!! 1st corithians 6vs18, 2nd timothy 2vs22 both started with "FLEE"..

the only few and well known working solution is

* Start changing and working on your mindset (especially the way one's think)

* Study the word of God and Pray (VERY VERY IMPORTANT)..
the devil, or any kind of immoral spirit or thought are not afraid of one going to church or praying 2.4.7, they are only afraid of one's knowing the word of God, i swear bro, they are dam scared of the word of God, they cant stand it..How

take a look at this short description / explanation;

Jesus said in the book luke 11vs24 "that when an evil spirit leaves a person (they become disembodied spirit) , it travels through the arid(desert) region looking for where/who (human body) to settle on,and when they dnt see any, they go back to the body they left and when they see the host has been cleaned, they go back an invite 7 extra demon".

bro, this things happen when one masturbate, especially when one wants to stop masturbation.
after chasing the sexual urge with the word of God, it comes back latter, with the urge more stronger, it take the grace of God and it word to overcome it. i passing through that process and i nearly died ..but it makes me stronger, though i stil have sexual urge but they are so weak and cant pull me down cux i already defeated and came out from a stronger one.

back to God's word,

one has to know and meditate on the word like;
" my body is the temple of the holy spirit whom have receive from God and who lives in me according 1 Corinthian 6vs19, now the lord it the spirit and where the spirit of the lord is, THERE IS LIBERTY!! (blast in tongues)
he said he has given us is spirit not of timidity but of Power (2nd timothy 1vs7),
by the power vested in me by the most high, i liberate myself from any spasmodic immoral spirit that is not of God, i build a wall of defence with the blood of Jesus against them"

thirdly and lasty,

* Self discipline and self control (1st Thessalonians 5vs5-10, titus 2vs6, 1st Thessalonians 4vs4, proverb hmmmm, IN FACT, EVERY SINGLE VERS AND CHAPTER IN PROVERB)

sorry for the long tori

Bro, if you are sure all those things you wrote here is pure truth.. please WhatsApp me on(08091110234)



I have a spiritual gift for you!

kittykollinxx:
U guys treat sex as a man's worse enemy

...No enemy elsewhere


Trust me!

helinues:
Hard works do pay only when you work smart BUT there are some factors beyond our controls about reaping from that same hard work..

I called it forces.. Forces are beyond our imaginations..

Have you ever had a wonderful plans that everything seems like 100% perfect but after executing the plans, you have entirely different results

Forces are factors beyond our control.. If all dreams come true, na everybody for rich

Bravo!

wany:
Don't be deceived the men are been used. There is no love.

Bravo!

Pettyprincess:
Im talking about if she's a virgin!
You can spend on a virgin girl because you know she's keeping herself for you!!
Bt if she's sleeping with someone else nd denying you sex then it obvious she's just using you as mugu

God bless you for this statement girl

OkCornel:
The moral compass of certain people might be irreversibly broken.

> Yahoo boys
> Fraudstors on the pulpit
> Runs girls
> Drug abuse among the youths

And now this thrash up there.

Something is definitely flawed with the human nature. Especially in countries where illiteracy and ignorance reigns supreme...

Bro. You are addressing the fundamental issues..Bravo!

OlawaleBammie:
You re right in everytin u said. And @ur last sentence, yes u re right as well.. but wait...

Soo its a sin to flaunt ur affluence ba? nah.., it can only b a sin wen u use it to rob off others.


See madam, if i bcom a multibillionaire(in $$$) gbagbe, me self go rock town wella, wetin consan me consan vanity.

Since all are vanity why cant i kuku exhaust the vanity in full??

All is vanity but if u re a talaka society wil not value u, EVEN PASTOR WIL NOT PRAY HARDLY FOR U SINCE HE KNOWS U CONTRIBUTE LITTLE TO CHURCH AND HIS POCKET

All is vanity but even the Olori alufaa and the Alfas are strugling to be financially bouyant by all means.

All is vanity but omo toba mowo dele ni iya e maa yin.

Na wetin my papa talk talk talk b dat wey hin no get mansion like fayose, vy for public post and d rest

Well, tru my observation, av notice 95% of vanity upon vanity crew are professors in talakalism soo am not dat surprised.

Since i grew up and realize the hardship of living, av told my parent i dont want dem to preach vanity sermon to me again. Tank God am not even with dem soo.. wetin consan me?

E be like say u dey vex bro..

kikelomojessy:
Why would I want to share a secret, my own secret with bestie or even anyone sef? Will the person help me to undo the did? Does the person has magical powers to make me forget the pain or trauma that it gives my heart when ever I recall the incident? Well, if the person will not partake in the shame(if it's a terrible one and there is a possibility of one being publicly disgrace), pain (if I cry at night, you too must cry, have sleepless night) and death (if there is death penalty for such, will the shared die with me?)

I can't share secret, it can only remain a secret cos it hasn't been told. Will just tell, my heart and head. Awon bestie mi, stay there is nothing that I have told you that is a secret, it all just normal life ups and down.

But I can always keep yours if you can trust me. But me won't tell shit.

You possess a good degree of natural intelligence..

bisoye11:
A secrets is the pathway to answer prayers, if you can't keep secret, you can't receive anything spiritually.secret sometime doesn't mean you don't have to share, you just need to share with the right person.

Bravo!.. Good research..

euromilion:
Secret ,what secret?this's why Nigerians die quicker than others,every time you hear them talking about keeping secrets, what secret and why do you feel the need to have secrets?

What I say inside is what I say on the mountain top,nobody can blackmail me,Because I have nothing to hide.

On point!

TooMuchStuff:
Hahahahahah... !

But some of us have access to so many secrets of people around us by spiritual advantage...!

Too bad! It's not everyone that can lockup secrets from spiritually inclined fellas

Daniel and Joseph are two guys that got access to top notch secrets in the Bible. It's possible

God gives to HIS own in their sleep.. your deepest secret is normally expose to me especially if it got to do with the one that may harm me or you need my spiritual help..
Also, all this lady wey dey form.... they call it an eagle eye