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lilwetdick:
I have never seen any guy that just wake up to be tough without experencing some form of troubles

so the illusion that some boys from childhood just became tough aka alpha without some kind of personal experience is false.

The article is trash, you need to learn how men develop mentally and emotionally.

Every damn gender were untamed when growing up, it was bad experience that toughen the heart

I respect your degree of natural intelligence



Good research..

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escapefromusa:
A faulty treatise on the origins of female prostitution.

You are going deeper bro..

LordKO:
"Every man has been manipulated once or more in their life, except you want to deceive yourself." This particular statement caught my attention. Well, it's a very wrong postulation.

Personally, no woman has ever succeeded to manipulate me in life - at least, relationship-wise. Perhaps, I'm the only man who's never been used by a woman or has never suffered heartbreak in the hands of a woman before, even though whatever cause I believe in I always give my very best - manipulators have senior brothers/sisters, lol. Manipulators lose credibility, diplomats gain it - diplomats give everything without losing anything and without hurting anyone/being the direct cause of someone feeling hurt.

Meanwhile, the OP is like ubunj.a, their whole submissions can only be adored by mentally parochial/small-minded or outright insane people - neither she nor he is a master in the sphere they ventured. This doesn't take away the fact that they're brilliant individually, and it's common sense that their submissions contain/will contain some truths - irrespective of how tactless and parochial they're - since they're human beings. That a submission is tactless doesn't automatically make it a truth - conceit is god's gift to small-minded people. The mechanism of neutralizing whatever they teach, irrespective of the volume, is the same (for both genders) and simple for every discerning person.

On the other hand, the biggest dummy ever sold to women is that they're smarter than men - whereas what's true is that most women are quick to take to hypocritical disingenuousness, the major hallmark and cheapest working tool of small-minded men and women. Don't mistake hypocritical disingenuousness for smartness. My point in this regard is that, smartness (or cleverness) isn't gender exclusive - I doff my hat for all women, irrespective of their intellectual capacity/intelligence quotient and ethical leanings.

When I look around, I see wannabe/pseudo strong/independent (smart, wise and strong-minded) men and women - toxic elements.

Let love rule. Love is real. Love is the greatest thing in this world. Goodness (love and submissiveness) isn't a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength - it takes a real strong human being to love/to be submissive.

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Martinez39:
Lol. Do you live on Mars or Neptune? I want to see your teacher and parents if you really don't know that no one believes this trash. Men and women know that true power lies in money and strong political/royal positions and the likes. Donald Trump is more powerful than John Cena because he can get more important things done and he has control of important stuff. I don't know in which universe is physical strength seen as true power today. No one thinks men are superior to women. Society is now secular and gender equality is an integral part of the constitution of many countries. So which men and women think men are superior because men have more physical strength? It would spark an outrage anywhere if a man says women are inferior. Are you sure you reside on Earth?

All are beneath man for the same reason man is the only animal to build very advanced societies and have gotten to a level where they have the tools to drive to extinction the beasts you listed that are stronger than man. I know you are driving at intelligence.

In men, the average weight is about 1370g and in women, about 1200g. This is a simple scientific fact you could have just googled. You have a feminist bias and want to score some cheap points against the male gender and then proudly wave your feminists flag of woman supremacy and woman power in your trademark ego. Even if we agree that intelligence is true power, then you will have to give it to men because throughout history they have dominated when it comes to arts, science, engineering, strength and literature. The Nobel Prize winners in science and literature have been predominantly men by many miles.

However, by our capitalist world, mere intelligence is not power except when it generates wealth. Your secondary school teacher that knows advanced mathematics in and out is not as powerful as Dangote.

As I have said, I don't what planet you reside in. Which men are you talking about? Which women are you talking about? I know many females will come to support you because their feelings agree with you and you are all like that. Evidence speaks for themselves. Men dominate when it comes to scientific, artistic, and literary achievements. Prove me wrong. No society can stand and last long without strong and masculine men. There are smart women, there are dull women. There are smart men, there are dull men.

No doubt, emotions and sexual arousal are big blows to many men's logic. However, testosterone plays many important roles in male development. Women too have their faults. Women, in general, are more emotional and tend to tow the path of least resistance in the course of life. There are few exceptions.

This is not true. Wanting to experience thrills and even adventures and challenges are common to both male and female. The male and female brains both have dopamine and both are designed to get hooked on behaviours and substances that cause a surge of dopamine. Men and women have been victims of junk food addiction, porn addiction, masturbating compulsively, drugs and alcohol abuse etc. By the way, men tend to do more sports than women because, thanks to testosterone, they can build the muscles and physical strength suited for sports. Men are better at sports and they competitive on an intensive and higher level compared to women. Also, men's sports are more successful and widely followed and watched by both men and women than women's sports by a million miles.

In the US, average male athletes who cannot dream of achieving excellence in the male categories become transgender women, participate in women's sport, and top of the women they face. These transgender athletes even shatter female records with ease.

I knew you were a feminist. Feminists will always hate men even if men sacrificed themselves in time of war to keep them safe. So you admit that feminists are out to manipulate?

So you admit that when it comes to reasoning, men outdo women? By your feminist standards, is this sexist?

Good to see the mission to manipulate men but this is wrong. Are footballers, body builders, basketball players, etc. easier to manipulate than men who don't play sports? Men get manipulated when they are simps. Once they become redpilled, they can't be manipulated regardless of whether they play sports or not, or whether they watch zeeworld or not.

Only feasible with simps.


A men who doesn't take the bait is a redpilled man. It's really funny to see a topic like this and see females supporting it. These are the very females that would scream at ubunja and myself when we discuss female manipulation. These are the females that would bug you with "there are good women out there and not every woman is like that". Hehe, a leopard can't change it's spot.




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Sandra8:
Kisses dear

Sandra.. I observed you Just registered on nairaland on Sunday and I can see many passion in you for Man considering the volume of your topic
Well,I did admire your passion..





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I guess you are lady in Man heart...


I am curious girl.
-what is profession?
-what is your philosophy of Life?

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Bravo!

Mryacks:
Makes sense, your view.

To the point of correction: personal view simply means personal opinion... their is a thin line between opinion and fact




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He stated nothing but raw fact!

Pascopele:
In my opinion, "the male ego" determines the degree of power a man perceives and believes himself to possess. If he has a strong ego--he sees himself as strong and powerful. Conversely, if he has a weak ego, he sees himself as weak and powerless.

I have learned that there are Five Basic Needs all males must have continuously "reinforced" in order to feel powerful:

1) the need to be recognized as a special person.
2) the need to "travel light" without feeling a loss of personal freedom.
3) the need for loyalty from others.
4) the need to be close emotionally with satisfying sexual unions.
5) the need to work successfully-- since the male's personal identity is directly tied to the occupation he chooses for himself.

I learned about these basic needs through long years of reading, observation, education, experience, trial and error. And I've noticed many examples of widely spread social problems resulting from weak male egos.

I was enlightened by a very astute and honest male friend who told me during an internet chat one evening that all men measure themselves through the eyes, smiles, and words of the women they know and/or love. He said, "We are what you believe us to be. Men are made by women."

And, interestingly, after learning these simple truths about the male ego's basic needs, it occurred to me that I had these same needs, too. I discovered that "the ego" is gender neutral and directly attributed to one's self-image as a strong or weak person. Males and females are different in many ways biologically--but the same in mind and soul. That old cliché, "What's good for the gander is good for the goose" is very true, in my 66 years of human experience.

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You have done a wonderful research ma.Bravo!

LillyVal:
The male ego is driven by recognition, attention, and action. Men are assumed to be more active beings who do important things (such as political leaders, soldiers, scientists, etc.) and who are deserving of attention by others. In this vision of the male ego, men are driven by their physical strength, sex drive, and evolutionary biology as competitors for female attention to be competitive, to strive for greatness and power, and to avoid showing any emotion and weakness. For example, in most Nigeria communities, the male gender role is typically understood and described in active as opposed to passive terms. Men are courageous, strong, competitive, independent, and stable (in contrast, women are passive, emotional, weak, and more socially-oriented). To give another example, men in many communities in Nigeria are expected to avoid showing emotion. Remember the old saying "boys don't cry?" Instead, men are supposed to be macho and strong in the face of personal challenges, such as loss, grief, and sadness

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Ejykesantus:
Truth must be told. Sexual urges are not ordinary, and requires an extra ordinary effort/power to deal with. And the only way to deal with this is through the knowledge of the word of God not in words but in deed. The spirit behind sex is a powerful one indeed, and if not handled with all sense of diligent and discipline, would mar ones destiny instead of make it. A lot of destinies have been shattered because of this act-premarital and post marital sex. It is powerful as a lot of spiritual exchange takes place during the act that resulting in what is called SOUL TIE, which takes only the grace of God to break out from upon serious and sincere repentance of victim

Sex urges can only be completely handled through the power of God. WHY?. God is spirit and it takes spiritual power to fight spiritual battles and nothing more or less.

How can the knowledge of God helps someone in this regard? .

When the urge comes, it can be defeated and comfortably quench by countering every of its evil undertone by the word of God otherwise, the victim is moved to act in that direction, and the aftermath is regret.

So the word of God helps us to discipline our self in every situation so that we are not move by sight but by conviction of the right and wise act.

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