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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Pusyiter(m): 5:04pm On Jan 11
Hmmmm....when the you in you speaks.....
Y'all listen
XhosaNostra:
It's really not that difficult. After every break up I usually lose interest in sex for years at a time. I don't know why but it takes a certain type of man to spark up that side of me. If I don't meet someone that feels right, I remain celibate for however long it takes, without feeling like l'm missing out on anything. Instead I feel pure physically & spiritually, that can be addictive. Sex does take something out of you, I'm beginning to suspect. Because when I'm in one of my dry spells, I'm almost psychic grin
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by garfield1: 5:07pm On Jan 11
Pusyiter:
Hmmmm....when the you in you speaks.....
Y'all listen
Help me sir.my son is dying in the hospital.nothing is too small sir.

Uba 2088308843
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Abcruz(m): 5:31pm On Jan 11
Okoroawusa:

Taaaa!


Carry ur Jesus n shove it where the sun doesn't shine

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.--proverbs 14:12

Listen, my son, accept what I say, and you will have a long, good life.--proverbs 4:10
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Okoroawusa: 5:41pm On Jan 11
Abcruz:


There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.--proverbs 14:12

Listen, my son, accept what I say, and you will have a long, good life.--proverbs 4:10
Guy,respect yourself
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by WORLDPEACE(m): 6:49pm On Jan 11
XhosaNostra:
It's really not that difficult. After every break up I usually lose interest in sex for years at a time. I don't know why but it takes a certain type of man to spark up that side of me. If I don't meet someone that feels right, I remain celibate for however long it takes, without feeling like l'm missing out on anything. Instead I feel pure physically & spiritually, that can be addictive. Sex does take something out of you, I'm beginning to suspect. Because when I'm in one of my dry spells, I'm almost psychic grin

Maybe you should enter a convent. Lol
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Afonjas: 7:40pm On Jan 11
donvoice:


Thank you sir



You're welcome
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:42pm On Jan 11
WORLDPEACE:


Maybe you should enter a convent. Lol

With my borehole? grin

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Tundexxy(m): 7:42pm On Jan 11
Toluensdollars:
No one can deny d fact that they gets turned on some times, buh these is what i do and its been helping me in d last 4 years since have been single and no actual date yet when am gonna get anyone for myself again. Each time i get turned on, i sit down somewhere, avoid having any communication with any lady, kip calm and remain silent. and if it isn't working like maybe d heat if it is getting to me, i just go to bed and sleep

Can this be true?

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Tundexxy(m): 7:44pm On Jan 11
ike007:
Get busy trying to make money and overwork as toget tired at the end of the day or, get a video game and look for good game genre and play.

What if you got home early from work & no light?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Tundexxy(m): 7:47pm On Jan 11
optimusprime2:
I trek from Antwerpen to St-Truiden... grin

Gamblers spotted

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by WORLDPEACE(m): 7:49pm On Jan 11
XhosaNostra:


With my borehole? grin

After a borehole is drilled, if it is not maintained, it closes up.

You'll be fine there. Trust me, I know these things.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Emmanuelempire(m): 8:19pm On Jan 11
Toks2008:


◄ 1 Corinthians 7:9 ►
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.


Now if you marry and you still have issues with your sex life then it is a problem you may have to fix with your spouse.


I surrender �
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Tundexxy(m): 8:26pm On Jan 11
litaninja:
Simple. By having sex.
Its a natural law, you're supposed to have sex to keep the species alive. Leave all that religious mumbo jumbo biko...



Na them dey masturbate die
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Divinerace(m): 10:15pm On Jan 11
Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Feranmicharless: 12:04pm On Jan 12
Bamz:


Bobo yi sha cheesy

It's only an idle mind that gives space to all kinds of frivolous thoughts. This isn't about religion.

While the feeling is natural, I doubt if one would yield to sexual urges if they don't have ample time for such in their lives.

Get busy with your life mate.
get the joke and leave out the seriousness smiley
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Freehuman: 3:29pm On Jan 12
The reality is that in Africa we actually live our lives to please people that do not matter and in most cases entities that may not exist. We believe what we are told and disregard empiricism( looking around our society and understanding what works for us and how life works in general). The Op in a developed society would ask "How do I control my libido?" or " How do I live a healthy sexual life devoid of over indulgence in sex?"

Biology is actually older than religion . The former dates back to more than a million years and the latter is just 6000 years old. The point I'm trying to make here is that your body is older than religion because living things produce their kind and your first kind predates religion . Apart from the above, you are not born with religion but you are born into religion and therefore your religion is a product of the background of your upbringing. That is why a christian baby adopted by Moslem couples will grow up a Moslem no matter what Church claimed that the Christian God made the biological mother of the Child pregnant . These scenarios may buttress my point.

1. Humans are born with hair on their heads but Deeper Life Church prevents men from keeping long hair because it is evil.
If a god did not want men to keep long hair why did he give them long hair?
2. A Male Human is born with foreskin on his joystick but if he circumcises he becomes God's own.
If a god did not want a man to keep his joystick foreskin why give the man the foreskin?

3. If Jehovah Witnesses do not marry outside their faith because Jehovah isn't pleased why does Jehovah not prevent their women from getting pregnant when they have sexual intercourse outside wedlock?

4.Man was born with libido and sexual urge but if he exercises it out of marriage he is doomed.
Why does the doom not come instantly ? Why is the man not dead, mad or the issue gotten from such intercourse disabled or still at birth?

There is only one answer to the above questions and it is that no God ever made those rules, those rules were made by men to mentally enslave people. A religiously dogmatic person will prefer " You will rot in hell if you keep long hair" to "long hair will make you look like a female" or " long hair without regular care is not hygienic". A religious extremist will prefer " you will rot in hell if you have sex without getting married" to " you may have problem with paternal identity, sexually transmitted diseases and problems of raising a family if pregnancy occurs when you do not have a regulated partner." Inter faith marriage and circumcision are just to preserve identity like the Yoruba tribal marks but to enforce strict compliance it must be labelled "God's will".

Now let's do this. I'll name 2 greatest of all times who are currently in the top 5 of their respective professions who had sex without being married.

Tech CEOs(Billionaires)
1. Jeff Bezos- Surprisingly he surpassed Bill Gates to become the richest man in the world during the period he engaged in extra marital affairs with a married Journalist.
2. Mark Zukerberg- He rented an apartment in Silicon valley, Carlifornia and Chan, whom he met at a college night party and would later become his wife, moved into the apartment for the purpose of cohabitation. He owns Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp where religious fanatics broadcast that sex before marriage brings damnation.

Footballers:
1.Lionel Messi- Had 2 kids before getting married.
2. Christiano Ronaldo- I don't need to talk about him.

Boxers:
1.Floyd Mayweather- Has a lot of children out of wedlock.
2.Anthony Joshua- Has a son with a Yoga trainer.

Most Powerful women in the world:
1.Oprah Winfrey- Had sexual relationships and even a child as an under 18. Once richest black woman and currently mentioned as the most powerful black woman in the world .
2. Meghan Merkel - I do not need to talk about the past of the most talked about royal family member in the United Kingdom.

Presidents of the United States of America:
1. Bill Clinton: Had a sexual relationship a staff in the oval office.
2. Donald Trump - I do not need to talk about him. He has even been linked to a porn actress.

Nigerian Musicians:
1. Davido
2. Wizkid.

I do not need to mention " The Clergy" because they will always hide their lifestyles to prove what they preach.
I mixed this reply with religion and society because the only reason a person can ask this question is if he is afraid of some kind of misery that may come as a result of sex.

Food , water , sleep and sex are needs that every human being and animal craves for. Even lower animals find a way to get Food , water , sleep and sex when they have urge to get those. But for higher animals, human beings ,it goes this way:

(All humans)Urge for food - Get something healthy to eat.

(All humans) Urge for water - Get something (liquid) clean and healthy to drink.

(All humans) Urge for Sleep - Find somewhere calm , peaceful and less noisy to sleep.

(All humans) Urge for sex - Different opinions

(Rational humans) Urge for Sex - Relieve yourself from stress and enjoy protected sex (including safe masturbation) with medically accepted practices.

(Irrational Humans) Urge for sex - Read an ancient book, don't look at women again, go and make money, think about what others have achieved.

Singing hymns , bible reading and fasting can also make one avoid food (fasting) , water (dry fasting) and sleep(vigil/ tarry night) for even a week if one is willing but never cures the urge to enjoy those naturals. One will still enjoy them later and when he does he will crave those in extreme. Asking how to desist from satisfying a natural urge is a self imposed ignorance and you alone can free yourself.

The only remedy for sexual urge is sex.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by GreatAchiever1: 6:52pm On Jan 12
franklingud:

Ask God?
What is this one talking about?

That's when you will see temptations.

God cannot give you self control rather you control yourself.



Best advice is to CHASE MONEY

I guess u misunderstood me, what i meant was to ask for the fruit of the spirit according to galatians 5:22 .

If na temptations it must come as long as u dey alive.

I dont see how chasing money control ones urge.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toluensdollars(m): 12:01am On Jan 13
Tundexxy:

Can this be true?
That's d truth bro
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 3:03pm On Jan 13
Freehuman:
The reality is that in Africa we actually live our lives to please people that do not matter and in most cases entities that may not exist. We believe what we are told and disregard empiricism( looking around our society and understanding what works for us and how life works in general). The Op in a developed society would ask "How do I control my libido?" or " How do I live a healthy sexual life devoid of over indulgence in sex?"

Biology is actually older than religion . The former dates back to more than a million years and the latter is just 6000 years old. The point I'm trying to make here is that your body is older than religion because living things produce their kind and your first kind predates religion . Apart from the above, you are not born with religion but you are born into religion and therefore your religion is a product of the background of your upbringing. That is why a christian baby adopted by Moslem couples will grow up a Moslem no matter what Church claimed that the Christian God made the biological mother of the Child pregnant . These scenarios may buttress my point.

1. Humans are born with hair on their heads but Deeper Life Church prevents men from keeping long hair because it is evil.
If a god did not want men to keep long hair why did he give them long hair?
2. A Male Human is born with foreskin on his joystick but if he circumcises he becomes God's own.
If a god did not want a man to keep his joystick foreskin why give the man the foreskin?

3. If Jehovah Witnesses do not marry outside their faith because Jehovah isn't pleased why does Jehovah not prevent their women from getting pregnant when they have sexual intercourse outside wedlock?

4.Man was born with libido and sexual urge but if he exercises it out of marriage he is doomed.
Why does the doom not come instantly ? Why is the man not dead, mad or the issue gotten from such intercourse disabled or still at birth?

There is only one answer to the above questions and it is that no God ever made those rules, those rules were made by men to mentally enslave people. A religiously dogmatic person will prefer " You will rot in hell if you keep long hair" to "long hair will make you look like a female" or " long hair without regular care is not hygienic". A religious extremist will prefer " you will rot in hell if you have sex without getting married" to " you may have problem with paternal identity, sexually transmitted diseases and problems of raising a family if pregnancy occurs when you do not have a regulated partner." Inter faith marriage and circumcision are just to preserve identity like the Yoruba tribal marks but to enforce strict compliance it must be labelled "God's will".

Now let's do this. I'll name 2 greatest of all times who are currently in the top 5 of their respective professions who had sex without being married.

Tech CEOs(Billionaires)
1. Jeff Bezos- Surprisingly he surpassed Bill Gates to become the richest man in the world during the period he engaged in extra marital affairs with a married Journalist.
2. Mark Zukerberg- He rented an apartment in Silicon valley, Carlifornia and Chan, whom he met at a college night party and would later become his wife, moved into the apartment for the purpose of cohabitation. He owns Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp where religious fanatics broadcast that sex before marriage brings damnation.

Footballers:
1.Lionel Messi- Had 2 kids before getting married.
2. Christiano Ronaldo- I don't need to talk about him.

Boxers:
1.Floyd Mayweather- Has a lot of children out of wedlock.
2.Anthony Joshua- Has a son with a Yoga trainer.

Most Powerful women in the world:
1.Oprah Winfrey- Had sexual relationships and even a child as an under 18. Once richest black woman and currently mentioned as the most powerful black woman in the world .
2. Meghan Merkel - I do not need to talk about the past of the most talked about royal family member in the United Kingdom.

Presidents of the United States of America:
1. Bill Clinton: Had a sexual relationship a staff in the oval office.
2. Donald Trump - I do not need to talk about him. He has even been linked to a porn actress.

Nigerian Musicians:
1. Davido
2. Wizkid.

I do not need to mention " The Clergy" because they will always hide their lifestyles to prove what they preach.
I mixed this reply with religion and society because the only reason a person can ask this question is if he is afraid of some kind of misery that may come as a result of sex.

Food , water , sleep and sex are needs that every human being and animal craves for. Even lower animals find a way to get Food , water , sleep and sex when they have urge to get those. But for higher animals, human beings ,it goes this way:

(All humans)Urge for food - Get something healthy to eat.

(All humans) Urge for water - Get something (liquid) clean and healthy to drink.

(All humans) Urge for Sleep - Find somewhere calm , peaceful and less noisy to sleep.

(All humans) Urge for sex - Different opinions

(Rational humans) Urge for Sex - Relieve yourself from stress and enjoy protected sex (including safe masturbation) with medically accepted practices.

(Irrational Humans) Urge for sex - Read an ancient book, don't look at women again, go and make money, think about what others have achieved.

Singing hymns , bible reading and fasting can also make one avoid food (fasting) , water (dry fasting) and sleep(vigil/ tarry night) for even a week if one is willing but never cures the urge to enjoy those naturals. One will still enjoy them later and when he does he will crave those in extreme. Asking how to desist from satisfying a natural urge is a self imposed ignorance and you alone can free yourself.

The only remedy for sexual urge is sex.


this is serious oo

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 4:07pm On Jan 13
Freehuman:
The reality is that in Africa we actually live our lives to please people that do not matter and in most cases entities that may not exist. We believe what we are told and disregard empiricism( looking around our society and understanding what works for us and how life works in general). The Op in a developed society would ask "How do I control my libido?" or " How do I live a healthy sexual life devoid of over indulgence in sex?"

Biology is actually older than religion . The former dates back to more than a million years and the latter is just 6000 years old. The point I'm trying to make here is that your body is older than religion because living things produce their kind and your first kind predates religion . Apart from the above, you are not born with religion but you are born into religion and therefore your religion is a product of the background of your upbringing. That is why a christian baby adopted by Moslem couples will grow up a Moslem no matter what Church claimed that the Christian God made the biological mother of the Child pregnant . These scenarios may buttress my point.

1. Humans are born with hair on their heads but Deeper Life Church prevents men from keeping long hair because it is evil.
If a god did not want men to keep long hair why did he give them long hair?
2. A Male Human is born with foreskin on his joystick but if he circumcises he becomes God's own.
If a god did not want a man to keep his joystick foreskin why give the man the foreskin?

3. If Jehovah Witnesses do not marry outside their faith because Jehovah isn't pleased why does Jehovah not prevent their women from getting pregnant when they have sexual intercourse outside wedlock?

4.Man was born with libido and sexual urge but if he exercises it out of marriage he is doomed.
Why does the doom not come instantly ? Why is the man not dead, mad or the issue gotten from such intercourse disabled or still at birth?

There is only one answer to the above questions and it is that no God ever made those rules, those rules were made by men to mentally enslave people. A religiously dogmatic person will prefer " You will rot in hell if you keep long hair" to "long hair will make you look like a female" or " long hair without regular care is not hygienic". A religious extremist will prefer " you will rot in hell if you have sex without getting married" to " you may have problem with paternal identity, sexually transmitted diseases and problems of raising a family if pregnancy occurs when you do not have a regulated partner." Inter faith marriage and circumcision are just to preserve identity like the Yoruba tribal marks but to enforce strict compliance it must be labelled "God's will".

Now let's do this. I'll name 2 greatest of all times who are currently in the top 5 of their respective professions who had sex without being married.

Tech CEOs(Billionaires)
1. Jeff Bezos- Surprisingly he surpassed Bill Gates to become the richest man in the world during the period he engaged in extra marital affairs with a married Journalist.
2. Mark Zukerberg- He rented an apartment in Silicon valley, Carlifornia and Chan, whom he met at a college night party and would later become his wife, moved into the apartment for the purpose of cohabitation. He owns Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp where religious fanatics broadcast that sex before marriage brings damnation.

Footballers:
1.Lionel Messi- Had 2 kids before getting married.
2. Christiano Ronaldo- I don't need to talk about him.

Boxers:
1.Floyd Mayweather- Has a lot of children out of wedlock.
2.Anthony Joshua- Has a son with a Yoga trainer.

Most Powerful women in the world:
1.Oprah Winfrey- Had sexual relationships and even a child as an under 18. Once richest black woman and currently mentioned as the most powerful black woman in the world .
2. Meghan Merkel - I do not need to talk about the past of the most talked about royal family member in the United Kingdom.

Presidents of the United States of America:
1. Bill Clinton: Had a sexual relationship a staff in the oval office.
2. Donald Trump - I do not need to talk about him. He has even been linked to a porn actress.

Nigerian Musicians:
1. Davido
2. Wizkid.

I do not need to mention " The Clergy" because they will always hide their lifestyles to prove what they preach.
I mixed this reply with religion and society because the only reason a person can ask this question is if he is afraid of some kind of misery that may come as a result of sex.

Food , water , sleep and sex are needs that every human being and animal craves for. Even lower animals find a way to get Food , water , sleep and sex when they have urge to get those. But for higher animals, human beings ,it goes this way:

(All humans)Urge for food - Get something healthy to eat.

(All humans) Urge for water - Get something (liquid) clean and healthy to drink.

(All humans) Urge for Sleep - Find somewhere calm , peaceful and less noisy to sleep.

(All humans) Urge for sex - Different opinions

(Rational humans) Urge for Sex - Relieve yourself from stress and enjoy protected sex (including safe masturbation) with medically accepted practices.

(Irrational Humans) Urge for sex - Read an ancient book, don't look at women again, go and make money, think about what others have achieved.

Singing hymns , bible reading and fasting can also make one avoid food (fasting) , water (dry fasting) and sleep(vigil/ tarry night) for even a week if one is willing but never cures the urge to enjoy those naturals. One will still enjoy them later and when he does he will crave those in extreme. Asking how to desist from satisfying a natural urge is a self imposed ignorance and you alone can free yourself.

The only remedy for sexual urge is sex.
Hahahahaha
Na wa oooo

U tried.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ike007: 1:48pm On Jan 16
Tundexxy:

What if you got home early from work & no light?
guy just jerk off
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ademola721gmai(m): 7:13pm On Jan 23
BlackSpanner:


Please you said getting married does not solve the issue. Kindly shed more light on this issue so that some of us can learn.

Thanks in advance.
Yes! Most times does not. To sum it all up and to save time. You guys better pray lack of money does not set in your union after marriage.
There is this saying that goes : if you want a woman to stop having sex with you. Get married to her. This usually occur when the kids have arrived,stress at work,yet to be achieved goals etc.

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