This shouldn't be a big issue; though there's this sense of unity when you do things like this together, but since neither of you wants to leave his or her church, then attend separate churches.

She's just like me and consider yourself lucky, cos women like us are rare. Just make sure you don't take her for granted.

That depends on you and your perception to either of the two.

A lousy guy

logistical

I can't even date a guy that can't regularly and passionately kiss me. 

Bad idea. Bother yourself not on something you might regret doing later. Cut your coat . . . unless you are looking for a 'maga'

Maybe you lack good approach when it comes to asking them out. Or why else would someone you've been friends with ignore your calls after asking her out? She could have as well told you off and asked you to maintain your platonic friendship. And unless you fail to reason along with her and she feels, "this guy again?"

still laughing

This would make sense. I've seen a lot of thread digress to personal issues.

PDP has failed. I wish I could vote.

There's nothing wrong in that, so far the teacher has nothing attached to it and unless the female student doesn't like to be addressed that way.

Keeping one's ex's pix may not be a bad idea once one is over him or her.

True. It's one in twenty.

I get it, but it's not that funny.

God's love is unquestionably the supreme. However, man can also find true love in man. I personally believe that true love does exist.  

denzel2009:

Wow, I'd like to see this movie. Which cinema is it showing?

Is this some kind of joke?
@op: stale

I don't even know you. lol

Arosa:

funny you should say that, most of the women I ever dated made the first move.

I only talked for myself.

hasyak:

some guys gentleness has part 2, so will never come to u.

Then he should let the feeling die inside of him.

It depends.

Although there are various ways to show a guy that you have interest. But I'd rather stay cool and wait for him rather than approach him or send him signals. If he really wants me, he'd put aside his gentleness and come for me.

That would mean he's not meant for me. I would feel bad, but what should I do, kill myself? Life goes on my friend.

I know with time, the feeling would fade away if I allow it. More so, I wouldn't like to destroy my matrimonial home for something that would not last. So, I'd lock up my mind to it.

Dating/courting period to the best of my knowledge is a period designed to know your supposedly future partner the more. It is a time when you get to discover your partner's strength and weakness, ability and flaws, likes and dislikes so as to learn how to tolerate each other. Not all dating/courtship leads to marriage. It is however advisable to abstain from sex(if possible) during the period, as this might lead to pregnancy and might be a bond that is uncalled for in case a partner wants to back out. Peace out!

Though it somehow feels good to get comments on threads or comments on comments, but when it turns to attacking and thereby initiating quarrels, the thread looses its essence. It is therefore necessary for we NLers to check ourselves.

April fool is only fun when it is being played right. There are so many ways to make a fool of someone without causing disaster. That was an expensive one. I love April fool and I play it without hurting anyone.

This is a very funny and helpful joke!

If I understand what the problem is, then I think I have a piece of advice for you. Write down anything that comes to your mind (even while you are in the class) and that you know you cannot deal with at that moment it comes to your mind, because when you are thinking or you have a lot going on in head, it's hardly possible to have a focused mind. I do it too and it helps. However, do not just write, make sure you check, try as much as possible to get the things done and mark 'done' as you deal with each. For example, if you have a course you don't really understand, your list could be like:
skim to identify the problem areas
get help with a colleague that understands the subject better
try solving related questions in textbooks
and so on
For other things that may not be related to classwork:
do laundry
withdraw money
go for games
take some rest
copy notes of missed lectures
and so on
Do these with time allocated to each, as it also helps to add deadlines to your tasks.
However, if you have issues that need extra help or that you think you cannot handle alone, engage the help of family or people around you.
I hope this helps.
Goodluck!

What advice do you need again? You have decided how you want your relationship or love life to be once you impregnated the other lady. You are left with no other choice than to forget about love and stick with the mother of your child. I'm sure the lady would not want to abort and you are not ready for a polygamous family, at least not yet, unless you want to complicate your life for yourself.