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I'm pursuing a job at a company in Lagos. If I get employ, it will be during the service year.
What should I do so as not to lose the job?
NB: I schooled in south west and According to NYSC mode of deployment, we are to choose outside our socio-cultural and linguistic area
Please help!!!

Darkchocolate:
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http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/pages/dealing-with-depression.aspx


Be more active
Don’t withdraw from life. Socialising can improve your mood. Keeping in touch with friends and family means you have someone to talk to when you feel low.
Take up some form of exercise. There's evidence that exercise can help lift your mood. If you haven’t exercised for a while, start gently by walking for 20 minutes every day.

Face your fears
Don’t avoid the things you find difficult. When people feel low or anxious, they sometimes avoid talking to other people. Some people can lose their confidence about driving or travelling.
If this starts to happen, facing up to these situations will help them become easier.

Don’t drink too much alcohol
For some people, alcohol can become a problem. You may drink more than usual as a way of coping with or hiding your emotions, or just to fill time. But alcohol won’t help you solve your problems. It could also make you feel more depressed. Alcohol is actually a mood depressant and likely to cause more harm than good.

Have a routine
When people feel down, they can get into poor sleep patterns, staying up late and sleeping during the day. Try to get up at your normal time and stick to your routine as much as possible.
Not having a routine can affect your eating. You may stop cooking regular meals, eat snacks throughout the day instead or miss breakfast because you’re still in bed.

You have said it all.
Op, make use of it wella, God is your strength

We are still together.

If you are precious to yourself and your future, move away from him.

End time is knocking at the door. From gay to topless ladies
This world has really turn to ..............

There is no need of telling your landlord. You are a man of yourself. What people really say about you concerning your marital life. You just have to know yourself.

SeverusSnape:
Any girl who commits abortion is a fool and a murderer, Talk more of undergoing countless of it.

No guy, I mean no sane guy, not even the ones you aborted for will want to spend the rest of his life with such a cheap sluttish whore_. Mehn I hate abortionists, unfortunately, most girls these days are guilty of it.

Wetin concern me?... It's a virgin for me or nothing.

**waiting for the first slut to quote me and say trash**

Seconded.

Fiancee of course. Because she is a prospective member of my family to be.

My one and only advice is to stay away from her if you want to live a meaningful life.
You might still be lustful for her but never let her in again.
-----hook, line and sinker-----

There are two things involved: its either he needs time for himself or wants to move away from you.
Since you really love him, wait for him to arrive from his trip. When he returns, sit him down and talk maturely to him letting him know what he does that pains you and disturb your mind.
Also, pray to God to remove his anger and guide us both to the right path. I pray he change for better

However, considering the
circumstances surrounding the sudden
declarations coming from him, I am
forced to think it’s not natural and as
such it would not last.

Its natural and not natural depending on how you feel it yourself. The best thing for you to know if he really mean what he wanted to say is to stay calm with him, don't have any crush with him and feel free when around him.
His body language and his action if you study it well will depict who really is he though very difficult and taskful but stay focus and don't let him figure it out.

Its so sad to love someone and the person not given you back.

My only advice to you is this: sit yourself down, re-establish how you want your life and future to look like not minding whether you love her and/or your family. Focus on what is best for you and start putting them in action.

If you want her back, you need to do alot of classwork and assignment not minding the time, influence and affluence

Sorry to say oooo, you are just a nuisance.

After 4th abortion, a prophecy now came that you shouldn't marry her. Guy, its uncalled for.

So you will now end marrying another person and you think you will live happily? Not possible..............

agarawu23:
hmmmm na so I see am

Na so oooo Only for them to pack up thing packable and behave as if nothing happen.

Someone ain't say rubbish in anger mood especially in relationship/marital stuffs. If something belongs to you, you will sometimes knows in angry mood.

As for the issue, the best to convince that the guy is the father is to go for DNA test. With that, it will justify the means.

But why are ladies of nowadays lives awkward life?

That number 3.......
Praying to remove it from her

It's not a necessary thing for a guy to kneel down for a lady but very important.

Very important in the sense that ladies needs three things from guys:
1. Respect
2. Reassurance
3. Relief.


When proposing to her, it brings up those three Rs to her.

Jazakumullahu Khaeran. Very educative and enlighten.

Nice one op. But didn't agree with the communication and learning to accept what women are doing.
Is it a guy that suppose to show emotions to ladies or vice versa?
If learning to accept them, then there would be obscure later on.

People are misqouting this cut off.
There is different between Federal Government Schools (FGCs), Federal Universities Staff Schools and Legislature. FGCs are being financed and managed by the federal government while Federal Universities Staff School are to be managed and maintained by its founder i.e Universities.
1. Why can FG be paying workers of Federal Universities Staff school when they are not the one managing them.
2. Where is the school fees of those staff school going? Because some are paying a huge sum of money.
3. Is FG benefitting from the pay? If no why would they pay the salary of those workers?
I support the FG in this.

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starlingslimnet:
Truth is I don't get hurt...surprised? It's called emotional balance..... And if you don't wanna get hurt don't attach feelings to whatever your partner do or anybody does,hard? u might do the easy one then "Don't involve your heart in a Relationship"

What should now be put into a relationship?