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karllemah44:
I didn't say so

All right.

karllemah44:
OZY CHUKWUDU
Oh my God, why must it be us na?
So that Afonja will start jumping up and down dis thread shouting "na dem"

Well nothing concern me sha
TGIF...my Bf is coming over....just anticipating what will happen dis nite

Your bf will spend the night with you?

Ekiti... land of reclaimers! Fayemi is reclaiming 'their' land, now, you're reclaiming your mandate.

Teaching them how to dress half-naked already. Weldone o

No politician is a man of honour.

ExtraExtra:
Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".

My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.

"Dee" comes from a very well to do family while i dont so when we got married, i made her feel we are in this together, not one above the other but as partners in EVERYTHING. To be fair to her she brought up the business idea we did years ago, in other to put forth money to start up, i made sure i had equal money as her for it, goal was to own a property, build et al. Unfortunately my dad's ailing health deteriorated to the extent that he had to be flown out, when the profit came, i told her and she agreed, she decided we split it into two so she use hers for the initial plan. As the first born i went with my dad, back here she got the property and started building, when i came back the remaining money with me was used to complete it, what was left was used for my parents house. Being a trust worthy person i feel she is, i didnt bother to check documents cos i felt she would do the right thing by putting both our names which she kept in a bank.

Now, i work and own other businesses so i'm always in contact with alot of people from both genders so to her she feels i may have lost guard by cheating which is not true: i dont have password on my phones, i always make and receive calls right in front of her but she still think i'm hiding something and that was the genesis of the problem weeks ago, i rebuked her to cut it out immediately but she was out for blood, she insulted me like never before, when i didnt give her face, she extended her TOXIC words to my parents, my family, my background and my personality, that was when i lost it, if not for my cousin that was there i would have hit her, out of anger i told her to get the hell out of the house which of course i didnt mean, then she shocked me saying the house is ONLY in her name, i was numb and speechless, in other for me not to react in a brutal way i left the house, told her i would never step there again if she doesnt change it to my name ONLY. My cousin who was there when it happened told my people, they called me so i had to explain things, right now her family knows what happened and none is supporting her.

YES i said she should put my name only cos she belittled and betrayed me which tells me if it was in both our names she will raise shoulder and feel above me.YES i requested for transfer and i will go through with it, i cannot be away from my kids and still be in the same state, it doesnt make, when it is sucessful, i will get a place conducive amd comfortable for my kids, they will be with me. I told her recently not to bother with the name change anymore, she can have the house all to herself for all i care.

I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it.

Neither divorce nor total shun is the best option. Sit down and resolve this issue with your wife.

If you won't mind, kindly tell me the business that you guys did at the start of your marriage that fetched you so much money.

[quote author= post=69364369].....If you cast your votes, you can keep a distance and protect your votes, but if you snatch the ballot, we will cut off your hands, if you run with it, we will stop your legs.


To before warned is to before armed![/quote]'To be forewarned is to be forearmed'

jnrbayano:
You can't understand it when we try to explain it to you so forget it friend

Thank you. May I not understand it.

What do you expect from ignorant people whose job is to be predicting on every matter?
You know the funniest part? Their lucky predictions make gullible people stray.

jnrbayano:
Jesus Christ is the ultimate Master and Leader. Anybody who can find fault with him should pls come forward.

These self acclaimed pastors everywhere aren't the spokespersons of Christianity

Ultimate master and leader ke? It's weird the way you people talk about Jesus and forget everything about God.

IamPlato:
...


The Bible Says "and Therefore Shall A Man Leave His Father And Mother and Cling To His Wife And They Shall become One Flesh"...


The Bible Also Says "a Man's Body Belongs To His Wife And So Does The wife"...



When I Am Married My Wife And Children Come First... Your Mother Doesnt Own You Anymore...


Your Wife Owns You And You Own Her...

Eh!?

kimbraa:
A man isn't an article that someone should own so women should stop saying this I own him, you don't. In my opinion, that a man is married doesn't necessarily mean his mother should be overlooked. The wife isn't more important than the mother, both of them are. Treat both right as it's said a man would treat a woman how best he treats his mum.

On normal grounds, the mother still should be giving priority over the wife. You'll understand this when you might have nurtured your son till he becomes old enough to have a home.

iamJ:
wife first, your mother has ur father, she has enjoyed your father and has lived her life as someone priority, don't allow her to make ur wife frustrated, ur wife is the mother of your home, beta be devoted to her


An old man told me this, if your wife should prioritize her father over u, how will u feel? Make una dey get sense, na 2018 be this

Ignorance at its peak! No sane mind would expect this comment from someone of your age. It's obvious that you don't really know anything about whom a mother is.

The Admins should kindly do the needful and forward this post to the front page please. It's urgent!

I'm in dire need of getting a laptop now and I've decided to go for a brand new HP mini. So which of this category would you recommend owing to their battery life and configuration, and pls, how much is it sold?

Josegun:
Yeye people, anything benefiting the poor is their problem. He should also stop them from watching football oo

What's benefitting the poor in sports betting?

kettykings:
where is the tribal sentiments , how many APC folks are being tried for corruption , so it is only PDP member who need this satanic anti corruption fight , by the way where did buhari get the money he used to rent a private jet for his campaigns , the N56M bike that his son had an accident with is yet to be accounted for .

Indeed brother. Charity, they say, begins from home.

KillaBeauty:
What a sad way to live. Religion is indeed a bondage.
Fuçk the declaration on my profile, Jesus remains The only true God.

Jesus? True God? Even in this century where a five-year-old is sensible? Haba!

cristianisraeli:
why do they make these kids wear all those clothes damn..when will muslim women be free?

Free from what?

No one would forget Jasper's eye-opening words and pictures on cucumber so quick. I, also wouldn't forget what I call tutorials on cultivation techniques of various crops like tomatoes, peppers, maize and so on. So why wouldn't I wonder and let the world know that we no longer see things of such from the once able agricultural section of our great Nairaland - perhaps this will make the concerned individuals to wake from their slumber. I'm sick and tired of seeing poultry this piggery that. Jasper, Pavore9, Jethro, and all other crop farmers, pls come and start from where you stopped. We gained a lot from you guys and we wish to gain more... #WhereAreOurCropFarmers?!!!

ithink7:
For the camera.

Moreover, the world has moved on from this style of farming.

Indeed, this style of farming is too archaic to be portrayed by a Commissioner for Agriculture. Just like other Nairaland farmers, I'm disappointed.

OfficialAwol:
Same people.

They are just bunch of mosque brainwashed wooden heads.

They are taught that voting for Buhari means doing Allah's work despite the hardship they face, while hatred for Buhari is Haram. They have no thinking of theirs. They are thought for.

It's that bad.

Christians hail him, too. As though you'd interrogated all of them, you concluded that they had been brainwashed.

brenister10:
You can't understand bro.....

Why?

brenister10:
Sister brain, even if we all didn't know the exact day and date Jesus was born, but the whole world have decided to pick a day out of 365days in a year to celebrate the birth of ancient of days, the one who owns the whole 365days in a year. So what's the problem please.

Please in the name of being sober, holy and not confirming to the world don't just conclude on what's not to be. There are many lost souls in the world that need to be brought to the knowledge of the gospel, so instead of bringing up a matter that has no footing, why not use that time to reach out to them by showing them the reason for the birth of the messiah.

So please enough of all these, Christ is the owner of the days in a year and a particular day was chose to celebrate him even if we all don't knows the exact date of his birth, so please...... NO CASE

How is Jesus the owner of all the days in a year, pls?

He/she looks like a doll.

Jargo come and say something.

I need more contributions.

iyimide:
Contact quadrat
On
+234 816 820 7337.. Very nice.. Am sure she will assist you.. I recommend her all the way..

I'll. Thank you.

To chemistry students living in Ilorin, pls kindly assist a fellow chemist. I'm living in Ekiti State and I want to come for my SIWES in Ilorin. I'll be grateful if anyone here can guide me; I'm not conversant with Ilorin. Thanks in anticipation.