haba u guys are scaring me o,do u mean we do not have abled husbands on nairaland, ebi like say i go back out o.

I NEED A HUSBAND.
U THINK AM JOKING ,WELL LETS FIND OUT.
THIS IS 2008

una no go kill person for this site o. i laugh sotey belle pain me.

when ur mind is ready to handle issues of life i think it starts from 18 but it could really be at any age from 18yrs sha,these days u just have to talk to ur kids when they are still in ur tommy cos when a child comes in2 the world u cant vouch for the child so above all talk more about these issues with them and commit them to the will of GOD cos i want my children to be decent,wateva it will cost me to do that i'll do just that and i believe its not by being strickt that u get them behaiave well and eventually turn out to be decent
just give ur kids the right footing by being a very good example to them by ur ways to then i bet u they wont disappoint u

hot-angel:

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I know someone that got married to her first love.

Can i be her How sweet is that. She is so lucky.

i think i agreer with u the fact is love can not exist with out infatuation.the lucky ones realize its infatuation and work to-wards love,what do u think that initially feeling is?if u think its love then am sorry for u cos u have a thing coming ur way.i had that same feeling but when we both realized it wasn't love we decided to move to the next level but it still dint work so when i say its luck believe me it can lead to marriage i knw so many people who are married to their first loves,it all depends on ur knowledge of LOVE and how to go about it if u dont know how to and u lose it, it may just be the GRACE OF GOD  that will be the bridge u'll cross to the other side

hot-angel:

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I know someone that got married to her first love.

Can i be her How sweet is that. She is so lucky.

i think i agreer with u the fact is love can not exist with out infatuation.the lucky ones realize its infatuation and work to-wards love,what do u think that initially feeling is?if u think its love then am sorry for u cos u have a thing coming ur way.i had that same feeling but when we both realized it wasn't love we decided to move to the next level but it still dint work so when i say its luck believe me it can lead to marriage i knw so many people who are married to their first loves,it all depends on ur knowledge of LOVE and how to go about it if u dont know how to and u lose it, it may just be the GRACE OF GOD that will be the bridge u'll cross to the other side

i LOVE DOGS will give u my own gist some other tym,and to add i love all u guys said about ur dogs i just cant stop smiling,except for hot angel sha i dont like the way she said that

she is a good actress not doubt but not a singer abeg it sounds like trash to me she should stop imitating jlo cos there can only be one jlo and one gene,someone should tell her to be ORIGINALLY

lets face facts we all leave in a real world and not fantasy land so
my dears if he gives u a ring[calls]thats money if he pays ur bills {recharge cards,hair,rent,outings,cloths [ashoebes].......}these list will just be endless my darlyns all these involves pay even if it happens to be the minutest ting on earth he does for u,he definately had to move from a point to urs that equally involves some pay u know we cant run away from these fact of life{money is everything and every thing is money}
dont get me wrong is not like there is nothing done outside of money but the fact remains that money is chief when it comes to xpressing urself not only to ur romantically loved one it could be ur family or close frnds

its wrong no need justifying it cos u have to put urselve in the womans shoes how will u feel if it is done to u?do u find love in such situations?definitely not, it can only be a big lie [infatuation is the onl ting uu 'll feel]
it eventually break homes and creates enmity that promotes disunity that is seriously bitting deep in our nation

emphnnn
'better soup, dem say, na money kill am' (the best things in life are expensive)

My dears, is there a flower that doesn't love to be loved, cherished, nurtured, watered, pampered?

We all wish for all these sort of thins but most times it starts and ends in our imagination. I guess if we were to all state our individual desires or fantasies it will be explosive that Nairaland will not be able to contain them.

iah can u see that in a way they are actually turning it into a joke,thats to tell u they just see an opportunity and will not want it to pass them bye

3kids is cool cos if u find urselves in an absentee father situation u as a wife will be able to take care of the kids or if u are widowed u wont have alot of load to carry
and the boundin is ooh so amazing though u have fights here and there but u settle easily cos there is no CROWED situation for u to start having cliques in one family,i think plenty children in a family is another fast way of promoting DISUNITY,above all u always have more than enough to go round,when trips are to be taken u all go no such things as wait for ur turn.
i am from a family of 3kids and i love it

na wa o
which kin babe go dey go toast guys abeg me i dont fancy it at all haba make bobos sef cool down for JESUS now how the relationship go be cos i think its natural for guys to do the wooing cos to them women should give respect to weda big or small,in essence there is respect that follows u being man enof to woo not the other way round

whoa
ur views are really funny guys to tell u the truth if i were a babe u are asking does questions i think u do not have a headway at all
be urself it doesn't have to be a magical kind of thing

naija people sef dem say dont click we just wan know wetin dey.wao that was funny sha i really laugh sotey tears nearly drop from my eyes.
good thing cos laughter they say is good medcine for the heart

I'll love to get views from you all to be able to know how a love by correspondence is nurtured and sustained.

true love is
A DURABLE FIRE in the MIND ever BURNIN,NEVA SICK ,NEVA OLD, NEVA DIES,from itself NEVA TURNS.
BUT where my nairalanders can we find these,this is a poem i composed and i like it so much i think it should be the ideal way to love people both naturally and otherwise,love should be unconditional

18 what is that age a baby i should say
fact is kids this days are promiscuous so i cant say abstan but i think its no business of theirs going the marriage lane and they have alot ahead so distractions should not be welcomed

saying sorry only tells that u are a humble person and i think it does not cost anything though it could be annoying if u have to say sorry when u are right but for peace to rain i think its only civil to say sorry it brings about peace,unity and helps our relationships grow.
helping relationships,i only mean it to be that communication helps every form of r-ship be it parent to child,friends or even a love r-ship,if u'll rather keep mute then u are prude and then u keep pilling the issues until one day u decide to xplode and it might end in an ugly situation
lets try solving problems than letting go and saying it doesn't really mather when of a truth it does.o u did this and i dont think it went well with me, guess what a simple sorry should follow and not confrontations or argument

If he takes matters that affect you seriously no matter what people around him think about you.

hi all am abrakson,i be proper naija don't go with the name
i love these site weldone seun and i hope i,ll get a welcome from u
most of all i hope that in all the jokes we will be sharing we will learn some positive things that will change our lives for good
b good y'll

whoa
well what do we have here a group of gurus who are ready to forget morals.
being a virgin saves u alot of regrets,broken relationships and spreading of oneself from alex to zubairu or alice to zara.
its no bases for sincerity in marriage but it equally creates an atmosphere for trust,decency.
outside of marriage u think u are a guru wait until u hearfrom those with the real experience,and lets not make it look like sexuality holds marriage there are other qualities that can make people compatible
the society we are in now has made SEX a sort of a mini god to be worshiped in relationships forgetting that there are SO many things u can do to make a relationship work u know.
virgins keep yourself and u gurus GOD help u in ur adventures,remember AIDS IS REAL ENO DEY SHOW FOR FACE.

What is that? Girl wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. You are still a baby because in our context Nigeria you'll still be getting some spankings for wrongdoings so my dear you are still a kid and have no business with issues like these.

You are only infatuated towards the guy; nothing more nothing less. Slow down and wait for the right time.

well its ok for u all to talk but i think we should talk about issues we are really familiar with
i have an aunt in abuja who happens to be the oldest leaving sickler in her fifties how did she get these lucky u'll say well i think its the grace GOD gave to her.


my elder sister who is in her thirties is also a sickler and how did they go about it b4 marriage,u know its best to be friends b4 u start thinking of moving to the next level,as u become friends u are usually free to ask whatever questions u chose to that way u get to know the other parties genotype and then its left for u to either go ahead trusting that GOD will do a miracle only if u have FAITH if not don't even think about it cos u'll only bring children into the world to suffer not enjoy life and die like so many of my sisters sickler friends did its not wise to gamble with ones health and future

its a mind set thing make up ur mind about them and u'll be supprised it'll work like i did concerning issues that are meant to remain in the family alone cos u don't know who is hating u to take advantage of u,and with GOD helping u,u'll drop them.
let me say it the way it should be i like to gossip but i don't do that anymore

What is it with male teenage drug addiction? It's getting out of hand!

Hi all,

I am getting uncomfortable with the rate at which Nigerian teen boys weed up, drink alcohol, and smoke excessively. It can destroy their heart, livers and they come out to be bad parents eventually, especially does of them that don't get to drop the habit.

I think big brothers should be an example to the younger ones so we can have a proper generation with determination to change our country for good. If we start well I think someone somwhere will give a listening ear to us being the leaders of tommorrow.