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Lol. No wahala. As your own protest, since you blame Yorubas for Kanu's own criminality and lawlessness, simply boycott Yorubaland and Yoruba people from today henceforth.

God bless you my brother.

Hojlund x 100

If you want to see a hungry politician.

Stand in between party lines.

You see those ones that jump from one party to another.

Those are the hungry politicians.

LIKE OBI

[quote author=forexprophet post=133402902]That imam is an IDIOT...... We too can place banner oo

IS JESUS GOD?

It is forbidden to tie the nuptial knot (Nikaah) while the bride is pregnant. The fornicator(s) should repent sincerely to Allah and the bride should wait for a menstrual cycle after giving birth! The correct position which is that of the majority of Muslim scholars is the forbiddance of the attribution of the kid born from fornication to the fornicating biological father! A child born this way will not inherit the biological father accordingly! Also forbidden is aborting the fetus as a result of the shame of fornication!

Preface:
This is common in many tribes in Nigeria and in many countries all over the world. The bride get pregnant before they think about solemnizing the union in Nikaah! And some Muslims are not left out in this backward culture as sometimes there exist an agreement between the dating partners to do the Nikaah when pregnancy is confirmed!

Firstly:
It is permissible for the one who committed zina (Illegal sex) to marry the woman with whom he committed zina if they are no longer regarded as zaani (Fornicators) , which is after repenting sincerely. If she is pregnant, it is not permissible to do the marriage contract with her until her pregnancy ends, and the child is not to be named after the zaani according to the majority of scholars. Some scholars are of the view that the illegitimate child is to be called after the zaani if he acknowledges him.

In Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah it says: What is required of both of them is to repent to Allah then to give up this crime and regret what has happened in the past of committing immoral actions, and they should resolve never to go back to it and they should do a lot of righteous deeds in the hope that Allah will accept their repentance and turn their bad deeds into good deeds. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And those who invoke not any other ilaah (god) along with Allaah, nor kill such person as Allaah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse and whoever does this shall receive the punishment.

69. The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace;

70. Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful

71. And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds; then verily, he repents towards Allaah with true repentance” [al-Furqaan 25:68-71]

If you want to marry her, you have to wait until it is established that she is not pregnant by waiting for one menstrual cycle before doing the marriage contract with her. If it turns out that she is pregnant, it is not permissible for you to do the marriage contract with her until after the pregnancy ends, in accordance with the words of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that a man should not irrigate the crop of another with his water.
End quote from Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, Majallat al-Buhooth al-Islamiyyah, vol. 9, p. 72

Many scholars agreed that Nikah can be performed provided it is with the person who actually impregnated her. Please do more research on this.

Your head dey there. You just nailed it. Me weyI no be lawyer sell don see say na shadow Dem dey chase .

Not the worst in South West but in Nigeria. Papalanto to Shagamu. Abeokuta to Lagos. Alagbole/Akute axis and many more. Are we cursed?

Rgade:

So? If not for runs how many of you for pass WAEC
Abegi,runs have been saving lives since buharis first recession.
I remember that time we were all forming bright students, only for me to jam waec maths and begin rethinking the Engineering wey I talk say I wan study.
To God,na runs save us that year.
Even seun cannot swear he didn't do runs.
A solid 100% of Nairalanders who are going to view and comment on this thread did runs..

Please speak for yourself, I have never done 'runs'.

My problem with most of you modern "scholars" is that you absolutely depended on Islam Q&A. Opinions expressed on Q&A is mostly based on opinions of Saudi scholars and tactically and gradually they are dragging us to madhhab as most of their fatawa are based on the Hambali madhhab.

I also have a question to ask, sorry to take the mic from you, seeing that our concerns are related. Perhaps I should share mine too.

Please someone should help me out if you've got an idea.

I studied Law and after graduation, studied Political science for my Master's degree.

I want to Lecture on Political science in a Nigerian university. What is the possibility based on the courses I studied?

It is better you go and do a two year conversion programme in Pol Sc. as your first Degree matters in academics. I am talking from experience. You may get a job but it will affect your promotions and rise.

]I ply this road almost every week. It is worst than the pix here[/quote]Far, far worse than this pix is depicting.

I tried Sam yesterday and he delivered today as promised. Indeed there are still honest Nigerians out there.
I just took the risk and he did not disappoint me. I wholeheartedly recommend him to all.
Thanks Sam.

]Hi, I finished with a Third Class degree in a Federal university and my question is, can I do masters or other higher qualifications....
Do a pgd. And move on from there. I had a third class but today I have two Masters and presently doing a PhD.

Try to find out the producer of the programme you want to feature in. Names are usually shown before and after any programme. Contact the producer by physical visit to the station or through his phone or social media contacts.

Ode. All the Governorship candidates in South West are Christians including the just elected Ekiti one where the governor and deputy are Christians. with the exception of Osun tell me any other one in Southwest and yet Muslims are not complaining. The rant of the Christians and their political party CAN is like that of the Igbos always crying marginalization.

[quote author=ideology post=67596368]Our problem is English.

[color=#990000]The article never said that the listed countries were present but it stated countries that confirmed interest to be present.

And they mean different things

Who cares if Nigeria was present!

Abi na UN buhari de fear or just to show support to his fellow brethren.

The deed has been done, let world war 3 begin

Jesus is still Lord
Your fool ishness knows no boumdary. Does Israel care about Christianity or Jesus.

THIS IS EXACTLY HOW ALL NAIJA WOMEN BEHAVES

NONE IS EXCEPTED .
Including your mum?

Where are they? I am looking for one.

ENVIRONMENTAL POLLUTION IN IDI-ARABA
I wish to bring to the attention of the public and Lagos State government the serious health hazard posed to the residents of Idi-Araba, Mushin, students, workers and patients at Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH)/College of Medicine University of Lagos (CMUL) among other institutions by a large refuse dump on about an acre of land situated in the heart of Idi-Araba on Ewumi/Wonuola Streets behind St. Kizito Catholic Hospital adjacent to the LUTH/CMUL.
The said piece of land is said to belong to the Lagos State Ministry of Justice but it has been turned into a huge refuse dump posing a health risk to the residents and the nearby institutions including the Lagos State Girls Special Correctional Center and the Lagos State Correctional Center for Children where many children and youths are housed.
The dump is huge and taller than a three-storey building and every day it is burnt causing a lot of smoke that choke residents and passers-by alike. One can hardly breathe even in your room as the smoke enters.
I learned that some people are collecting money (=N=1 000) from cart pushers who daily empty their trucks in the place.
Apart from the smoke it has become a fertile breeding ground for rats and mosquitoes leading to constant malaria fever and fear by residents of an outbreak of cholera and Lassa fever if nothing is urgently done to close and remove this site.
One wonders how institutions like LUTH/CMUL, the correctional centers and the catholic hospital can cohabit with such site not minding the health risks it poses.
I am appealing to the concerned government agencies including LASEPA, LAWMA, Ministry of the Environment, Ministry of Health among others to please use your medium to save our soul in Id-Araba, Mushin, Lagos by doing the right to avoid epidemic and a repeat of the Olusosun saga.

Another big one is looming in Idi-araba, between Ewumi and Wonuola streets, a densely populated area in Mushin where there is a large dump site sandwiched within residential buildings very close to LUTH. the refeuse is burnt daily causing a lot of hazards.








More details later …


http://punchng.com/breaking-olusosun-dump-three-pupils-collapse-as-smoke-forces-closure-of-schools/[/quote]

whats your contact

May Allah (SWT) reward you abundantly for this post.

You have said it all and I really appreciate you for this. God continue to bless you. Are you a psychiatrist? Thanks once again. God bless you.

when ppl say never hit your wife, they mean never become the aggressor. what is happening to to you is domestic violence and your wife is abusing you emotionally and physically. you need to leave that woman fast. she's poison! don't try to change her, don't blame yourself for anything, just, cut her loose!

EDIT: so I just read the old article you included in the link, i change my mind. with more insight to this:
OP, I dont mean this in an insensitive way, your wife has some deep issues and must have suffered some intense psychological trauma to cause her to feel a lot of bitterness and act out in sadism when angry, the knife, the fork, hitting you with a shoe on your head and not stopping when you didnt even react!! this last one is a huge red light, something is really wrong with your wife, she loves to inflict pain and if her personality is as contrast as u say, that everyone thinks she's this sweet girl, then whatever is wrong with her runs really deep, it's not normal at all to keep hitting a person with a shoe on the head when they're not fighting back, she wants to hurt you, she wants u to feel pain.

I'm honestly convinced your wife has suffered sexual assault at an early age that led to a break in psyche, she's mastered suppressing her feelings, her nice girl act is not an 'act', she's actually that nice. but when she's angry, all the bitterness buried beneath the surface emerges and she finally deals with all the buried emotion in its magnitude, it overwhelms her and she wants to act out to hit something or punch a wall etc. when she's alone and unhappy, even when she lived with her parents, u really dont want to see/imagine what your wife does to and says to herself, this anger she shows you, she's lived with it for a long time, she's been her own victim till now when she made u her victim. there is nothing she has done to you that she hasn't done to herself times hundred.

if you choose to for better for worse it, find a psychiatrist or psychologist and go with your wife for counselling, your wife, with or without you will never change till she finally begins to work on whatever buried bitterness she's had to live with for years. try to get help together as a family or get a divorce if u would rather not go through it. it's really that simple, your wife will live with whatever has happened for the rest of her life but how she manages the accompanying emotions, her anger and abandonment issues can all be taken care of with a good psychologist and emotional support on your part. educate yourself on the topic of sexual assault and learn the necessary sensitivity training and triggers. counselling will teach you all this.

no, i'm not thinking too far, your wife ticks a lot of boxes:
-extra charming cos of distorted/low self image and need to be accepted
-her over-religiousness is for closure that she needs and like u said her prayers are always for her god to attack ppl for her. even her relationship with god isnt healthy, it's a coping mechanism. the idea of a protector that will attack on her behalf.
-she talks from 12am to 4am alone when you're asleep, OP, your wife is full of a lot of buried emotion, she really wants to talk to someone about something.
-despite being a nice girl, before you married her, she had no friends
-she's very quiet, hardly finishes her words (withdrawn personality, mastered suppresion)

you should never have raised your hands to hit this woman, when she froze for 5 minutes, it's not that she was thinking she overstepped her boundaries, she was actually coming back to her senses, when your wife gets angry, she loses her mind and forgets who she's dealing with. even worse when the person who angered her is male, she reacts with more venom cos subconsciously he represents her aggressor and she wants to hurt him to make him feel pain. she probably has conversations with herself and imagines herself confronting her abuser and being able to hurt him back and make him regret his actions and cries alone cos it's only in her imagination that she can deal with him. when a man makes her defensive in her personal space, she attacks. till u actually hit her, u just represented something that she has bad blood with and now you've added yourself to the list of men that have ruined her.
she has stopped hitting u cos she has buried the incident of the slaps too but OP, the same place it's buried is the same place her demons she's battling are buried, she wont touch you but when her bitterness surfaces when she's alone, this time you're one of her enemies. the resentment is growing and when she sees u, she's filled with such bitterness she shoves u. if u do not intend to fix this marriage OP, walk away NOW. a lot of bitterness is brewing in this woman and if you add yourself to the list, we will read about u in the news the day this woman snaps. the same way u never saw her eyes so red the day she yelled, u will never believe she has it in her to go the extent she'll go, your wife will surprise you.

nigeria does not have a good support system for ppl who have had to deal with the trauma of sexual assault, society takes it lightly too but this is 2017, ppl should educate themselves on this, when we read here everyday '6 yr old girl raped in lagos by 43 yr old man', that girl is someone's future wife and she will NOT just be like everybody else, the scars of her trauma will show one way or another and she'll need extra sensitivity cos she's a "special" case. your wife is not a naturally aggressive person, that i can tell u and it's sad that another human being created this monster in her. OP, this is really not your battle, it's not you she wants to fight, you did not give her all the bitterness she's carrying, so let the slaps u gave her be the last, you wife is a very very bitter scorned woman whose hurt has taken years and years to germinate, the person who hurt her isnt dealing with it, u are. if u add to her bitterness and it gets too much, the person who created 99% of this mess will not be the scapegoat, again it will be u. i haven't dealt with sexual assault personally or with a family member but i have met closely with some of the victims and the effects of sexual assault are too underestimated. ppl should be killed for damaging another human like that.

if u do choose to save your marriage:
apologize profusely for hitting her and become super sweet, if u choose to undo this mess, u have to be ready, sensitive, patient, very educated about this issue and strong for the both of u. if u choose to walk this path, u will watch her fall apart and u have to be ready to help her reassemble.
don't let her hit you, hold her hands and keep holding it and talking to her till she calms down. your wife is actually a very sweet person, the person you knew her to be when u married her exists, just buried under layers of bitterness. i dont blame u at all for hitting her, there's nothing illogical in hitting someone who came at u with a knife, i can understand why u snapped but let it be the last time. your wife wants to talk to you, listen to her, she talks when you sleep, when you leave she follows you, it's annoying but it's her subconscious, she really wants to reach out. listen to your wife! make out time and let her rant, she will talk about so many things, no matter how messed up it sounds, keep listening. then talk back about whatever and if she interrupts and tries to talk, let her talk, just listen. u can stop the midnight talks by changing it to day time. stop sleeping in your sitting room, move back to your bed.

when you're ready to make the move, try pulling it out of her, on top of your new sweetness, be extra extra sweet to her for the whole week like her sh!t dont stink, on a friday(so if she spills, you'll both have the weekend to grieve), make sure she's in a nice awww darling mood and when you're holding her, just brush by a conversation u heard at the office that made u really sick "about a dude that assaulted some teenage girl and how mad it makes you that men like that are still walking around breathing and if they ever dared it with someone u care about, u'll deal with them and how no matter what she was wearing or where she was, no one has the right on another person's body without consent and the worst part is there are girls out there who have experienced this and told no one and the animal didnt get caught"
stay on the topic of sexual assault and follow body language, dont change the topic, be gentle, when she cracks, try to get her to talk, say what u have to "she can tell u anything, u wont judge, u love her from here to japan, if it affects her it affects you, u are both one and she can confide in u etc" when she talks, encourage her to keep talking, show that you're listening, console her all you can, cry with her even if u have to force the tears though i doubt you'll have to force them, make her see that whatever sunken place she's in, you've somehow gotten there too but dont cry more than her haba. tell her that both of u will go for counselling together, find a good therapist and go with her till she makes progress to go alone. make sure u find a therapist before u try to get her to talk about this and once she talks, the upcoming monday, begin therapy. and dont expect to work this out in 2 days, give yourself time like 4-6wks to build the emotional environment of trust and zero judgement to be able to access her when the time comes. note: she has to open up to you before you can go for therapy.

-u can expect her to go into depression for a while, she might need anti-depressants, sleeping pills too, she will be dealing with a lot of emotion once she finally lets someone in.
-NEVER EVER make a joke about her incident or say something mean to her about it... NEVER EVER!!! NEVER EVER!!! I MEAN IT OP.
-if u want to divorce her and not work through this, which is honestly the easy way out for you, then pls dont bring up anything i just told u here, dont taunt her over this, dont ask her about abuse or anything, just let the marriage end and pretend u didnt even read this. she will still live with herself so she has it heavy already.

i really do sympathize with you, u have found yourself in a very unfortunate position and no decision u make will be easy. sadly enough, i feel sorry for your wife too, she's really lived her hell and she's putting you through it. both of u dont deserve this. i also applaud you for all the grace you've shown, it's very hard to break the cycle of abuse, abused ppl mostly pass it on to others, maybe not in the form they received it but they leave their mark, so i can imagine how strong a person u were to endure all the emotional & physical abuse. and no, slapping her back was not abuse, u defended yourself full stop! dont feel sorry for yourself, just do what u have to do: stay & do the work to mend this if u can or leave if u cant.
u have to accept that your wife has issues that cause aggression when it flares. in time, u will also notice she's protective of children or animals or things she pictures as defenseless, it'll show in her mothering, not wanting your kid to go out, being too clingy to the child, convinced the big bad world is out to get her child, all that u will both work through in due time. once you can get your wife to show you the dark place she's in, it'll not be her safe place anymore, she can't hide there anymore, whatever comes to surface will be dealt with by both of you and u will finally live with the smiling smiling girl u married. good luck OP[/size][/quote]

Isokowadoo:
Fraudulent..

Why does Iwobi Score Then Fulani Terrorist Is Given Man OF d Match..

Nonsense

Please always use your no 6

Heed your father's warning talking from experience.

You can contact this person on 08167940922 or 08028702398

Since he left
Everything has been right
Even ASUU has called of their strike
Its better he stays there
We are ok without him[/quote]are u in ur r senses

shaklisco:
I don't think Atunrase is among them,one of the discipline school in Lagos State I can testify to it,I graduated year 2004

Big NO. Atunrase is fully involved at both JSS and SS level

You are getting JAMB wrong. Each university can fix its cut off mark, 120 is just the benchmark