₦airaland Forum

LadySarah:
It's the truth.
Little to no personal human development.
Akwa Ibom and Cross River.
They are mostly hairdressers in Rivers state too while Yoruba ppl are the Agbo Sellers and Taxi Drivers.

you're stupid and your brain needs transplant cos the cells in them are all dead

Bigflamie:

Pay you a visit in your room? A room? wtf. Dude up your game and get your self a nice apartment, stop doing room bs.

it's actually a self con and I'm contented with that as a single guy

dairykidd:
As young as u are u dey waste ur youth on one girl when no even want know if u dey exiat The way some of u young guys overrate these girls sha..It is well

what do you mean by wasting my youth?
Oga if you read that thread well you know that I'm on one month leave from work, I been just want to use this opportunity to bed her, that's all.
when I resume work I no get time again

Vilgax:
did she explicitly describe her idea of the "perfect man" to you?

or you're just assuming you fit that criteria?

well physical qualities asides I think most if not all Nigerian ladies hardly turn down a career minded Man.
So I may not be physically perfect but I believe the definition of who a perfect man is to naija ladies is a man that is successful in his career and profession or lemme say is "gainfully employed"

DarkPheonix:
Why the fck will you block her on her way home? So you want to start harassing her cause you she rejected you? You definitely have no diginty and shame. If you really think you are worth anything then forget about that girl and move on and get yourself another girl.
She is probably in relation and you disturbing her life coupled with her busy schedule.

Nah not harass, when I said block I don't mean doing that aggressively, kind of wait for her.
But don't worry it's all settled we good

Righteousness98:
If You Keep Lusting After Her, You Will Truncate Your Bright Destiny!!!
[s]Death Awaits Those Who Takes Joy In Sin!! Repent!!!![/i]

[/s] erroneous preaching obviously you're a baby Christian or a troll cos you're totally way off it

Righteousness98:
Fornication will end your life!!!

Seek the face of the Lord today!!

where did you see fornication in the post?
Your eyes well so?

BornSnner9:
What's your problem this guy??

is this the advise?

If you read through my previous thread you'll realize I was disappointed and embarrassed by a certain lesbian bitch.
Well it was a blessing in disguise, cos while waiting for the lesbian bitcch, I came across an old friend of mine that was passing by, we lost contact and she was so happy to see me, we used to be just platonic friends and nothing more, she's 26 now, she's into a business of hers, she's now comfortable though she's still with her parents.
Now we exchanged contacts and got reunited again.
I observed that she's now more curvier, has added lots of flesh and more beautiful than she was when we were friends, yesterday when I met her she was with a luggage which she dropped while we were talking, as she was about to depart she bent over to pick up her luggage and I observed how her breasts popped out and my eyes were so fastened on those two nice titties that have grown so big of recent.
Can't seem to get her off my mind now, as I don't want to be friend-zoned, of course she wouldn't friend-zone me due to the way she was so excited to see me and also was aware of a huge progress on my career lately.
Now the help I need from you nairalanders is to give me hints on how to invite her to my apartment, I don't want a sit out or outside date, I need her to pay me a visit in my room.
She's somewhat classy and gorgeous and it ain't gonna be that easy for her to just pay me a visit cos she also got some dignity so I need sugar coating words.
I don't want to ask her to come directly, I need trickish or sweet enticing words I can tell her so she could oblige.
Please help.

DICKstractor:


Do you want to block her and beg her to accept your date?


But this girl really dent your ego

I tell you I'm in severe torment right now

ObaKlaz:
Females can give anyone their numbers. It really doesn't mean sh!t to them. They love to see all males, especially males they aren't interested in (LIKE YOURSELF) shower them attention. You inundate them endlessly with your useless calls, they ignore and keep counting how many missed calls you do. It all fuels their narcissism and you're just a part of their narcissistic supply.

When you fail to see their apparent lack of interest in you, and your pitiful show of neediness doesn't tickle them anymore, then, they become caustic and rain hell on you.

By the way, you ran to the ATM to get some cash... That says a lot and leaves much to be desired about your mindset. I won't go further on that.


Completely ignore her, work on mindset and how you view females generally. Get busier too, dear OP.

thanks for this.
if you read through the thread carefully you'll see where I posted that I'm on my annual leave.
all the same Thanks

dairykidd:
Engaged to be married u mean? Is she dumb or can't say it out from the onset? I no dey blame the babe oo na the guy when dey invest time, money and emotions for toto matter no dey use him brains. Girl dey show u say u nor matter to her u still dey wan force urself inside. So tey e turn see finish. And probably the guy go senior the babe like 8-12 years

Nah I'm 27 while she's 24

baralatie:
have you thought possible she is engaged

I think so too or maybe a lesbian or feminist with grown hatred for men

Fyi0:
Stupid SIMP.
The signs were there since inception. But you stupidly chose to continue chasing her, downgrading yourself.
Ewu. Men like you disgust me.
Bloody incel!

why the insults and why cursing me?
I said despite the signs I still intentionally chosed to, it's my personal decision, just wanted to bed her that's all. I guess you don't even know who a simp is.
next time learn to argue your points without insults

AdeniyiA:
I guess maybe she has sized you up, put you on a scale and you're found wanting. Ladies are so good at assessing your worth by mere looking at you. Do you have a car? What sort of phone are you using? What is d worth of your shoe, shirt when you met her? You'd be surprised the number of things she had assessed and valued on you.
If she could tell you to go find something to do with your life and stop disturbing her, then you were not her type when she first met you. She might be an expensive lady

Yeah you're seriously right.
some ladies are myopic sha

AdeniyiA:
Well, initially some ladies aren't easy catch like that, but you've got to press on if you really like her, fortunately you have her number already. Send her messages, morning and before she sleeps... Eventually you might win her.

I too do not like being rejected because I might switch off completely and not many could be as lucky as I was, i could say I proposed to my wife the very day we met
No wasting time chasing after babes

I've already deleted the number and moved on but I'm still pained.
I know the time she closes from work and I know the path she takes home, I may likely block her

Sirfemisky:
. Let's see her picture

Nairaland violation

Marine54:
Is a mistake, are you above mistake ?

it's not is
Mistake too many jhoor

TheDestroyer:
These ones go allow CNN carry our matter and embarrass us worldwide now. Wetin dey worry these aboki people sef and why do they always put religion before common sense?

God punish Buhari, Ganduje and Islam joined together

Marine54:
can you berrow me this space ?

not until you learn how to spell the bolded

Kano is the most useless and cursed state in Nigeria.
God punish Ganduje

BornSnner9:
That's why I like myself..

Any girl wey I come in contact with wey begin dey do like patience ozokwor.. I go just delete their contact.. I cherish my peace

but my mind kept telling me that they are so many fishes in the river.
Guy what's the best way to revenge the time wasted, the stress waiting for her and preparing a table for two only to be ignored.
Honestly my ego and dignity is down and I'm so ashamed of myself.
I want to revenge if not for the insults but at least the time wasted and the embarrassment

tico1212:
Lesbian bawo? This your reasoning get as e b o

yes because i can't fathom how she would reject me cos I possessed all the features.
She's a hardcore lesbian. why would she turn down a Date at one of the most beautiful and expensive sit out?

proclinician:
Question is did you receive sense from the encounter or not?

did I ever lack it.
sense was still intact before and after the scenario.
The way I just sacrificed time and the stress to look good is what is vexing me

I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood.
I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back.
So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on.
So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words"
I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in.
Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home.
I'm suspecting she's a lesbian.
Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks

Skynet45:
Are u mad are u praying for food scarcity you fool. God go punish u

you just have to ignore because if you follow their stupidity then you go curse tire.
I really hate that helinues guy you just quoted but I learn to overlook somethings

LedRock:
Account created today. Most of these accounts are created by this silly mods.

Nah, it's to hid identity.
Just like mine created today to air my views

jubrilELsudan:
I HAVE BEEN MASTURBATING FOR OVER 30 YEARS AND I STILL FVCK WOMEN AND SHOOT MY HOT CUM IN THEIR MOUTH AND I HAVEN'T DIED NOR HAVE MY LIFE BEEN FILLED WITH BAD LUCK.


IT'S ALL IN THE MIND AND MENTALITY OF YOUR THINKING AND BELIEVING THE THRASH PEOPLE SAY.

FALSE CHRISTIANITY DOCTRINES MAKES EVERYTHING A SIN YET SAME CHRISTIANS AND PASTORS WILL SAY IT'S BETTER TO FORNICATE OR COMMIT ADULTERY THAN TO MASTURBATE.

SAME PRESENT DAY CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE THAT IS TODAY PREACHED THAT A MAN MUST ONLY MARRY JUST ONE WIFE BUT THERE'S NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE WHERE JESUS PREACHED THAT A MAN MUST ONLY MARRY ONE WIFE.

IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND MENTALITY THINKING. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU MASTURBATING BRINGS YOU BAD LUCK THEN SO SHALL IT MANIFEST.




IT'S BETTER TO MASTURBATE THAN TO GO RAPE A WOMAN BECAUSE OF KONJI THEN WHEN YOU ARE CAUGHT YOU WILL THEN BLAME IT ON THE DEVIL.

you need to be taken to the hospital

AngelicBeing:
Masturbation is a demonic monster that has rendered several destinies useless

speaking from experience

Zane2point4:
That erection stuff is real,many masturbators suffers it alot that deh depend on viagra for sex.

properties4sale:
Mine is for the past 20 years, itself really a very big problem. It destroys your sex life.. like it kills it; poor erection. You cannot have normal sex with girls. It's bad.

I've masturbated for 13 years, I never had sex with a lady before.
So the the lady I'm about getting married to finally visited and we made out and when it came to sex i completely lost erection.
She was so disappointed and she thought I was nervous or something so the second time when she visited and we made out and I still lost erection again. I had to lie to her that I'm on a medication maybe that's why.
A week after she visited again and I greatly impressed her with a long lasting erection but deep down my heart I was shattered cos i took Viagra, now I have to be using Viagra to maintain an erection.
Even the sex wasn't enjoyable as her vagina walls were too soft and not as hard as my palms that my dicck has been used to
How long will I continue with this?
Masturbation is a killer.