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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by godwinusen: 4:43am On Sep 17
THE HARDEST PRISON TO ESCAPE FROM IS THE MIND,MASTERMIND(THE MIND IS THE MASTER),AWAYS TRY TO CHANGE UR THOUGHT WHEN UN-CONCOISLY PRESURED TO MASTURBATE.I WAS A DRUG ADICT FOR 22YRS.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by georgeikani033: 4:58am On Sep 17
It's a good one you see a Doctor, but what you need most is prayers and determination. You just need to set your mind off it, keep yourself busy in any ways. But determination is key. From my own experience I'm telling you. Cheers
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by maak400: 6:08am On Sep 17
Blackurglyboi:
I can't even talk to a girl anymore I feel I'm not man enough , its a big problem . I do pray I get out of it soon before I took late
Watch NoFap (no masturbation) videos on YouTube to help you. Check this one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgsRdyn1qGA

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by maak400: 6:12am On Sep 17
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
Watch NoFap (No masturbation) videos on YouTube. You can start with this..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgsRdyn1qGA
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by maak400: 6:13am On Sep 17
Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.
I don’t think you should tell your parents to avoid feeling ashamed

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by thegroomspa(m): 6:28am On Sep 17
When you masturbate, you release and waste God's deposited beautifying oil of your destiny...send me a mail at Timothynelson370@yahoo.com...to get a book for #750 I promise, you will be amazed on how you became transformed.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Cleff4u(m): 6:37am On Sep 17
Ghost8889:


Masturbating has nothing to do with poor erection or inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman
short up, don't deceive people, masturbation will destroy ur sex life if u don't stop it. it will make u not to even erect when u are with s naked woman, it will embarrasse u. it cause week erection and quick ejaculation . even if u try to penetrate a woman 2-3minute ur dick will still weak inside even when d woman need u well. don't destroy ur future with masturbation. punish urflesh n stop it before is to late, out of experience

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gabflex: 7:05am On Sep 17
So shameful, this is my 6th yr.
I regret the day i started,actually i never knew what i was doin is called masturbation until a year plus i discovered, by that time man don self-service tire.
I control it sometimes, i do it once or twice a week. I once went more than a month without doing it. I pray for the strength to overcome.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Khez: 7:09am On Sep 17
Continue, it makes the dick really big without buying fake big dick cream y’all like to waste money on !

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007: 7:19am On Sep 17
Joshdboss:

Exactly. Dats wat I said before. It's like some of these guys don't know this thing has a stubborn demon behind it. Make God open una eye small.
they think itz science
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Zane2point4(m): 7:21am On Sep 17
Account2Many:

I've masturbated for 13 years, I never had sex with a lady before.
So the the lady I'm about getting married to finally visited and we made out and when it came to sex i completely lost erection.
She was so disappointed and she thought I was nervous or something so the second time when she visited and we made out and I still lost erection again. I had to lie to her that I'm on a medication maybe that's why.
A week after she visited again and I greatly impressed her with a long lasting erection but deep down my heart I was shattered cos i took Viagra, now I have to be using Viagra to maintain an erection.
Even the sex wasn't enjoyable as her vagina walls were too soft and not as hard as my palms that my dicck has been used to
How long will I continue with this?
Masturbation is a killer.
That's the problem,thats what affects males as a consequence of masturbating for a long time,

You just need to stop,control it,let Your body reformat again. Thats the only remedy.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joeiordye: 7:28am On Sep 17
Get closer to God and it will leave you naturally. I'm free forever!
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Kenneto1(m): 7:46am On Sep 17
First to stop masturbating you need to get ride off all the porn videos and pictures in your phone. Delete the sites you go to watch it online from your phone. Secondly stop staying lonely try to stay where people are and don’t go to the bedroom with your phone when you Wants sleep and thirdly prayer is the key
For those that said masturbation is not a sin pls don’t listen to them is a big sin. And it can kill your sperm Count or poor libido am talking out of experience.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by juniorstar(m): 7:53am On Sep 17
IkwerrePikin:
Do females who are addicted to masturbation also have this issue of sexual satisfaction when with a man?

Is it only the males who masturbate alot that suffer from poor erection and inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman?
females do masturbate too. I once caught my neighbour joy masturbating in her room. those days in school.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ikemefuna44: 7:58am On Sep 17
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

Bad advice! Avoid this advice like you'd avoid Boko Harm, because this deadly advice would destroy your life. The negative side effect of this drug far outweighs the likely positive impact it would have. It's like cutting off the head just to cure headache.
Capeesh!
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by minicky: 7:59am On Sep 17
kenzysmith:
am a chronic virtual betgja player for almost four years whose almost ruin me guess what last year September I stop it today made it one year since I last stop playing it
how do u feel any good changes in ur life tell us

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by samwillyco1: 9:29am On Sep 17
Joseb007:

you are trying to compound his case

See if he have a girl around him, he may stop it
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Maycash89(m): 9:35am On Sep 17
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.
I was once like you,if you truly want to be delivered,chat me up on my WhatsApp account 09065015269
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Account2Many: 9:44am On Sep 17
AngelicBeing:
Masturbation is a demonic monster that has rendered several destinies useless sad
speaking from experience
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Account2Many: 9:47am On Sep 17
jubrilELsudan:
I HAVE BEEN MASTURBATING FOR OVER 30 YEARS AND I STILL FVCK WOMEN AND SHOOT MY HOT CUM IN THEIR MOUTH AND I HAVEN'T DIED NOR HAVE MY LIFE BEEN FILLED WITH BAD LUCK.


IT'S ALL IN THE MIND AND MENTALITY OF YOUR THINKING AND BELIEVING THE THRASH PEOPLE SAY.

FALSE CHRISTIANITY DOCTRINES MAKES EVERYTHING A SIN YET SAME CHRISTIANS AND PASTORS WILL SAY IT'S BETTER TO FORNICATE OR COMMIT ADULTERY THAN TO MASTURBATE.

SAME PRESENT DAY CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE THAT IS TODAY PREACHED THAT A MAN MUST ONLY MARRY JUST ONE WIFE BUT THERE'S NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE WHERE JESUS PREACHED THAT A MAN MUST ONLY MARRY ONE WIFE.

IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND MENTALITY THINKING. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU MASTURBATING BRINGS YOU BAD LUCK THEN SO SHALL IT MANIFEST.




IT'S BETTER TO MASTURBATE THAN TO GO RAPE A WOMAN BECAUSE OF KONJI THEN WHEN YOU ARE CAUGHT YOU WILL THEN BLAME IT ON THE DEVIL.
you need to be taken to the hospital
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Account2Many: 9:53am On Sep 17
LedRock:
Account created today. Most of these accounts are created by this silly mods.
Nah, it's to hid identity.
Just like mine created today to air my views
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by izuswift(m): 10:01am On Sep 17
ugbede69:
I would be very grateful if I get the videos via WhatsApp. my phone does not support YouTube ...thanks in addy
You are not serious, the duration of two of those videos are like 2hrs.
Oga look for a way to watch those videos and be free.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by edkidacool: 10:33am On Sep 17
madampresident:
The only reason you're struggling with masturbation is because you see it as a very big deal. You masturbate and the devil sells you guilt.

This is not God now. Take away the guilt. Enjoy your masturbation and watch yourself lose memory to masturbation.


Even tho masturbating might seem like a great escape in the moment, we all know at least anybody who's masturbated before knows that the high is shallow, now you are female, you never have to worry about the strength of your erection during sexual intercourse but ask any of these guys who have been masturbating 5+ years, that shit f*cks up your real life sexual performance as a man, and that in turn further dips your self confidence to chase or want to be with a female, do you'd always return to the one thing you're good at feeling sad and stroking your penis... It's a vicious cycle. There's nothing good about it, I'm currently in my 20's and in recovery, and I swear every symptom and side effect you could think about I've had it, the highs, the lows, everything. And at the end of the day I wish I never started it at 13, but I was a curious child and I've learnt and now I'm fixing myself, OP, I hope you do the same for yourself, get off of it and start fixing yourself one step at a time, we still have time to recover and get � normal again

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Monben: 11:06am On Sep 17
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided






You can't do it on your own, never. Only God can help you. Just continually drop the addiction at the foot of the cross each time you pray, and watch that burden lift.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ugbede69(m): 11:14am On Sep 17
izuswift:
You are not serious, the duration of two of those videos are like 2hrs. Oga look for a way to watch those videos and be free.
roger that sir I'll find a way of getting it...thanks
I thought it was a short video at first
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Onliie(m): 11:48am On Sep 17
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.
https://www.nairaland.com/5928312/tired-masturbation
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ogbonnachrys: 12:06pm On Sep 17
Are you really black and ugly
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ayopid: 1:06pm On Sep 17
Ayomisure
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Evolutionlove: 1:20pm On Sep 17
mariahAngel:
First of all, don't listen to those who will come to tell you masturbation is not a problem.

Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Evolutionlove: 1:22pm On Sep 17
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you would find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved

You be Oloriburuku somebory. You want the Oloriburukus Poverty Stricken Core Extroverts In Shiiithole like you to advice you so you and the Oloriburukusvan keep on overpopulating the earth......It will never be well with you all......Amen....

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by mariahAngel: 1:30pm On Sep 17
[quote author=Evolutionlove post=94016387][/quote]

If you like, masturbate yourself into oblivion, nobody will notice your inexistence. Drain yourself as much as you want.

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